Unpacking Love

TT 34: Honestly, do mind what you say to people out there.... Avoiding 'Sticky' situations 1 episode at a time lol. Thank you for an incredible 2022! Lots of love to you all & Happy Holidays - Mimz 

As always, feel free to hit me up @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/. Thanks for listening!

Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen

Therapist Kayla Bell-Consolver joins me in this episode where we dive into attachment styles & therapy. Find out what attachment is, how it's developed, the 4 attachment styles, attachment style compatibility, how to navigate a relationship with someone who has any of the 3 insecure attachment styles & how therapy can help someone earn a secure attachment style. Kayla also gives us more insight into what therapy looks like and encourages us to go to therapy by sharing how we could all benefit from it. Feel free to follow her on TikTok @questionkayla, on Instagram @questionkayla28 & on YouTube @ Question Kayla for more content. As always, feel free to connect with me on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/

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Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 33: & just like that, it's a wrap on the Communication Styles series folks. Effective communication is SOOO important in relationships. Let's unpack the Assertive Communication Style in this episode.

As always feel free to DM me your thoughts on IG @unpackinglove https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen

Glo, Chuks and I debate the following statement "women have higher standards than men when it comes to seeking romantic partners". 

What are your thoughts? Are women's dating standards higher than men's dating standards? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 32: Effective communication is SOOO important in relationships. Some communication styles are ineffective, and we are going there in this series. Let's unpack the Passive-Aggressive Communication Style in this episode.

As always feel free to DM me your thoughts on IG @unpackinglove https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Thanks for listening!

Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen

What if I told you there were girls getting allowances from their boyfriends out there? Chiedza, Irene & I unpack the 'Girlfriend Allowance' in this episode. Find out what it is, how to bring it up in conversation, which girls are getting it, how much is reasonable, what the girls have to give up (if anything) to get allowances, why some girls aren't getting it, which guys are giving girlfriend allowances and the expectations that come with it. Hot phrases dropped - 'the provider', 'your value in the sexual marketplace', 'Miss Independent', 'Damsel In Distress', 'submission', 'sugar daddy, sugar baby', 'act the fool', Mihlali Ndamase. This was loaded, chile! A blast!

Question: What do you think about the girlfriend allowance? Would you want it/would you give it? Also if you've gotten a boyfriend allowance, let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

Yolanda, Mufaro & I present 'Social Media & Relationships (Girl Talk)'. THIS RECORDING SESSION WAS LIT! Lots of laughs for sure. You have to hear it for yourself! Grab a beverage and enjoy. Question: Are heart-eye emojis, fire emojis and drool emojis at the same intensity level? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 31: Effective communication is SOOO important in relationships. Some communication styles are ineffective, and we are going there in this series. Let's unpack the Aggressive Communication Style in this episode. 

As always feel free to DM me your thoughts on IG @unpackinglove https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Thanks for listening!

Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen

Sam & T present 'Social Media & Relationships (The Guy Version)'. THIS RECORDING SESSION WAS A BLAST! You have to hear it for yourself! Grab a beverage and enjoy. Bonus - find out what Sam & T think about making relationships social media official. Are you team Soft Launch or Hard Launch? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 30: Effective communication is SOOO important in relationships. Some communication styles are ineffective, and we are going there in this series. Let's unpack the Passive Communication Style in this episode. 

As always feel free to DM me your thoughts on IG @unpackinglove https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Thanks for listening! 

Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen