Do you do everything for your boyfriend that you think a wife does? Sex, cook, clean, grocery shop, laundry...blah, blah, blah? Basically, giving him all the privileges of being a husband without the commitment? Then you wonder why he hasn't married you yet after all this time. Now, if you're in a relationship where you have both decided that marriage is not your thing, this episode is probably NOT for you. For everyone else - your boyfriend is NOT your husband and it's time to stop treating him as such, especially if you want to get married and he doesn't. Period. And all those things you "think" you're doing for him that a wife should do - any woman could do that. Maybe he's stringing you along. Maybe he doesn't want to "fix something that's not broken"...

Whatever the case may be, in this episode the Trufants get real about relationships where the couple is not married, but (usually) the woman goes above and beyond to act like a wife in an attempt to possibly prove herself as worthy wife. Listen up, this one is going to ruffle a few feathers. 

Nearly 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. So, why do more women than men call it quits on marriage? Maybe, just maybe, it's because they do not benefit from marriage in the same way that men do. Gender roles traditionally teach women to prepare to be a "good wife" their entire lives whereas men are taught to build careers. Ultimately, as times have changed, married women might get fed up with this narrative and decide that marriage cannot benefit them in the way they need. 

 In this episode, the Trufants discuss who usually benefits more from marriage - men or women? And, what can be done to make it feel more equal on both sides to have a lasting marriage. 

The "honeymoon" phase of relationships inevitably wanes and you're left to deal with REAL love. Real love is not always easy and it takes a lot of work. From feelings of loneliness to one person chasing the other to toxic partners - there are some very brutal truths that are often learned the hard way, by living (and learning) through them. Ask anyone you know who's been together a long time and they'll probably agree that these 5 things are true in most successful relationships. Or, they learned them in previous relationships. In this episode, the Trufants discuss these harsh truths and how they made it through.

From "liking" someone's old pics to sliding in their DMs - what is considered flirting and what is considered just being friendly? In this episode, the Trufants discuss what is going too far on Instagram, when to steer clear of an "admirer" (or stalker) or when to get your flirt on (if you're single, that is)

Are you jealous AF over the pettiest things? Maybe they're not "petty" to YOU, but they feel silly to your spouse...in this episode, the Trufants talk about the top 6 things that make partners jealous in a relationship and if it's even appropriate to feel jealous in those situations. 

After 14 years of marriage, we’ve made it through so much together. On our anniversary we like to reflect on our lives together and celebrate all that we have accomplished. In the episode, we let you in on some of the funny moments, personal stories, and best advice we’ve learned over the years. 

Disney with kids is supposed to be a magical experience! LOL! Disneyland is the happiest place on earth, but let's be real it can get overwhelming fast. Hear all about The Trufant's trip to Disneyland with 5 kids and two grandmas. Will they ever make that trip again? Listen to find out. 

True or false: all women can orgasm from penetration? Pounding equals more pleasure, right? WRONG! For your safety and sexual satisfaction, Sexologist Tiffynee Terry-Thomas debunks some of the most common sex myths. She joins the Trufants in a hilarious, candid discussion about sex myths that you probably believe to be true and drops some sex-truth bombs for you to use tonight (wink wink)

Marriage ain't easy! Here are the 5 "hot button" issues plaguing couples today and what to do about it. 

If you've ever lived with someone of the opposite sex you've probably noticed that men and women react totally differently to "colds" or the flu. Usually, men are DOWN FOR THE COUNT with any little ache or sniffle. Women, on the other hand, will suck that shit up and go about their life. Where's the lie? In this episode, the Trufants discuss the "Man Flu" phenomenon. Do the stereotypes ring true in their household or is it all a myth?