Strap in for this wild episode.  Shawn sits with the guys from Bored Juord to get the male perspective on all things dating, sex, and relationships.  Shawn starts the episode off by updating the boys on what has been going on in her life -- weird DMs and tragic date nights.  This night sounds fake but rest assured every ounce of it is sadly true.  Shawn then talks to Juord and Gabe about the sh*t guys do that girls just don’t understand-- and the boys spill the tea on what it all really means.  On this episode, you will get the “full frontal” and honest truth about whether to believe a guys actions or their words, how to know if he likes you,  exploring the bootyhole, and lots more.

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Sex and dating writer (VICE, Refinery29, and Betches) and content manager for Sex with Emily, Amanda Kohr joins Shawn on this week’s episode.  Though it is a little bit of a long one, this episode has tons of good sh*t in it that everyone will learn something from.  Amanda shares her experience being in a toxic relationship and discusses two major signs you can’t ignore.  The girls then discuss communication, and how to become an effective communicator-- especially when it comes to sex and love.  Shawn gives some tips on how you can tell if a person has low emotional intelligence (which is a nice way to say a terrible communicator).  Amanda explains what it is like to navigate her bisexuality while in a relationship with a straight cis man.  Though Amanda seems innocent, don’t be fooled!  She talks about what it was like being a “unicorn,” her DDLG experience, and her best tips to spice up your sex life.

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This week Shawn is joined by singer/songwriter, Bri Tolani.  The girls start off talking about how they met -- on the set of Bri’s music video.  Bri shares about her music and digs deep into her song, Hazy.  Bri discusses the meaning of this song, how it came about, and her vision for the music video.  The girls then share their own struggles with mental illness and how it affects them.  Of course, they then talk about BOYS.  Bri talks about heart break, and spills the tea on the dating scene in LA.

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Shawn is joined by Sex Educator, Jennifer Eden to open the conversation around sex, and exposing the falsehoods of the most common myths about it. They debunk these misconceptions that you have probably heard before.  Shawn and Eden discuss things from blue balls and STIs to butt stuff and p*ssy tightness, looseness, smell & taste.  After you get schooled on why these myths are incorrect, they answer some pretty important listener questions.

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Sex and dating writer, Candice Jalili (Elite Daily, Time, Cosmo) , joins Shawn on episode 7.  Candice talks about her book, Just Send The Text, which is a self help book to let go of anxiety when dating.  The girls take a deeper dive into dating anxieties and how mental health can affect your dating life, and when to share certain intimate details about that to a potential partner.  Candice then shares the idea of anxiety vs intuition-- what it means, and how to differentiate between the two.  The girls then talk about one of the most painful parts of dating culture, rejection and ghosting.  Why does being rejected feel so bad?  Is it ever okay to ghost?  Shawn and Candice answer this as well as listener questions.

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Candice Jalili’s Book:  Just Send The Text

Shawn is joined on the show with an Italian man, Dav, who she met on a dating app.  The two talk about how their date went and how their current dating lives are going.  Dav shares the differences he finds between American and European women, and the contrasts he sees in the culture around sexuality.  The episode takes a turn when Dav dives deep into his recent experience making an “adult film.”  He then divulges his experiences with threesomes and group sex.  Shawn and Dav discuss the best configurations for a threesome, ground rules, how to find a third when you’re in a relationship, and how to not compare yourself to the additional person in the bedroom, and lots lots MORE.

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Shawn takes Episode 4 solo to break down what daddy issues really are from a psychology standpoint.  She starts the episode giving updates on her work life and lays out some major red flags she ignored while dating.  Shawn explains attachment theory, insecure attachment styles, and how your upbringing from childhood can affect your relationships.  She gets deep about her own personal struggles with her own daddy issues and reveals how they manifest within her.

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