Following on from last week’s episode about learning how to love ourselves, this week we have another love related topic. While brainstorming for the episodes this season, we decided to dedicate the month of february to LOVE. So as you’ve heard last week, we started it with SELF LOVE. This week we are going to answer 36 questions that will potentially lead to love.
In 1997, a psychologist Arthur Aron from Stony Brook University created 36 questions that tests accelerated intimacy between two strangers. The idea is that mutual vulnerability through self-disclosure fosters closeness and has an impact on the process of building a relationship. By allowing ourselves to be vulnerable with another person, it fosters closeness and is fundamental to develop a close relationship.
We thought it would be fun to try these questions ourselves and see what the other person answers.
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1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
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