Unpacking Love

Puwayi & I share our thoughts about the whole situation - the dressing, the dancing at the concert, the tweets, the merch, the 'Boyfriend' song/video and everything in between.

Here are some links & tweets:

- The Usher concert https://www.youtube.com/shorts/oIvHeQirlgY

- Tweet 1: “It’s the outfit tho.. you a mom” 

- Tweet 2: "We live in a generation where a man of the family doesn’t want the wife & mother to his kids to showcase booty cheeks to please others & he gets told how much of a hater he is"

- "I'm a Motha" merch https://shop.kekepalmer.com/

- 'Boyfriend' Usher ft. Keke music video https://youtu.be/56CW4SIqBzk

What are your thoughts about the whole situation? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/!

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Passi tells us through 6 stories if he would tell his friend, acquaintance, or friend's girlfriend if they were being cheated on. (....that's right, that last bit is whether he would tell on his boy who's cheating!) When I tell you this guy is hilarious! JUST VIBES! Call him Mr 'Cheating Detector'.

What would you do in these situations? Would you tell or not? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/⁠⁠!

Also, be sure to check out Cheating (Intro), (Storytime), (Psychology) & (Witness: Girl Talk) if you missed those episodes. For more of Passi, check out 'Games Night with Passi - Flags | 77' - vibes were vibin'!

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Would Yolanda & I tell our friend, acquaintance, or friend's boyfriend if they were being cheated on? (....that's right, that last bit is whether we would tell on a friend who's cheating!) Teaser phrases: "Does being a silent witness make you an accomplice?" & "...I'm coming to you as a woman...." We had a blast recording this - just VIBES!

What would you do in these situations? Would you tell or not? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/⁠⁠!

Also, be sure to check out Cheating (Intro), (Storytime) & (Psychology), if you missed those episodes & be on the lookout for 'Cheating (Witness: Guy Version)', that will be coming soon. For more of Yolanda, check out 'OnlyFans, Posting Him For Research, Protection, FaceIDs - with Mufaro & Yolanda | 62' - vibes were vibin'!

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Kylie (a Psychology PhD candidate) & I unpack cheating from a psychological standpoint in this Q&A episode. Join us as we cover motives, trust, guilt, confessions, the 'gut feeling', different responses to being cheated on, trauma, how to better oneself and/or the relationship after cheating occurs, questions to ask yourself after you have been cheated on or after you have cheated, exploring open relationships post-cheating & other issues.

Be sure to check out 'Cheating (Intro) | 83', which covered "What is cheating?", types of cheating & motives for cheating & 'Cheating (Storytime) - feat. Keisha | 84' for a wild storytime that covered cheating, being cheated on & being a side chick.

If you have any questions for Kylie or if you want to share your thoughts about this, feel free to hit me up @unpackinglove on IG ⁠https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/⁠!

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Keisha's storytime is wild! Let's unpack cheating, being cheated on & being a side chick. A storytime involving sneaky links, exes, friends, passwords, screenshots, nighttime research, gut feelings, gaslighting, alcohol, physical & emotional cheating, Tinder, neglect, trust, guilt, forgiveness & more. From rabbits to cold turkey... Welcome to 'Entanglement City'!

Be sure to check out 'Cheating (Intro) | 83', which covered "What is cheating?", types of cheating & motives for cheating, if you missed it! Be on the lookout for the psychological episode (with a Psychology PhD candidate) that will cover a lot of things, including guilt & rebuilding trust after cheating occurs in a relationship.

As always, feel free to share your thoughts/experiences with me @unpackinglove on IG ⁠https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/⁠. Always thrilled to hear from you!

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Kicking off the Cheating series with this episode covering "What is cheating?", types of cheating & motives for cheating. Be on the lookout for the story-time episode and the psychological episode (with a Psychology PhD candidate) that will cover a lot of things, including guilt & rebuilding trust after cheating occurs in a relationship.

Article 1: Types of cheating - physical, sexual, emotional, flirting/inappropriate conversations, romantic, online/digital, financial, hobby/job - https://www.marriage.com/advice/infidelity/types-of-cheating-in-relationship/

Article 2: Types of Infidelity (Motives/Drivers) - opportunistic, obligatory, romantic, conflicted romantic & commemorative infidelity - https://www.brides.com/different-types-of-infidelity-1102872

Article 3: Why people cheat (self-gratification vs intimacy) by New York Times bestselling author of 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck', Mark Manson - https://markmanson.net/why-people-cheat 

Feel free to share your thoughts with me @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/. Always happy to hear your thoughts!

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Tafadzwa shares his experiences and thoughts around dating older women. Bonus - comparing dating older women to dating younger women. Tafadzwa dropped some hilarious phrases in this one! Grab a drink and tune in.

Would you date a woman who's older than you or a man who's younger than you? If you've done it, how was that experience? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Check out 'To Date Or Not To Date Younger Men, That Is The Question - with Hilda & Chiechie | 9' to hear what these ladies thought about dating younger men, if you missed it! 

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Tino says at least one person always catches feelings in opposite-sex friendships if the two people spend enough time together, but I disagree.

What are your thoughts about this? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Wale & I discuss the themes that came up in Love Is Blind S4 - what’s yours is yours, unapologetically going after what you want, dating outside your type, red flags, knowing your worth, upbringing, trauma, family involvement, toxicity, mean girl energy, picking the right friends, pride, forgiveness, humility & physical attraction. Bonus - victims & villains. We had a blast recording this!

What were your thoughts about this season? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

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Margaret & I talk about dating men who are over 10 years older than us. This episode is jam-packed with pros, cons & tea! Bonus - advice from a woman who's married to a man who's over 10 years older than her.

Would you date a man who's over 10 years older than you? If you've done it, how was that experience? Let me know @unpackinglove on IG https://instagram.com/unpackinglove/.

Check out 'To Date Or Not To Date Younger Men, That Is The Question - with Hilda & Chiechie | 9' for thoughts around the other side of the age range, if you missed it!

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