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In this episode, we dive into the wild world of modern dating — from dirty bedrooms in profile pics to cowgirls who don’t text back. We talk about how dating apps have changed the game (and not always for the better), the red flags you should NEVER ignore, and what it’s like to date in a small town where everyone’s basically someone’s ex. Oh, and there's a first date on the horizon... will it be the one?

From Pina Colada song plots to unsolicited DMs on business pages, buckle up — it’s messy, it’s honest, it’s hilarious, and it’s The Unengaged Podcast.

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When the door closed, the entire patio opened up… and sometimes that patio leads to floor seats at a Zach Bryan concert, even when life tries to throw you into the nosebleeds.

This episode is a mix of reflection, laughter, and pure mission-mode energy. We’re diving into Kodie’s first year of growth, letting go of the wrong things, and saying yes to the wild adventures that followed (hello, spontaneous concert tickets!).

From quitting jobs that didn’t serve her, to shaking off toxic relationships, Kodie’s been doing the work to get to the good stuff. And that good stuff? It includes finessing her way to the best seats in the house—even when the dream was snatched away by someone else’s fast fingers. 😅

We’re talking about:

    •    Leaving behind what doesn’t fit anymore

    •    Following the gut that says “screw it, go for it”

    •    The power of a confirmation email and a sympathetic staff member 😏

    •    And yes, manifesting those floor seats with pure hustle energy.

Catch the whole rollercoaster ride on this week’s episode—and tag your bestie who needs to hear about how we pulled off an “Ocean’s Two: Floor Seat Edition” moment.

🎧 Tap in for the wild, messy, and hilarious ride that reminds you… sometimes life’s best moments come when you least expect it.

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Why do we attract toxic relationships? In this episode, we unpack the patterns, childhood influences, and addictive cycles that keep us stuck. From family dynamics to past heartbreaks, we’re owning our part and breaking the cycle for good. 💔 

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If you could sit down with 20-year-old you, what would you say? 🤯✨ In this episode, we dive deep into the lessons, heartbreaks, and wisdom we wish we had back then. Tune in now! 🎙️

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From absolute disasters to fairytale moments, we’re spilling the BEST and WORST dating stories! 😬🤣💘 You won’t believe some of these! Tune in for laughs, lessons, and maybe a little secondhand embarrassment. 😅

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Friendship: the wild, the messy, and the downright beautiful. This week on The Unengaged Podcast, we’re getting real about the bonds that shape us—the besties who feel like family, the ones who taught us hard lessons, and the friendships that changed us forever.

How do you know when a friendship is worth fighting for? When is it time to walk away? And what does true support from your inner circle really look like? We’re breaking it all down, no sugarcoating, just straight-up real talk.

Grab your besties, grab your headphones, and hit play—this one’s for you! 🎧🔥

Xoxo, Kodie & Kay

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Breakups suck—but you know what’s worse? The post-breakup ‘coaching sessions’ where you accidentally help your ex become a better partner… for someone else. This week, we’re diving into those brutally honest conversations, the struggles of dating again, and how to recognize (and break through) emotional blocks in relationships. Plus, we’re talking about why listening to your gut actually matters and how attachment styles and love languages might just be the secret to getting it right. Oh, and of course—we’re recapping our wild night out, because balance.

Xoxo, Kodie & Kay

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The wait is over—Unengaged is officially LIVE! 💥 In this episode, we’re getting raw and real about breaking free from the old versions of ourselves, healing from the past, and learning the hard but necessary lessons along the way.

One of the biggest game-changers? Boundaries. Because saying YES when you really mean NO isn’t kindness—it’s holding someone back from the growth they need. True empowerment comes from knowing your worth, protecting your energy, and letting people rise to their own challenges.

If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or stepping into your power, this episode is for you. Tune in, hit FOLLOW, and let’s LEVEL UP together!

Xoxo, Kodie & Kay

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