Trail Blazers & Chain Breakers

Want a couple guaranteed ways to land your relationship in the doghouse?  In this episode we hit on our top 5... We talk about complaints & criticism, the causes of defensiveness, earning your partners trust back when you haven't always been a safe place for communicating & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

We all have our own inner compass & intuition, but for most of us it was conditioned out of us by some combination of school, society, our parents and friends.  In today's episode, we talk about how to rediscover this, how to develop faith in ourselves instead of relying on others to tell us what is right for us, growth mindset for adults, and more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

Let's be honest... we all have times where we find our kids annoying! Today's episode is all about these situations and what to do when you find yourself there. We cover kids being demanding, defiant, stubborn, loud, dramatic, bossy & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

Pretty much everything we know about a successful relationship, we learned from screwing it up first.  Today, we're talking about Relationship Check-Ins: what they are, how we've screwed them up, how they work for us now, and some tips for anyone interested in doing them (or doing them better)...

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

Emotions are a difficult topic for most of us... Most of us are full of unhealthy conditioning around feeling, expressing and receiving emotions. Today we dive deep on handling emotions, feeling and expressing them, where anger can be useful, when emotions can cause physical illness and more!

This episode is an audio version of the LIVE show we do on Instagram every Friday @ 8:30 AM, called "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke." The audio quality may not always be great- we're on our phones, with no recording equipment or microphones. Please forgive us for any occasional audio hiccup! We include these episodes because we feel the content & conversations are worth sharing in podcast format. Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

You know the expression, "when life throws you a curveball..." Or "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade..."  In today's episode, we use these common clichés to lay out a framework for how to respond to the unexpected and to make the most out of tough situations. Building on some of the difficult situations we've been facing over the past couple weeks, we'll cover faith, being  a team with your partner, finding gratitude in the suck & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

We've been getting a lot of questions lately about healing & growing together as a couple... We don't have all the answers, but we've certainly learned some things through our journey of healing together (mostly through making mistakes until we discovered a better way). In today's episode we talk about what needs to be present in a relationship when both are trying to heal and grow, pitfalls and mistakes that we have made in our journey healing together and much more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

When you look around the world, people are offended, people are triggered, or even better... people are offended that someone else is triggered!  When you become offended, you enter victimhood, and when you enter victimhood, you give away your power.  In this episode we'll dive deep on being offended, refusing victimhood, no longer giving other people your power, and more!

This episode is an audio version of the LIVE show we do on Instagram every Friday @ 8:30 AM, called "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke." The audio quality may not always be great- we're on our phones, with no recording equipment or microphones. Please forgive us for any occasional audio hiccup! We include these episodes because we feel the content & conversations are worth sharing in podcast format. Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

"I don't fix my problems. I fix my thinking and my problems fix themselves."  But how do we fix our thinking? How do we even catch ourselves going down the rabbit hole of creating our own problems? 

This episode is an audio version of the LIVE show we do on Instagram every Friday @ 8:30 AM, called "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke." The audio quality may not always be great- we're on our phones, with no recording equipment or microphones. Please forgive us for any occasional audio hiccup! We include these episodes because we feel the content & conversations are worth sharing in podcast format. Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com

This week, we're talking Crabs In A Bucket: what are they, how do they affect us, when do we act as the crabs to others and ourselves, and much more!

This episode is an audio version of the LIVE show we do on Instagram every Friday @ 8:30 AM, called "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke." The audio quality may not always be great- we're on our phones, with no recording equipment or microphones. Please forgive us for any occasional audio hiccup! We include these episodes because we feel the content & conversations are worth sharing in podcast format. Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the show, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To find Ashley and learn more about her coaching services, go to www.AshleyHaman.com
To download a copy of our FREE eBook: "How To Break The Chains of Status Quo" visit
www.ScrewStatusQuo.com