Join us in this episode where we breakdown and discuss how to resolve conflict with an anxious attachment partner. We review with anxious attachment style, put it into context of the relationship and provide advice on how to best resolve conflict. A great compliments to Episode 62 on How To Resolve Conflict With An Avoidant Partner. Listen to both episodes with your partner for the greatest impact!

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Join us in this episode as well discuss the importance of playing as a couple. We outline different ways couples can play, such as sharing hobbies, creative outlets, or physical activities such as hiking or camping. We also discuss the benefits of relearning how to play as a couple. This episode hopes to inspire you to let go of your problems for a little while and create some shared play experiences that create a deeper bond and some joy in your relationship.

Join us in this episode where we break down and discuss how to resolve conflict with an avoidant partner. Partner's who lean towards the avoidant style of coping, often deal with their anxiety over ruptures to the relationship by shutting down, dismissing their partner's feelings, and generally moving away from the conflict. This can be extremely frustrating for the more anxious partner who is seeking connection. We take a look at several ways to help resolve conflict by creating safety for the avoidant partner.

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Join us in this episode where we unpack how to provide your partner with a corrective emotional experience. When trauma creates a negative self concept, it often takes a new "corrective" experience in order for the person to heal. Our partners and spouses are ideal to help us heal by providing us with a new emotional experience that doesn't repeat past traumas. We define what a corrective emotional experience is, talk about the essential qualities that need to be in place in order to have an impact, and I provide some examples of actually phrases that have transpired in the therapy room with other couples.

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In this episode we discuss the creative coping mechanism of dissociation. We unpack it's features, symptoms, and put into context how our brain creates this option when other coping options are not available. We dispel some myths around dissociation, and we discuss how to pull back into your sense of self when you are dissociating, thereby helping you return to the here and now in your relationship.

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Join us in this episode where we learn about some of the most important cognitive biases that act as a lens in our relationships. Trauma distorts our perceptions of others at times, and when it does, he can fall prey to certain cognitive biases in order to manage our self image and our self-esteem. We break down a list of the common cognitive distortions, how they work, and how we can ultimately pull our of our distortions and get back to a place where we can see other and ourselves more clearly.

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Join us in this episode where we break down the concept of Window of Tolerance. This is as device used to describe how we manage, and ultimately regulate our emotions. Trauma disrupts our ability to tolerate strong negative emotions without going into fight, flight or freeze. We discuss ways to regulate ourselves, and ways to increase our Window of Tolerance so that we can increase our capacity to feel calm, confident, and connection. A can't miss episode!

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Join us in this episode where we reflect on three indisputable facts of being human. First, that we are intricately bound to one another through our relationship. Woven into the very fabric of our being is that we need others. Second, through our relational nature we are also hurt, wounded, and traumatized by our relationships. And finally we can heal by creating new, healthy relationships.

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Join us in this episode where we explore the wisdom of the emotions. Our feelings aren't something we should be scared of, even the bad ones carry important information that tells us something about our experience. But for many tapping into their embodied emotions has been a struggle. They tend to live in their head and intellectualize the problems in the relationship. What this means is that they end up confused by their partners behaviors at times or they simply lack the ability to emphasize with their partner for a deeper sense of connection. Walk with us as we discover how to connect more with the wisdom of the heart.

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Join us as we discuss the 3 ways trauma impacts your relationship. If you have past wounds and are unsure of how they prevent you from having the kind of relationship you long for, then this episode is for you. Are you ever confused by your feelings and behavior? Do you ever question, why do I feel this way, or why did I get so upset about that? We shine a light on past trauma and how it creates a barrier to having the kind of relationship you really desire. A must listen to episode.

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