1. I’m happy I allowed myself to vent. No everyone doesn’t care and some people don’t empathize with others but realizing I posted this to be transparent to help someone else. So for the folks who have it all together, this episode isn’t for you. But for the STRONG girl who has to be strong all the time. This is for you. For the men who weren’t heard as boys, this is a safe space for you to cry. We are human. 2. I have accountability and I can pin point my weak points. I’m not innocent in this process. I’ve done wrong. But it was a time I would be so sweet, I believed in people. A lot of people have disappointed me and it makes me feel like the human race as a whole is SHIT. But I know it’s people that are FOR ME out there. I have friends who are amazing. But we aren’t on a everyday basis. Realizing my everyday friend now is GOD / Jesus and he’s always there. He always has time for me. 3. The seed example I gave is real. Maybe I’ve been planting seeds in the wrong soil. So putting the wrong care, love, attention into the wrong people. 4. Im going to work on praying, journaling more, and not saying I’m fine. But actually expressing what I feel in that moment when asked the question, “How are you?” 5. It sucks to love someone that you can’t be with. But realizing it’s better to have loved and felt it even if hurt was a cost I have to pay now. 6. I believe God but I’m going to have to actively work on seeing it. Seeing the life I deserve. 7. I know loving myself is the key. But it’s easier said than done. People who have relationships love telling someone whose lonely to love their self. Like ok it’s easy for you to say you have someone to go home to. But everything isn’t what it seems. I want a marriage/ relationship that isn’t for the socials. But that’s genuine and real. I refuse to settle and have to ask/ tell someone how to love me. So here’s to shifting my focus back to God and welcoming in my grieving process to let go and heal from everything I feel. I love you Telisia, if nobody else does. I do love you and I’m trying to heal the little girl inside and I’m not perfect but I’ll keep fighting for you. Because you are worthy of a fight. Sending everyone love, light and hugs. Keep going. You deserve the happiness, the love, the career, home, car and kid. And you WILL get it. You WIN in the end! Remember that. 🙏🏽❤️

Shoutout to my sister she’s finally legal 🔞 but March is for Pisces babe lol. Sike I can share a little with the Aries Queen. However this podcast was simply a update of my life and opinion on some hot topics right now. Stay dangerous 😂😂 Jkjk. I hope that this year a lot of us are growing and stepping out of our comfort zones. We only get one life y’all, live and enjoy every moment of it.

I was supposed to be born on this day. But I came two weeks late & Im grateful for that. Last year my life looked different around this time. A lot different but I’ve learned a lot and I’ve grown a lot. So spread love today. John 15:12: "My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you." P.S. If you’re single don’t you dare go messing up nobody day if you upset. Love yourself first and God will see fit to send someone who will love all of you. The first time around w/o the extra BS. 😌 I hope y’all enjoy this poem I wrote myself this morning. 🥰 #poetry #love #bekind

God is doing something in me. 2ppl told me I’m supposed to be a prophetess at the leadership conference in January. Idk how I feel about that comment seeing as I can only see myself as who I am right now. But God knows —I been hearing him more clearly these past 2 weeks when he says things to me. I’m just scared that who I WAS will affect who he wants me to be moving forward. Then realizing he calls on the unqualified AND makes them qualified. I love God fr & as much as I mess up I’m glad he loves me 2.. Did I mention a red bird landed on my car window the other day when I pulled up to work? You can’t tell me my God doesn’t send signs. You just have to be paying attention to catch them. 🤞🏽 #spiritual #growth #loveyourselffirstalways

I’m not perfect. Never wanted to be but I share my personal experiences/mistakes with you girls & guys for a purpose. So you can be better and definitely learn from someone who has been there. Hurt people hurt people is a true statement. I was doing good but I slipped once when my mind was fixated on revenge. It’s never worth it and it hurts you in the end. Don’t ever lose site of yourself to stoop low like someone else. Leave with grace, class and poise. I do love the two people I talked about in this podcast in very different ways but they both have taught me what to not deal with or do in the future. As for me and right now: single as a Pringle and I’m simply not interested in anyone at the moment but myself. 💯

It’s a New Year and I’m happy! As I shed a few tears on this I promise I wiped them and I’m walking with my head high this 2022. It’s ALL ABOUT you, meaning everything you’ve put off; do it for yourself this year. No more excuses!! Absolutely none. Shed the bs and allow the newness to consume you.

Healing never hurt anybody. But hurt people definitely hurt other people. I made a choice December 5, 2021 I wanted to be whole and not broken anymore. It’s not about blaming others but realizing I’ve played a part in some of my own MESS. But the tests were building a testimony and the mess gave me a message. Love yourself first, always. 💋

Welcome to Season 5, I hope you guys have enjoyed the episodes so far. This kickoff episode was personal and I hope it helps at least ONE person, who may needed to hear that you should be YOUR very first priority always.

Are you self aware? Do you still blame everyone else for your misfortunes? You know you played a role in the mess in your life right? Turn your MESS into your MESSage! Self acceptance is key and sticking to your word when setting boundaries/standards are a rule of thumb. Oh and you MUST take self care days or you will BURNOUT. AND hell no it ain’t selfish to take a few days for YOURSELF Queen or King!!! 💋

I lost a friend of 11 years which is half my life since I’m 22. Due to a car accident during the first week of me starting my career. It took a toll on me and then it’s like LIFE looked at me and said let’s make it even HARDER for her.. Why me? Idk. Maybe God is testing me this season. But I’m working on taking the “F’s” negative connotation and turning it positive. Being faithful to God, moving forward, preparing for my future!! It’s a mindset thing and it’s okay for me to fall and not be fine ALL the time. As long as I get my ASS up and flourish from the lesson of that failure/fall.