What does it look like to lead a hurting school toward healing?
In this episode of Transformational Educators, Dr. Matthew Flippen speaks with Julia Bielecki, award-winning education leader, former principal, and author of Leading with Grace, about rebuilding trust, navigating racial tension in schools, and leading with courage and compassion.
When Julia stepped into her first principalship in 2019, she quickly discovered the role was not about management or instructional plans. It was about repairing harm, restoring trust, and guiding a fractured community toward connection. In this powerful, story-driven conversation, she shares practical strategies for school culture transformation, servant leadership in education, and leading through crisis with integrity.
If you are an aspiring or current school leader who feels the weight of responsibility, isolation, or culture challenges, this episode will remind you that lasting change begins with relationships.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Why leadership in a hurting school begins with listening, not fixing
• How unresolved racial issues can fracture students, families, and staff
• The power of one on one relationship-building in rebuilding trust
• Three intentional questions that shaped Julia’s first year as principal
• How presence, communication, and connectedness became her leadership focus
• Why small daily actions create long-term cultural momentum
• How to move from crisis response to collaborative vision building
• What authentic apology and humility look like in school leadership
• A real story of a fractured parent relationship that became a thriving partnership
Chapters
00:00:00 - Coming up...
00:01:09 - Stepping into a first principalship
00:03:31 - “I had been selected to lead at this moment in time”
00:05:05 - Facing the weight of leadership responsibility
00:05:59 - How hurt fractured the staff and community
00:08:40 - Trusting instincts and leaning into connection
00:13:04 - Strategic leadership begins with relationships
00:16:41 - The three questions that shaped her first year
00:18:59 - Building connectedness in a large, divided campus
00:25:27 - Recognizing cultural momentum through small wins
00:28:43 - When the staff was ready to rebuild vision together
00:31:16 - A fractured parent relationship transformed
00:34:39 - Leading with authenticity, apology, and grace
00:36:01 - How to connect with Julia and her work
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