Unpacked the Podcast

We're feeling the love here at Unpacked, and this is the second wife interview with Rev's wife Carmen. Pop in a headphone and listen to Rev and Carmen's love story. You'll hear both of them explain how they knew they found the one in each other.

You may want to get a pen and paper to learn some of the smooth moves they both put on each other to fall in love quickly and make it ask.

At the end of the episode, Carmen gets on the hot seat and tells us her answers to our questions.

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This week's episode is a special one to the crew here at Unpacked. This is the first episode with each of our wives in the relationship series and we are starting out with Di's wife Daniela.

Daniela unpacks the question "How did you know you found the one?"

Daniela and Di break down how they met, the times they went through, their major struggles with love, battling infidelity, and their return to love.

Daniela ends the episode on the hot seat answering questions about life and love. This is another solid episode you won't want to miss out on.

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This week is the beginning of an unpacking relationships series we are proud to announce. In this episode, we talk about what it takes to maintain healthy relationships and almost more importantly what it has taken each of us to get to where we are today in our relationships.

We get transparent on the different obstacles we faced, the different tools, and resources we found valuable in this evolving journey. We talk in-depth about setting expectations, communicating effectively, erasing doubt, and how to disrupt negative patterns in relationships.

This week we read a very deep question from a listener who is dealing with a person she feels is a stranger since moving together after a long-distance relationship and we give our advice to the listener.

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Trigger Warning: Realness and Transparency Ahead Can we just get somethings off our chests this episode? Typically we keep our opinions on current affairs private from our audience but this conversation came about organically so we wanted to share.

Rev, Tiff, and Di are unpacking the current political climate, double standards, and our points of view!

You are not going to want to miss out on this episode.

We unpack how we feel about the last few months of politics, what our hopes and dreams are for the future, and what it's like to not be seen by people you think are "on your side".

Join us if you dare for this week's episode of Unpacked the Podcast!

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"I think the first step is to understand that forgiveness does not exonerate the perpetrator. Forgiveness liberates the victim. It's a gift you give yourself."

— T. D. Jakes

This week the crew is unpacking forgiveness and it's a show that was healing to us all. Join us in learning about what forgiveness is and how we can execute it to the best of our abilities and how we can set ourselves free.

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This week we are unpacking ego and this is a topic we didn't take lightly.

We got our inspiration from Oprah's Super Soul Conversations Ego episode where she talks to heavy hitters in the personal development space like Eckhart Tolle, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Brene Brown, and more. 

We talk about our feelings about ego, how you can define ego and what you can do to overcome ego once you know what it is and how it impacts your day to day existence. 

On this episode you will hear: 

Rev breaks down her thoughts on ego and how family dynamics impact the development of our them. She digs into how you can overcome ego and live a better life. 

Tiff unpacks her favorite quote from Oprah's episode from Eckhart Tolle "Ego, says Oprah, makes judgments and longs to feel special. It loves conflict, creates enemies, and operates out of fear."

Di speaks on her favorite Dr. Wayne Dyer quote of the episode referring to The 6 Components of Ego: 1. I am what I have. 2. I am what I do. 3. I am what other people think of me. 4. I am separate from everybody else. 5. I am separate from all that is missing in my life. 6. I am separate from God.

We get serious and we laugh in this episode and we love getting your feedback. We've got an interesting Let's Unpack session where we talk about a sister who is a bully because of her ego and who is to blame in the family dynamic. 

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This week we did a short episode but it's so GOOD! We heard from you and we gave our best advice! Join Rev, Di, and Tiff as we Unpack with those who were brave enough to send us a request for help! 

Enjoy and make sure you send your questions to us for our next advice episode!

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On this episode of Unpacked the Podcast, Rev, Tiff, and Di break down the connections that bind us and the connections that tear us apart. We talk about finding the right kinds of connections, how to walk away from negative connections, and what it's like to have a chosen family.

On this episode. you will hear:

Rev breaks down the cure for a bad connection, how to identify bottom feeder personalities, and how she feels about her own connections.

Tiff gives us insight to the things she's learned about herself and the connections she's had in her past.

Di sheds light on her experiences with chosen family and what it's like having to break down those ties in a healthy way.

On this week's episode of "Let's Unpack" the crew dives into a story about a woman who broke up 3 relationships and this is one we CAN'T agree on!

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On this week's episode of Unpacked the Podcast, Rev, Tiff, and Di, dive deep into unpacking Negative Self-Talk. We all have had that inner voice commit treason against our highest dreams, visions, and the best version of life we want to live. Join us as we talk about what negative self-talk is, how we deal with it on a personal level, and how you can stop that inner voice from taking over.

In this episode you will hear:

Rev's best advice for defeating negative mantras and turning your words into positive life-giving words. Where we get our internal dialogue from and how we can make changes today.

Tiff gives us insight into how she treats herself and how she plans to do better in the future in ways you can follow.

Di gets brutally honest with everyone about how negative self-talk has manifested in her life today, how her wife helped her change her speech with the Five Nice Things project, and how she intends to live 2021 differently.

This week in our "Let's Unpack" session we give advice to a woman living outside of America who is facing divorce because of the decisions she's made.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR from our family to yours! This week's episode comes to you with many gems buried throughout you're not going to want to miss out on this one! Rev, Tiff, and Di are talking... New Year's Revelations!

We're taking it a step further with the resolutions and using our 28th episode to talk about what we anticipate in this coming year and what we are going to be leaving behind in the year 2020! 

We wish all of you a prosperous, healthy, and successful year! Remember it works if you work it!!

On this episode you will hear: 

Rev reveals her plan for health in the new year, what it means to take your heart for a walk, and some deep reflections on tools you can use to make this year the best yet!

Tiff has an on-air epiphany about what has been holding her back and she unpacks what she will do to make this new year bright!

Di exposes her weaknesses and makes some promises and revelations about what she can do to increase her abundance, her love, and her plans for success in 2021!

In our let's unpack session we talk about a family who gave up a child for adoption after finding out that the child was born deaf and how they chose to pay them off! It's one you need to hear! 

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