s your spouse super selfish? Or, maybe you're the selfish one in the relationship? If so, it's time to nip that sh*t in the bud! Do you know "someone" who ALWAYS has to be right?! Who is QUICK to react? Who always takes control of the conversation. When it comes to healthy, happy relationships, it's important to be selfLESS, understanding, and flexible.  In this episode, the Trufants discuss what it means to be selfish, who is the selfish one in their marriage, and how to overcome your selfish ways. 

Welcome to episode 50! If you're looking for a way to reconnect, laugh, and get to know your significant other even deeper here are 8 questions you must ask - tonight! Take notes, because Marcus and Jessica get real deep and funny with these questions. 

Maybe you convinced yourself that your partner would never find out about your side-piece. Of course, your partner DID find out and now you're about to lose your family over some fling. Do marriages survive infidelity? Short answer - yes. But, if you're the cheater, you have to realize that you made the decision to RISK. IT. ALL. Now you have to do absolutely everything you can to rebuild your partner's trust, to make your partner feel safe with you again, to convince your partner that you are not only reliable but that you are also credible. In this episode, the Trufants discuss the emotional journey toward healing that takes place after infidelity. Cheating doesn't always lead to divorce. But, cheating does 100% lead to some uncomfortable moments that, if you overcome them, can help you rebuild a strong, trusting, loving marriage. 

From stepping outside your marriage to intense arguments and just pure exhaustion - if you're thinking about calling it quits and are considering divorce this episode is for you. Sure, relationships are hard and go through ups and downs, but how do you know when it's definitely time to divorce? Let's talk about how to know when it's for sure time to get out.

If you're having money problems in your marriage, you're not alone. At some point, most marriages encounter financial stress. From student loans to overspending and financial secrets - money issues can kill a happy marriage. In this episode, the Trufants discuss the top money issues that impact marriages (according to experts). We dive into questions like, 

- How do you resolve money issues in a marriage? 

- Can a marriage survive money problems?

- Should you put your spouse on an allowance? 

- How to deal with debt in marriage? 

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Do you get mad that your significant other has friends of the opposite sex? Or, is it no-big-deal? What’s appropriate and what’s inappropriate when you have friends of the opposite sex and are married or in a committed relationship? When could these relationships be seen as a threat to your marriage? What are some things you should NEVER do with a friend of the opposite sex? In this episode, we talk about what relationship experts say and how Marcus and Jessica feel about these relationships.


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Do you tell your friends and family about your relationship problems? You probably are (and you don't even know it). There are times when you might feel like you're venting, but the experts say that oversharing is toxic. It can break your partner's trust, cause your friends/family to think differently about your partner, and cause a ton of other problems in your marriage. 

In this episode, we reveal 5 ways you're oversharing and how to stop. 

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We asked sex expert Tiffynee Terry-Thomas all the juicy questions to keep a relationship fresh, sexy, and exciting. We talked about experimenting and trying new things between the sheets, the idea of "open relationships" (and if it can really work), and what GOOD sex even is. If you're ready to have the best sex of your life this year, listen on!

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As 2021 closes out, it's important to reflect on your relationship together and ask some important questions to make the next year, the best year. In this episode, the Trufants open up about 2021 and share answers to some questions - like, Jessica buying a puppy (without Marcus). 


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Life can get hard when a man has a wife and also a baby mama. From insecurities, disrespect, attention, personalities, and taking responsibility - it's a lot to juggle. Sometimes there are issues between all parties involved. So, where do you draw the line? Can wives and baby-mamas ever get along? What exactly is a baby mama? In this episode, we dive into the nitty-gritty of this sometimes complicated family dynamic. 

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