In this episode, Erika sits down with Dr. Anna Lim, a lecturer in Deaf Studies at the Boston University Wheelock College of Education and Human Development. Together, they explore the realities of navigating mental health care as a Deaf individual and unpack the systemic barriers that continue to impact access, equity, and culturally responsive support.

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In this episode, Erika discusses genetic uncertainty, resilience, and the emotional realities of Huntington’s Disease with Lori Jones. Author and advocate Lori Jones joins the show to share insights from her memoir Spared: A Memoir of Risk and Resolve and her lived experience growing up in a family affected by HD. Together, they explore stigma, secrecy, caregiving, and the psychological impact of hereditary illness, as well as how communication, kindness, and storytelling can create connection and reduce shame. This episode offers a compassionate look at courage, identity, and the power of speaking openly about difficult truths.

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In this episode, Erika discusses the deeply emotional and often unspoken realities of inheriting or living in a family with a genetic disease — specifically the resentment, shame, and identity shifts that can come with living under a diagnosis or genetic risk. Grounded in both lived experience and psychological research, this conversation explores how inherited conditions can affect not only the body, but relationships, self-perception, and emotional wellbeing.

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In this episode, Erika sits down with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz — clinical psychologist, TEDx speaker, and author of Post Traumatic Parenting — to explore how generational trauma shapes families and what it takes to break the cycle. They discuss the subtle patterns that can pass from one generation to the next, why breaking them can feel so challenging, and practical ways parents and caregivers can foster healthier, more connected relationships. Dr. Koslowitz also clears up common misconceptions about trauma-informed parenting and shares insights to help families heal with intention, compassion, and emotional safety. 

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In this episode, Erika dives into generational (or intergenerational) trauma — what it is, how it’s passed down, and why breaking the cycle matters. She explores research-backed mechanisms of transmission, from family systems and cultural narratives to biological and epigenetic factors. You’ll learn practical strategies for healing, including processing your own story, regulating your body’s stress responses, practicing self-compassion, and fostering resilient family communication. Erika corrects common myths about generational trauma, showing that healing is possible even if you didn’t directly experience the original trauma. This episode is full of tools, insights, and encouragement to help you break old patterns and create a healthier, more connected legacy.

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In this episode, Erika sits down with her colleague, Lily Beckett — Assistant Clinician at an ABA clinic — for an open and insightful conversation about the field. Together, they unpack common misconceptions about autism often seen in the media, reflect on lessons learned from working with children on the spectrum, and share their hopes for how ABA can continue to evolve to better support neurodiverse individuals.

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In this episode, Erika breaks down what autism truly is—exploring its defining traits, common symptoms, and the misconceptions that too often surround it. Drawing from her firsthand experience as a Registered Behavior Technician in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis, she offers an honest look at the realities of her work and the truths behind the profession.

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In this episode, Erika discusses all things identity related with special guest Leo Massey, an LGBTQ+ affirming and identifying male therapist who is comprehensively trained in DBT and works with individuals who experience anxiety, depression, BPD, and gender dysphoria, to name a few. Erika and Leo talk about how intersectional identities can clash with one another and impact mental health.

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In this episode, Erika delves into the complex world of identity and those that intersect considering the potential impact on mental health. She talks about what intersectionality is, how certain identities can increase the likelihood of poorer mental wellbeing, and what it means to live in the gray area.

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In this episode, Erika sits down with Dr. Brian Licuanan, an author, speaker, and board-certified psychologist practicing in Southern California who specializes in insomnia and family crisis interventions to discuss substance use, addiction, and the path to recovery.

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