In this solo episode with Ilana, she explains her frustrations with people tone policing others. Ilana is no stranger to being tone policed in her life and has had her feelings and emotions be invalidated because she gave an opinion that was mistaken for "having a tone" or being "rude and angry."

Main topics covered in this episode:

-Defining tone policing

-Why does tone policing hurt people, especially women?

-Examples of when Ilana was tone policed

-How tone policing is common in the workplace

-Ilana losing her job due to being tone policed