TRUSTED by your Teenager with Kristen Duke

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Sharing an embarrassing story about myself in order to help you remember a very important tip to better address conflict.

Also sharing more about this on Instagram this week: https://www.instagram.com/kristendukechats/

Sometimes people get confused when I say the goal is to earn teens trust, so I'm elaborating a bit on that here, (and what it's NOT) as well as summarizing 5 of the biggest parenting blindspots.

The TRUSTED Challenge starts Monday, January 13th! https://kristenduke.com/trusted/

Referenced a few videos on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/kristendukechats/

Sharing thoughts on how we have had family scripture study over the years, and the benefits of memorizing scriptures both for your teen and your family.

Check out the scripture memorization cards here: https://members.kristenduke.com/doctrinal-mastery-cards/

Coming soon: share light online with 52 weekly prompts throughout the year!

I gave a talk at church on Sunday, and when I asked on Instagram stories if anyone wanted to hear, I got a 94% YES! The other 6% said they have no spiritual questions....

This is something I've thought about a lot personally, as well as for my children and dear friends who have struggled with questions of the spiritual nature, and so I was excited to collect my thoughts about the topic.

This pertains to parenting, because I strive to be spiritually strong for myself AND my kids, to be in tune to how I can best mother them, and guide them spiritually.

It stems from a talk: Seeking Answers to Spiritual Questions with my own thoughts weaved in.

For those not of my faith (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), we take turns sharing talks to the congregation, the last time I shared was a year and a half ago.

I LOVE the opportunity to do a deep dive, it truly boosts my spirituality, many hate the public speaking aspect of addressing a chapel full of 300!

Here is additional reading that might be helpful:

• What to expect at Sunday services
• Memorize scriptures with your family

Please feel free to ask me any questions, I'm always open! [email protected] or message me on Instagram!

How are you feeling during the holiday season? Many moms feel extra frustrated when they feel their teen might not feel deserving of Christmas kindness! This one's for you!

I'll be sharing micro tips on instagram in the days leading up to Christmas, so make sure you follow along there...

You may be a good fit for the next TRUSTED Challenge on January 13th, check it out!

It can feel very frustrating when grandparents don't agree (and either shame you for doing things different or do it without your consent) so THIS is an important discussion, especially around the holidays! My dad sent me an article that sparked this discussion, and i'm weighing in with some "say this/not that" scenarios in this episode.

January 13th TRUSTED Challenge

Chats on Instagram

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Follow up to last weeks episode on how to TALKE to your teen about your expectations of a little gratitude.... AND what to say/not say examples.

Next TRUSTED Challenge is January 13th: https://kristenduke.com/trusted/

Instagram reel discussed in this episode: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DChJWXXxHZX/

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I polled my friends on Instagram and asked how their teen is ungrateful and I got so many responses, I narrowed it dwon to the top 15, which I share here (and you can likely relate to) and I ALSO share how to remedy that with 3 action items.

You ready?!?!

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Do you feel hopeless in your mother journey because you know you aren't perfect and terrified for the day your adult child comes to tell you you messed them up? Then this episode is for you!

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How "should" you respond when your teen hurts your feelings? Chatting about that here today!

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