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I talk a lot about self-love. Because a lot of people, men and women, don’t understand how important it actually is, and how it affects everything else in your life. I don’t want you to be one of those people! If you’re here and you’re listening to this podcast, then you are really invested in getting to know yourself on a deeper level and loving the skin that you’re in. You probably have done some of this work, or have at least thought about getting started. 

So I’m here this week to tell you WHY. Even more specifically, 3 reasons WHY self-love should be your top priority. Because self-love truly is the foundation upon which everything else is built.


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Get ready for me to introduce you to your new best friend, 
Agathe Daskalides! Born and raised in Brussels, the capital of Europe,  Agathe is a recovering, international corporate leader, spirited entrepreneur, passionate philanthropist, obsessive about the art of relationships and dedicated to helping others master the best strategies to build authentic and influential Rolodex. 

She is an expert at authentic connections, and we talk all about why it's so important to be your authentic self when meeting new people.

In this episode we talk about:
[1:40] The first time she remembers ever feeling sexy
[4:05] How European culture vs American culture affected her sexuality
[7:40] Why it’s so important to be your authentic self when meeting new people
[12:15] What could happen if you are not meeting people as your authentic self
[20:30] SEXY 
[25:10] How to put yourself first and say “no” when needed
[32:06] What sexy means to her now
[35:05] Where to find and follow Agathe

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Instagram: @agathedaska
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This week’s episode is all about having more fun! And I know that sounds really simple and super 6th grade, but hear me out!

I’m talking about real, intentional, living-in-the-moment type of fun. The kind of fun that makes you forget your worries of the moment and just enjoy being alive. We need to CHOOSE to have fun on purpose, otherwise we will let the seriousness of life take over. I want you to stop taking yourself and life too seriously!


In this episode I talk about:

• what it means to have fun with intention 
• why having fun is the best thing you can do to get the most you want out of your life
• how having fun affects every area and relationship in your life
• examples of how to have fun with others
• examples of how to have fun by yourself 

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My guest this week is a Narcissist Recovery Relationship Coach and Founder of Take Flight Coaching, Marissa Mize. 

She teaches women how to manage, untangle, and heal from toxic relationships. Marissa is passionate about helping women find their confidence and take their power back. Her zone of genius is seeing the beautiful potential in women, helping them believe in themselves and take action toward the life and relationships of their dreams.

Marissa and I share our experience in toxic relationships and how diving into self-love changed our lives.

In this episode we talk about:

[2:24] The first time she remembers feeling sexy
[5:25] The biggest red flag of a narcissist
[7:00] How she began to build herself back up after leaving a toxic relationship
[11:40] How to work on building self-love and self-worth
[17:39] How committing to self-love has changed her clients’ lives
[22:30] SEXY
[29:22] What “sexy” means to her now
[33:18] Where to follow or work with Marissa   


CONNECT WITH MARISSA MIZE
www.marissamize.com
Instagram: @iammarissamize
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Has anyone else struggled with putting too many expectations on situations, or even people? Only to end up disappointed that the outcome didn't meet your expectation? I know I can't be the only one! In this episode, I discuss what I have learned from going with the flow. And let me tell you it has been life-changing!

In this episode I talk about:

• Putting expectations on 2021
• How going with the flow can create even better opportunities
• Choosing to learn from my current situation 

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As the co-founder of digital consulting agency Creative Label, Aisha Marshall helps people live their purpose and thrive in business through strategic creativity and branding. She serves as Creative Label’s content and brand strategist, where she spearheads the creative development and digital strategy for businesses across a variety of industries, including fashion, retail, and personal development. Since founding Creative Label in 2016, Aisha has more than quadrupled her staff and doubled the agency's clientele. During this time, she has helped her clients expand their businesses and elevate their purposes, altogether impacting millions of people. In line with her work, Aisha is passionate about educating businesses on industry trends, providing thought leadership about digital strategy and branding on numerous platforms including Create Cultivate, CBS’ “Face the Truth,” “CTV Morning Live” as well as podcasts such as Lori Harder's Earn Your Happy podcast and Creative Label’s own The Label podcast, where she serves as co-host. Prior to founding Creative Label, Aisha graduated from Arizona State University with a bachelor’s degree in journalism, followed by a law degree from ASU’s Sandra Day O’Connor College of Law.

In this episode we talk about:
[2:14] What it felt like being named on Forbes 30 under 30 list in 2020
[3:44] The first time she ever remembers feeling sexy
[7:15] Feeling more confident in what she wants to do and not caring what other people think
[8:53] How she went from Law School to starting her own Creative Digital Agency
[11:24] Trials and Tribulations that she’s had to personally push through after starting Creative Label
[16:50] SEXY
[24:19] What sexy means to her now
[28:05] Aisha’s words of advice for feeling sexier in your own skin
[29:11] Where to follow Aisha


CONNECT WITH AISHA MARSHALL
www.itscreativelabel.com
Instagram: @aisha
@creative.label
                     
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This week is another solo episode because I had a message on my heart that I really wanted to share with you as soon as possible: stop overthinking and just do it!

If you’re anything like me, you could probably overthink yourself to death. You want what you put out there into the world to be perfect, and you want to really weight all your options before you pull the trigger. But here’s the reality… that way of thinking is holding you back and not serving you.

In this episode I talk about:
-how an overthinking pattern will destroy you
-you weren't given anything you can't handle
-why you should think of self-love with a "Just do it!" mindset


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In this episode, I share a personal story about something I've been dealing with at home. I share this with you to ultimately share the lessons I have learned from this experience: protect your energy, there is power in adapting, don't let your (unhealthy) ego control you, and your safety is the most important thing.

If you don't shamelessly protect your energy, then you are not going to have the energy to give that your loved ones deserve.

Also a REMINDER: You are not obligated to be polite to anyone who makes you feel unsafe.


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My guest this week is an incredible woman named Shanae Kidd! Shanae is a self-proclaimed Self-Love Slayer (yes, she gave herself that BOSS title!), corporate woman by day, blogger, and owner of an online clothing boutique called Girl Hi  who’s slogan is “Dressing Confident Girls for Every Occasion.” Her goal is to inspire women to love themselves more and to create confidence via clothing. I’m all about ALL these things, so I knew I had to have her on the show!

In this episode we talk about:
[1:34] First time she remembers feeling sexy
[4:30] How what you wear impacts your confidence
[7:00] How dating a man with a porn addiction made her face her insecurities 
[8:28] How affirmations changed her life and boosted her confidence.
[13:00] Why focusing on self-love improved her dating life and ultimately led to meeting her husband
[17:00] SEXY
 [23:35] How understanding her love language has helped her communicate what she needs from her friends and family. 
[28:13] What sexy means to her now

CONNECT WITH SHANAE KIDD
www.shanaekidd.com
www.girlhiboutique.com
Instagram: @shanaekidd
@girlhiboutique
                     
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Instagram: @kelcyvalletta

This episode is short and sweet, but oh so powerful! This is the last episode of 2020 and I want to give you a practice and a tool that you can use while heading into the new year. MANTRAS! Mantras can be a very effective tool in creating the life that you want to live, because mantras have influence over your mind and body. And that is what I can influence!

 I would absolutely LOVE for you to head into the new year not worried about resolutions, not stressed about the things you need to change, but simply loving yourself and really believing in your gifts and embracing who you are and what makes you unique. That’s what I want for 2021!

In this episode, I give you self-love mantras that you can use or maybe become inspired by to make your own that work best for you.

I also give you info about my FREE Masterclass happening on Thursday, January 7th at 4pm MST. Visit www.findyoursexy.co/coaching to reserve your spot and get more info!


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