Trauma Informed Parent

This podcast explores our insights on having experienced significant childhood trauma and how that impacted our experience of parenting children who experienced their own serious traumas.

Rabbi Dr. Arielle Hanien is a clinical psychologist recognized for her scholarship in both ancient and contemporary Jewish thought, the resolution of trauma, developmental psychology, education, neuroscience, somatic experiencing and AI technology. This episode includes discussion of:

- How spirituality can facilitate healing.
- What is meant by a "collective nervous system."
- When trauma causes us to move away from our faith.
- Somatic tools for kids who are overwhelmed

The Life is Good Playmaker Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping kids heal from childhood trauma. Clinical Social Worker, Steve Gross is the "Chief Playmaker."

For over 30 years, Steve has pioneered innovative, play-based, trauma interventions for communities around the world. Steve's work is rooted in his belief that play is the universal language of children and that adults must speak it fluently in order to help them heal, grow, and thrive. His unique approach has been instrumental for communities around the world facing large-scale trauma events including Ukraine, Haiti and communities impacted by gun violence. Steve's work was featured as an example of how play can be used in therapy in the longtime #1 New York Times Bestseller, "The Body Keeps the Score." 

In this podcast Steve discusses the following:

-His response to those who say that focusing "optimism" and "play" is unrealistic  when it comes to addressing trauma.

-How to handle the aftermath of a traumatic event with a child. Do we discuss or not discuss it? Avoid reminders or sit with reminders?

-How to help children who are burdened by constant worrying

-Tools and games that parents - particularly foster parents - can use to help emotionally dysregulated kids feel safe 

-Why kids who have experienced trauma need both choice and structure and how parents and caregivers can provide this.

-Why unstructured play - in the form of jumping, running, and climbing are essential for kids who have endured trauma and are just as "therapeutic" as conventional "therapies." 

-Why caring for your own needs is the first step in bringing the power of optimism and joy to your child.

-Why trauma is not about what has happened to a child. It is about how the child "perceives" what happened.

Dr. Peter Levine, founder of Somatic Experiencing and author of numerous bestselling books including, "Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma," and "Trauma Through a Child's Eyes."  This podcast disucsses the following topics:

-How and why less significant stressors such as certain medical procedures or accidents can lead to symptoms of trauma
-Caring for your own fear/activation in order to avoid it being projected onto your child
-Signs of trauma a parent or caregiver may miss.
-Why we need to stop saying, "kids are resilient."
-Healthy Aggression
-Dr. Levine's perspective on the root of the youth mental health crises
-Cultivating wordless experiences that help a child know "in their body" that they are loved.
-The most important thing adults can do to "co-regulate" with a child who has had a trauma.

For more info on Dr. Levine's work, visit: www.somaticexperiencing.com.
To view "Somatic Experiencing - Ray's Story,"  visit:    • Somatic Experiencing® -- Ray's Story  

In this episode, Suzy and Catherine have an engaging and edifying discussion with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk whose seminal book, The Body Keeps the Score has provided invaluable perspective on the subject of trauma. Among topics discussed in this episode:

• Benefits of EMDR
• Shame
• Risks of "Mindfulness"
• The Role of Play in Trauma
• Medication
• Finding the Right Help for Your Child
• Psychedelics
• Screen Time/Social Media
• What is Meant by "Getting Stuck in Trauma"
• The Difference Between Trauma & Anxiety

And more...

Trauma Informed Parent was launched over twelve years ago by Suzy DeYoung to offer parents and caregivers of children who have experienced trauma information and resources on the nature of trauma, how and when it can manifest, and how they can best help the children in their care. This information was largely unavailable in 2004 when Suzy's son suffered a very traumatic accident.

The newest Trauma Informed Parent team member, Catherine Galda, LCSW, has extensive experience - both personally and professionally - caring for both children and adults who have endured a traumatic experience.

In this episode - the launch of the Trauma Informed Parent podcast - Suzy and Catherine share their personal and professional experiences and what led them here. They also share what to expect from this podcast as well as upcoming guests which include Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score and other prominent voices both in the field and who have cared for children with trauma.