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Labor Day just wrapped and we’re calling it: preseason is over. In this week’s Unengaged Podcast, Kodie & Kay break down the official Cuffing Season Calendar — from the Labor Day “roster cuts” to October draft picks, holiday tryouts, New Year’s playoffs, and the Valentine’s Day Super Bowl. We recap summer flings, talk friends-with-benefits vs. situationships, and share the real red flags that should not make your starting lineup (gift-giving, family vibes, football Sunday compatibility… yes, it matters). Kay soft-launches a boyfriend!, Kodie retires a walking red flag, and we set predictions for where we’ll be by January.
Hit play if you’re deciding who’s getting benched, drafted, or locked down this season.

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This week on The Unengaged Podcast, we sit down with Raquel — the powerhouse photographer behind Blush Boudoir Studio — as she celebrates 5 years in business and spills all the secrets on confidence, body image, and how to actually take the perfect nude.

From implied nudity with sheets, to boudoir photoshoots that heal after divorce or mark life milestones, Raquel shares how women of every age, size, and stage can step into their power. We cover:

✨ Tips & tricks for taking tasteful nudes that don’t end up looking like awkward selfies
✨ Why implied nudity is hotter than full exposure
✨ How boudoir helps women reclaim confidence after weight loss, postpartum, or heartbreak
✨ The truth about toxic positivity vs. doing the hard work
✨ Post Malone as a dream boudoir client (yes, really!)
✨ And how celebrating yourself at ANY stage of life is non-negotiable

This episode is raw, hilarious, empowering, and exactly the sign you’ve been waiting for to book that shoot or send that pic.

If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll do a boudoir shoot when I lose 10 lbs” — this is your sign to do it NOW. Hit play, laugh with us, and walk away ready to celebrate your body and your confidence today. 💋

Follow Raquel at @blushboudoir831 and don’t forget to subscribe, rate & share The Unengaged Podcast with your girls — because everyone deserves to feel like that woman.

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We’ve officially hit 25 episodes of The Unengaged Podcast — that’s half a year of oversharing, growth, and real conversations. 🎙️ In this milestone episode, Kodie and Kaleigh put each other in the hot seat with a friendship Q&A. From toxic traits, worst exes, and dating disasters to soul ties, forgiveness, and starting over, we share it all.

We open up about the hardest truths we’ve had to learn, the weirdest DMs we’ve ever gotten, and even play Fuck, Marry, Kill: Jesus, Buddha, or Stevie Nicks (yep, it got wild).

If you’ve ever wanted honest talk about dating, breakups, red flags, friendship dynamics, and healing after heartbreak, this is the episode for you. Thank you to our listeners across 12 countries for supporting us through 25 weeks — we couldn’t do this without you. 💜

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Ever had the gut-punch realization: “Wait… I’m the problem?” This week, Kodie and Kaleigh get real about being the red flag in your own love story—and what happens when self-sabotage, trust issues, and old heartbreaks follow you into something new.

From dating after toxic relationships to learning how to stop holding new partners to old wounds, we unpack why we sometimes destroy something good before it even starts. You’ll hear raw confessions, laugh-out-loud analogies, and the kind of brutally honest friendship advice that feels like a therapy session with wine.

💡 In this episode:

• Signs you might be the red flag (and how to own it)
• Breaking patterns of self-sabotage in dating and relationships
• Why healing is never “done” — and how to love without bracing for heartbreak
• Relearning how to date after being single too long
• How past trauma shapes the way you trust, attach, and commit

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I the problem?” — hit play. This one’s for the self-aware, the overthinkers, and anyone trying to build a healthy love story after the messy chapters.

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Y’all… we just lived through the most iconic concert of the summer and we’re here to recap every wild moment from Morgan Wallen’s sold-out show at Levi’s Stadium.

In this episode, we break down:

• How we scored last-minute floor seats 🙏
• What it took to sneak into the pit (hint: $20 and some chaos) 💸
• Morgan’s full setlist, favorite performances, and surprise patriotic moment 🇺🇸
• Concert crowd energy, outfit highlights, and the emotional rollercoaster that is "Just in Case” 🥹
• Why post-show In-N-Out and bacon-wrapped hot dogs were the real encore 🍔🌭

Whether you were there in person or living through TikTok, this is your inside look at what went down inside Levi’s Stadium — from the pit to the parking lot.

