Undone Redone

Former Alabama and NFL cornerback Simeon Castille is our guest on this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast. Simeon shares his story of growing up with his All-American father, Jeremiah Castille, and the foundation of faith that his parents created for him. Simeon talks about "breakfast club", which was the summer training program that his father created in order to help he and his brother Tim reach their goals of playing at Alabama and in the NFL. Simeon also courageously shares his own journey from a performance paradigm to a grace paradigm and how he came to understand that Christ's love and forgiveness extends to everyone, including himself.

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On this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody discuss their trip to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography while on location and how a road sign at Valley of Fire National Park got them thinking about marriage. They discuss that like roads we travel, marriage is not always straightforward and easy by design. They tell us the importance of recognizing that marriage will never be perfect or even easy, and that there will always be struggles in a marriage. It's by accepting that truth that couples can begin to work through those problems and find lasting, positive change in their relationship.

On this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Melody sits down with Author Nancy Hicks to discuss empowering women in God's Grace, even after a trauma in The Church. Nancy's mission is to raise up women around the globe by igniting and equipping them with the power and grace of Christ. They discuss her latest book, Meant to Live, which unpacks how Christians can live in the power and glory of the Gospel―the Good News of Jesus Christ―and celebrate God's glory in themselves, and the Church. Our listeners can learn more about Nancy at her website https://www.nancyhickslive.com/ and preorder her book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Meant-Live-Living-Light-Good/dp/1642793280.

On this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Melody sits down with Sharon Jaynes to talk about women's struggles in the church and growing up in an abusive environment. For ten years Sharon served as Vice President of Proverbs 31 Ministries and co-host for their daily radio feature. She is the author of 20 books with Harvest House, Moody, Baker, and Multnomah Publishers. She emphasizes that God has the power to transform women's lives for the better. Our listeners can learn more about Sharon at https://sharonjaynes.com/, https://girlfriendsingod.com/sharon-jaynes/, and https://www.proverbs31.org/read/devotions/our-writers/sharon-jaynes. Her books are available at https://www.amazon.com/Sharon-Jaynes/e/B001ILFLGS.

On this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Jessica Thompson to discuss her seventh book, How to Help Your Anxious Teen: Discovering the Surprising Sources of Their Worries and Fears. She stresses how many of our societal norms can actually exacerbate anxiety in teens and how parents can approach their children to discuss and manage anxiety. Jessica is the author of several books and is a frequent conference speaker. Her heart is to see women, families, and children freed from the bondage of moralism. She is a contributor at Christ Hold Fast. She is also a part of the podcast Front Porch with the Fitzes. Our listeners can learn more about Jessica at her website https://www.jessicathompson.co/ , purchase her latest book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/How-Help-Your-Anxious-Teen/dp/073697671X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= and listen to her podcast on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/front-porch-with-the-fitzes/id1042323124?mt=2.

On this week's episode of The Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody bring Alice Churnock into the studio to discuss the importance of understanding eating disorders. Alice specializes in counseling adolescents, women, and parents in areas relating to eating disorders, body image, and depression, as well as stress and anger management. She stresses that eating disorders go far beyond that of anorexia and bulimia, and that it is pivotal to understand the root issues that lead to these disorders. Most of the time, eating disorders arise as a coping mechanism for problems in life, and Alice explains how to walk with a person through those issues and address the core of each. Our listeners can learn more about Alice at https://www.covenantcounsel.com/counselors/alice-churnock/ and check out her podcast at https://www.rootedministry.com/author/alice-churnock/ .

On this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Kristen Hatton to discuss what its like walking with a child or teen struggling with an eating disorder. She emphasizes the importance of talking to our children about the idols in their lives that drive undesirable behaviors instead of just trying to fix it for them and make them "good kids." Kristen has written multiple books including The Gospel-Centered Life in Exodus for Students, Face Time: Your Identity in a Selfie World and Get Your Story Straight. Our listeners can learn more about Kristen at her website https://www.kristenhatton.com/.

On this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down to discuss enmeshment, differentiation and interdependence in marriage. They work to define the difference between each of these terms and different ways that couples can practically address enmeshment in a relationship so that they can work towards a fuller, more healthy marriage. For more information on the tools and tips Melody and Tray discussed in this week's podcast, visit https://undoneredone.com/. Our listeners can also check out the upcoming Open Your Purse and Embark Men's Recovery Intensive events at https://undoneredone.com/openyourpurse and https://undoneredone.com/embark. Follow Tray and Melody on Social Media at https://twitter.com/UndoneRedone , https://www.instagram.com/undoneredone/ , and https://www.facebook.com/UndoneRedone/.

On this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray and Melody sit down with Author Juli Slattery to discuss sexuality. Juli explains how sexuality is often misinterpreted in the church and that only 10% of Christians enter a marriage without some form of sexual experience from a previous relationship. Juli then discusses what to do for Christians that reach marriage with or without baggage and say "Ok... Now what?" We encourage our listeners to check out her new book "Rethinking Sexuality" and visiting her website https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ for more resources on properly defining God's view of healthy sexuality in marriage.

On this week's episode of the Undone Redone Podcast, Tray shares his thoughts on submission in marriage and how often men will misinterpret verses like Ephesians 5:22. He explains that God has not called husbands to be tyrants in a relationship that demand their wives to do whatever they say, but instead to lovingly lead them as Christ is leading us in our lives. Quotes from this episode: "Many times guys we don't know who we are and we try to feel powerful by controlling our wives. That is not what the Lord has called us to do." "Submission does not mean that wives do not have a voice. At the end of the day, it is making a decision TOGETHER as a couple." "Ladies, submission also does not mean living in fear of your husband. That is not the way God intended this and your husband is misinterpreting scripture."