Transparency

And everyone has to start from the beginning.

Don’t compare your chapter 1 to her chapter 20

Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping it will kill your enemies

Use envy or jealousy as fuel.

Detach yourself from being competitive and get creative instead.

An opportunity for someone else does not mean a lack of opportunity for you.

Success leaves clues, and it’s important to follow the footsteps of the people you are fomo ing over, to see how they did it.

They paved the way for you.

We all stand on the shoulders of giants, even the most famous, successful people in the world build off of the ideas that came before them.

Turn your mess into your message.

Don’t hide your past.

Your past makes you stand out!

For example how many people these days are health coaches online, and how many stories you have seen on gut health and how to heal your gut?

Omg sooooooo many stories like that!!

Now stand out and share the story that you almost pooped in your pants cause your gut health was off and you had to race to a bathroom while standing in line somewhere.

Now that story will make you human!

And this will allow others to open up about their poop story….cause you know we all have some!

Embrace the mess, bless this mess (I always say)

Relatability is key when it comes to connecting.

There is always going to be someone else who does exactly the same thing as you.

So, if you stick purely to the topic and say nothing about yourself, you are just going to be another voice, lost in the crowd.

But I can promise you, there is only one you!

Nobody else has your story, your voice, and your point of view.

So, if you want to stand out in the field of competitors, and be the expert that people want to go to, tell the stories, that only you can tell.

Can you think of your own relatable maybe even messy story?

Wanna hear one of mine, real quick?!

So today, while my hubby and I were having lunch with another couple, we were chatting about our furry baby Dobby for a bit, who had had another seizure a few days ago, and the last one was with them on the hiking trail.

So I said, I’m already shopping for our next furry baby, then my hubby said, slow your roll a bit hunny, we still have Dobby, and he’s not going anywhere just yet, and he’s not the kinda dog who likes to share the attention.

I said, oh I know and I totally agree, but knowing myself, I make the pain less hard, if I have the next project lined up.

I know it from when my late hubby passed, I very quickly got back into the dating game and on all the dating websites, so the pain was less

Maybe this is why God never made me a mother

Sometimes I scream how ignorant people are when they advertise their stuff they don't show the whole picture

It is so important to make everyone feel heard seen, appreciated and acknowledged

Gosh, don’t you hate these people, who only talk about themselves! And you know exactly who I’m talking about right?! The people who don’t let you get a word in, the people who are always one upping everyone, and showing off. Humble people are sexy! And hard to find. People who don’t take themselves so serious.

Sharing two words with you, that have helped me create financial freedom.

DO SOMETHING!

The thing that initiates momentum is action!

A lot of people think their actions need to be big and profound, but it’s quite the opposite!

Any type of action step in the direction of a goal will do.

For example, posting one piece of content, making one phone call, sending one email, or even purchasing a new journal.

This can all produce a tiny win, that will give you that little bit of dopamine you need to kickstart some momentum.

The law of action

We are the only ones who can initiate our own stuckness.

And we are also the only ones who can get us out of it.

There is no magic YouTube video, podcast, or course to get unstuck.

Journaling, vision boarding, and thinking big won’t fix it either.

You can’t have the law of attraction without the law of action.

Talking about action…let me tell you some funny stories about my actions in the dating world, back when I was single.

Fasten your seatbelt…it wasn’t easy.

I was a real like fatal attraction whackadoodle.

And people can smell desperation a mile away.

I quickly realized I had to keep working on myself.

I had to keep taking action to turn into the gal, my dream guy would be attracted to.

My daily walks while listening to podcasts, audible and music really paid of in the dating dept as well

I took dating really serious, like a full time job, weeding out the bad ones.

And I finally manifested what was on my vision board….a tall over 6 feet tall good looking all American guy, humble, sweet, super smart, funny, and didn’t take himself too serious.

You can dream all you want, but if you don’t start taking action, nothing will happen.

Let’s start with you taking action, with every day doing “Dare of the Day”

Do something every day what scares you, until you train that muscle and it becomes muscle memory.

Taking action is the only path to make your dreams a reality.

Worrying, is like praying for things you don’t want.

Be daring!

Take that leap!

My boutique biz became financially a success, once I kept showing up for myself, sticking to my word, and at the same time earning trust from others.

By popular demand. Your wish is my command. Sharing more details of my private jet flight attendant career.

Our perspective is what creates our beliefs, and our beliefs are what dictate our actions.

One of the reasons we can get stuck, is when we chose to focus on what we don’t have.

When we start focusing on what we DO have, that’s when magic happens!

You will start to create more of what you already have and what you are grateful for!

Even bigger and better!

Gratitude is a natural anti depressant.

Story time…when I became a widow super young, I was back at the drawing board.

I could have wallowed in my misery.

Or snapped out of it, and step into a stronger version of myself.

Of course this didn’t happen overnight.

My land lord in Beverly Hills, put me in my place, rightfully so, and that was a wake up call for me.

I went on long daily walks for hours on end in Beverly Hills and Hollywood with airpods in listening to all the self development podcasts I could find.

Moved to a smaller, affordable place, still had to go back to dancing, and I Airbnb’d my place out.

That meant I had to crash on friends couches though for a while.

Gosh I can tell you all the juicy stories of that time….got a minute?!🤪👀🙈

Shit has to happen, before shift can happen.

When the universe gives you what you desire, marinate in it, enjoy the crap out of it, because the more grateful you are, the more of it you will receive.

Create momentum

Everybody poops💩

Imposter syndrome

Everyone has it

See it

Believe it

Do it

Receive it

Repeat it

Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Don’t fake it before you make it.

Stay present.

Enjoy the process.

Keep learning.

Stay humble.

Make sure you are doing the damn thing.

Stay consistent.

Confidence comes from consistently sticking to the commitments you make with yourself.

Fear is one destructive force and it shows up wearing a lot of different hats fear of success for fear of the unknown fear of what they will think and who are they anyway??