Grab your cowboy hat and press play. We’re reliving it all.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you get your podcasts
📲 Follow us on Instagram @unengagedpodcast for behind-the-scenes, pics, and pit footage

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In this raw, eye‑opening episode, Kay and Kodie unpack what really happens during sex — beyond the physical. From emotional energy transfer and soul ties to the surprising role of cord‑cutting rituals, we explain how sexual intimacy can carry trauma, overthinking, or confidence and healing long after the act. Tune in as we share grotesque vs. gorgeoussex statistics, deep healing strategies like meditation, affirmations, breathwork, and honest advice on post-breakup recovery. Perfect for anyone redefining intimacy, healing after a breakup, or manifesting their best self.

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Ever wondered why your ex was a gaslighting Libra or why Aires always ruin your life (and your sleep schedule)? In this must-listen episode of The Unengaged Podcast, Kodie and Kay break down how zodiac signs influence dating, love, sex, red flags, and emotional chaos—with brutally honest stories and zero filter takes.

We’re talking:
💔 Which signs are most toxic (Gemini, we’re looking at you)
❤️ The surprising signs that make amazing partners
🌕 How your sun, moon, and rising signs impact your love life
📲 Why The Pattern app might know more about your relationship than you do
🧬 Human Design, past lives, and cycle tracking—aka the cheat codes to knowing your person (or yourself)

Whether you’re astrology-obsessed or just trying to make sense of your situationship, this episode is your cosmic roadmap to love and self-awareness.

🚨 Tap that play button, subscribe for more unhinged truths, and tag @unengagedpodcast with your sign—because we’re reading charts and calling out exes.

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This week on The Unengaged Podcast, we sit down with Christina Rodriguez — RN, aesthetic injector, business owner, fiancée, and badass mama — for a raw, inspiring convo on turning burnout into a breakthrough. From grinding in the ER during COVID to launching All Things Aesthetics, Christina opens up about building her dream life on her own terms.

We dive into:
💉 What clients think they need vs. what they actually need
💪 Juggling motherhood, self-care, and running a business
💖 Why inner work matters just as much as outer glow
👧 The sweet letter from her daughter that made us all cry

• a Would You Rather showdown and real talk on partnership, healing, and hustle.

Whether you're a nurse on the edge of burnout, a mom chasing big dreams, or someone who needs a reminder that you can build the life you’ve always wanted—this one is for you.

🔗 Follow Christina: @aesthetics.rn.christina
🎧 Tap in. Refill your cup. And maybe… book that appointment.

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If you've ever:
✔️ Spiraled over a dry text
✔️ Caught feelings in 3 days
✔️ Picked a fight just to feel something

…then this one’s for you.

In our most personal episode yet, we unpack how ADHD impacts romantic relationships — from rejection sensitivity and impulsivity to dopamine chasing, fast attachments, and the constant need for reassurance.

We talk unmedicated chaos, emotional intensity, communication breakdowns, and the hard truth about why some of our past relationships didn’t survive. But we also celebrate the superpowers that come with ADHD — passion, loyalty, creativity, and the ability to love deeply.

Whether you’re dating with ADHD, loving someone who has it, or just tired of feeling “too much” — this episode will have you laughing, cringing, and maybe crying a little. (It’s called self-awareness, babe.)

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On this episode of The Unengaged Podcast, we’re diving into the vacations that shaped us—from surprise mommy-and-me cruises to absolute disasters in Cabo. Kay shares the story of a trip that changed everything, and breaks down her Bahamas cruise, plus tips for traveling solo, with kids, or in chaotic friend groups. We’re talking vacation do’s and don’ts, red flag travel partners, and how to elevate your trip without breaking the bank. Kodie talks Disney, and the impact your company can have on the "Happiest place on Earth". Basically: it’s not about where you go—it’s who you go with... or don’t.

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