Trust in Joy

My most vulnerable episode yet.    I had a reading done by Shamanic Healer Felicia Armstrong. During our session, my grandparents came to speak through Felicia and what they said gave me direction and warmed my heart.

From FeliciaArmstrong.com, What is a Reading?

"A beautiful communication with your unique helping spirits to receive messages that serve your highest good and illuminate your life's path.

For those looking for insight into a major life transition like moving, a career change, a health issue, or a relationship.

For those looking to understand their quirks and embrace their gifts both in acknowledging past lives and in learning about their astrological blueprint.

In other words, readings are great entry points to creating a deeper understanding of self, which leads to overall less struggle and more satisfaction."

Connect with Felicia--> FeliciaArmstrong.com

Connect with Lena ---> LenaPorter.com

The Book that Inspired These Dates---> The Artist Way

Bonus! 10 of My Favorite Podcast Episodes

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What happens when you arrive an hour before closing time at the largest flower market in the U.S.? Well, there's nothing left.

It was disappointing not having any flowers to choose from. But my date turned around, when I went to Bea's Detroit and got to build my own drink (floral ice cubes!) and stumbled upon the most unusual sight on the drive home.

 

Resources: 

Enter the Mother's Day Giveaway--> www.lenaporter.com

Bea's Detroit

Eastern Market

The book that inspired these dates: The Artist Way

Instagram: @datinglena @lenaporter

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I took a turn, literally, and found myself walking along a lake I didn't know existed. I went for a walk on this week's date. Sounds basic, but I discovered something important about what I want in the future. Maybe you can relate?

Resources 
Literati (kids book club) + $5 OFF 

Book: Dinosaurs Aren't Extinct

Beirut Bakery

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Book: The Artist Way (that inspired these dates)

Instagram: @datinglena @lenaporter

About Lena: https://www.lenaporter.com/
 

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I've passed this place for 2 years without knowing it existed. The weather changed and so did my plans. I didn't get my Turkish Lemonade, but I did discover some of the best smelling candles and playful casual clothes inside Late Bird, a women's boutique.

As mentioned, here are some suggestions for "loungewear that isn't tight," specifically joggers and lighter sweatpants. 

 

Resources:

• Sweatpants and jogger picks
• Use Code: LENA4 at ShopLateBird.com to receive 10% off sitewide
• See my new smiley face sweatshirt on Instagram: @lenaporter
• The Artist Way (the book that inspired these dates) 
• About Lena: https://www.lenaporter.com/
• Schedule a style chat

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If thinking of something fun to do by yourself feels like too much effort or another thing to add to your list, listen in as I share ideas on how to come up with ideas for YOUR next solo date.

Also, it's a milestone—20th episode! I read off feedback from listeners. Thank you for being a part of this podcast and embracing the importance of guilt-free, routine, self-care.

 

Resources:

The Artist Date (the book that inspired these dates)

Headspace app (for adult and kid meditations)

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As a Personal Stylist, I've been detoxing closets for the past 12 years—on this date, I'm inside my closet. Listen in to hear what I'm keeping, what I'm letting go of and tips to help you decide what to do with your own clothes.    Resources: 

Schedule a style chat: 

https://www.lenaporter.com/contact

Closet Detox sessions (in-person or virtual): https://www.lenaporter.com/styling-services

Donate your t-shirts to: Marine Layer

Donate your designer brands/handbags to: Re-SEE

Donate your non-high-end clothes to: ThredUp 

The book that inspired these dates: https://bookshop.org/shop/lena

About Lena: https://www.lenaporter.com/

Don't forget to email: [email protected] to enter to win the Rivage Day Spa facial giveaway! The winner will be selected on April 1st.

 

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I learned a bunch from the esthetician during my French facial, like what's the real purpose of toner and why you might not need all those fancy facial gadgets. I told her about this show and the purpose of solo dates. After hearing this, I learned she likes to make artfully designed "cakesicles!" All of us enjoy doing something. Go do the thing!

Also, Rivage Day Spa is generously doing a giveaway for listeners of this show. Listen in for the details and remember to email: 

[email protected] to be entered into the drawing! 

Resources: 

Rivage Day Spa

Flo app

In The Flo Book

Cakesicles

The book that inspired these dates

About Lena

Personal Styling Services

Instagram: @datinglena

* Sign up to receive my 10 fav podcast episodes! (from a variety of podcasters)

 

 

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Exactly a year ago, amongst a crowd of 15,000 people, I watched Oprah speak on wellness and purpose. I was in Denver at the Pepsi Center for her 2020 Vision Tour. In this episode, I retell the story of my ultimate solo date—a weekend away. (And the funny now, but not at the time, travel fiasco!) 

 

Resouces: 

Daybreaker

Video of Oprah speaking

Lena's Personal Styling Services

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What's one thing you can do now, in March 2021 that would make you feel like your vision for March 2024 could happen? 

This was proposed to me during my personal stylist group coaching call. It's my assignment this week; you can make it yours too!

For this episode's date, I got back into making an inspiration board, something I always used to do but haven't in years. 

 

Resouces:

* Get in on the fun & see the dates' videos & photos 

* Book a Personal Stylist

* Konfekt magazine 

* Porter magazine

* The book that inspired these dates

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What do you think it's like inside a marijuana dispensary? Picture an Apple store + a chic hotel + french bakery. Really.

Listen in as I describe the scene and share the details of what I learned inside Lume Cannabis Co. Hint: This isn't Veronica, Kevin and Frank's weed operation sold through the Alibi. (Do you watch Shameless?)

 

Resources: 

• Watch the video we made
• Lume Cannabis Co.

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