You hear a LOT about gratitude this time of year. So in that spirit, we have a question for you: Are you grateful for your relationships? Do you truly appreciate your partner(s)? Or have you fallen into the habit of taking your relationships for granted? Let’s talk about why gratitude is so important in your relationships, and how to give your partners the recognition and priority they deserve.

Equality is good, right? In most things, yes. In polyamory, not so much. Because when most polyamorous people talk about equality, they’re really talking about sameness. And trying to make your relationships the same just doesn’t work. Here’s why asking if your relationships are equal is the wrong question, and what you should be asking instead.

Are you losing connection in your polyamorous relationship? If you’ve been together for years, you probably think that’s normal. Even expected. And that’s a lie. Not only is it possible to get back the love and intimacy you had when you first got together. But that connection should be getting stronger as the years pass.

Most polyamorous couples want to find compersion… to be really, truly happy when your partner finds joy in another relationship And yet, while most polyamorous folks WANT compersion, the way they try to find it is completely wrong. So they never get it. And they stay stuck in jealousy, anger, and resentment. Want to know the secret to finding compersion in your relationships?

When you’re exploring non-monogamy, it’s common to run into rough patches along the way. And when that happens, you might wonder: “Should we close the relationship? Should we stop being non-monogamous? Should we go back to it just being us?" Here’s the answer.

Are you playing whack-a-mole in your polyamorous relationships? A problem pops up. You knock it down. It’s immediately replaced by a different problem. And you never actually get to that peaceful, passionate, secure relationship you’re working towards. That sucks. So how can you stop playing the game and build the relationship of your dreams?

Are you playing whack-a-mole in your polyamorous relationships? A problem pops up. You knock it down. It’s immediately replaced by a different problem. And you never actually get to that peaceful, passionate, secure relationship you’re working towards. That sucks. So how can you stop playing the game and build the relationship of your dreams?

If you’re getting started with polyamory, then you probably have a burning question: Does polyamory work??? Well, it’s entirely possible to build a thriving non-monogamous relationship. But there are a lot more ways to fail and blow up your existing relationship. Here’s what you should know if you’re getting started with non-monogamy.

Are you feeling resentful of your partner(s)? Even a little bit? If so, stop whatever you’re doing and listen to this episode.

What would it be like to completely reset your relationship? To have, as we teach our clients, a "day zero?" To put the arguments and history behind you and to move forward together as a team? That's exactly what Chris and Lelly did. They had patterns that had been festering in their relationship for YEARS. But now they have FINALLY put the past behind them. And they're approaching all their challenges—polyamory, children, house fires, COVID—as a team. Here’s how they did it.