Jessica is turning the big 4-0! Listen to how she feels about hitting the milestone birthday and what their plans are for the big day (hint: it's a tropical vacation with NO kids)

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Good looks can fade. Money comes and goes. Personalities can change. So, what's the MOST important when it comes to dating and relationships? A lot of money, good looks, or a great personality? Everyone could have their own answer to that question depending on their preferences. Here's what the Trufants say matters most to them. 

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In the heat of the moment, it's easy to rush into sex without thinking about the consequences of unprotected sex. Sometimes it seems like people are more concerned with pregnancy than with STDs. Until YOU catch something. With an estimated 80% of sexually active adults being infected with HPV, sexual health is something that needs to be talked about more often. In this episode, the Trufants discuss safe sex, how long to wait before sex, when it's ok to have unprotected sex, and how to go about having the STD talk with a new partner. 

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Is Father's Day less important? Dads Marcus and Kel say that sometimes Father's Day feels less important. While Jessica debates the reasons why such a huge emphasis is placed on Mother's Day. And, is it OK for single mothers to hijack Father's Day? Do dads deserve better gifts? 

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Breakups suck. They're hard and they hurt. It's just part of life - relationships don't always work out. Maybe you're just not compatible or you mutually decide to call it quits. But, there comes a point where you not being able to "keep a man" might be more about YOU and you're own unresolved issues. It's a tough pill to swallow and even harder to admit that maybe, just maybe, you are not "perfect" and that you have faults as well. 

A strong, lasting, healthy relationship is made up of two whole individuals who are ready for a long-term commitment. Sometimes, before you are able to reach that level of commitment you need to do some self-care and get work on yourself. It's not always easy, but it's worth it in the long run. 

In this episode, the Trufants get real about the 3 main reasons why some women can't keep a man and the steps they can take to make sure they find "Mr. Right"...instead of  "Mr. Right Now" or "Mr. WRONG"

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Do you do everything for your boyfriend that you think a wife does? Sex, cook, clean, grocery shop, laundry...blah, blah, blah? Basically, giving him all the privileges of being a husband without the commitment? Then you wonder why he hasn't married you yet after all this time. Now, if you're in a relationship where you have both decided that marriage is not your thing, this episode is probably NOT for you. For everyone else - your boyfriend is NOT your husband and it's time to stop treating him as such, especially if you want to get married and he doesn't. Period. And all those things you "think" you're doing for him that a wife should do - any woman could do that. Maybe he's stringing you along. Maybe he doesn't want to "fix something that's not broken"...

Whatever the case may be, in this episode the Trufants get real about relationships where the couple is not married, but (usually) the woman goes above and beyond to act like a wife in an attempt to possibly prove herself as worthy wife. Listen up, this one is going to ruffle a few feathers. 

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Nearly 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. So, why do more women than men call it quits on marriage? Maybe, just maybe, it's because they do not benefit from marriage in the same way that men do. Gender roles traditionally teach women to prepare to be a "good wife" their entire lives whereas men are taught to build careers. Ultimately, as times have changed, married women might get fed up with this narrative and decide that marriage cannot benefit them in the way they need. 

 In this episode, the Trufants discuss who usually benefits more from marriage - men or women? And, what can be done to make it feel more equal on both sides to have a lasting marriage. 

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The "honeymoon" phase of relationships inevitably wanes and you're left to deal with REAL love. Real love is not always easy and it takes a lot of work. From feelings of loneliness to one person chasing the other to toxic partners - there are some very brutal truths that are often learned the hard way, by living (and learning) through them. Ask anyone you know who's been together a long time and they'll probably agree that these 5 things are true in most successful relationships. Or, they learned them in previous relationships. In this episode, the Trufants discuss these harsh truths and how they made it through.

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From "liking" someone's old pics to sliding in their DMs - what is considered flirting and what is considered just being friendly? In this episode, the Trufants discuss what is going too far on Instagram, when to steer clear of an "admirer" (or stalker) or when to get your flirt on (if you're single, that is)

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Are you jealous AF over the pettiest things? Maybe they're not "petty" to YOU, but they feel silly to your spouse...in this episode, the Trufants talk about the top 6 things that make partners jealous in a relationship and if it's even appropriate to feel jealous in those situations. 

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