In this two-part interview, we continue our series Suffering Transformed, honest conversations about some of the hardest days and seasons in our lives and where we can go for help and hope. Barrett interviews Sladjan Milenkovic, who is from the country of Serbia. Barrett first met Sladjan during the season when he his daughter Sara were Memphis in receive treatment at St Jude for a serious, aggressive form of pediatric cancer that Sara had been diagnosed with in Serbia. A close relationship was formed between their families and Barrett’s church, which served as their church home while they were in Memphis. That relationship continues to this day, now in form of a partnership with Camp Hope, started by the Milenkovic family to minister to pediatric cancer families across the entire Balkan region. Sladjan is the director of HUB Bible.
Sladjan speaks about the topic of suffering out of his life’s experience. He discusses suffering he knows as a man, as a dad, and as a citizen of his country in Serbia. He speaks not only from his experience with Sara’s cancer but also, more recently, his personal experience battling COVID-19 in Serbia.
This interview discusses a variety of topics related to suffering, including how to make sense of it and deal with it as children of God. The conversation speaks from depth of experience and desire for knowing more of the beauty and purposes of God. In this second part of the interview, Sladjan opens up about the big questions he had during his suffering and the frustration he felt with trite things others would say in their attempts to comfort him during such dark and broken times. He discusses the ways he found strength and hope in God during such a difficult season, the unique opportunities suffering has given him to relate to others who have experienced similar brokenness, and how to take a bigger perspective of all that's going on in the midst of suffering. Sladjan also shares the profound and moving quote from his daughter Sara that completely transformed his thinking about what they had experienced together.
Not many people talk about these things as directly and authentically as Sladjan does, from his own heart, God’s Word, and the pain of his own experience. If you are in the midst of suffering, desire to know how to minister to others in the midst of suffering, or desire to be prepared for future season of suffering, this interview will benefit your greatly. As you listen to this conversation, you will be led to help and hope in realization that you are not alone in your experience and, more importantly, that God sees, knows, cares for, and loves you even (and especially) during suffering seasons.