Not all grief looks like a funeral. Sometimes, it’s the quiet ache of what never came to be. The version of you that didn’t survive. The dream that never landed. The relationship that ended before it ever began.

In this intimate solo episode, Shelah Marie opens up about the grief that isn’t always honored—the kind that lingers in the corners of our homes, our memories, and our identities. From grieving past versions of ourselves to mourning unrealized futures, this conversation is an invitation to hold space for the losses that often go unnamed. If you’ve ever felt like your grief didn’t “count”—this one’s for you.

What if travel wasn’t just about escape—but about return? In this episode, Shelah is joined by mental wellness strategist and founder of Sorted Chale, Vidette Adjorlolo, for a deeply honest conversation about healing, homecoming, and why Detty December in Ghana is more than a trip—it’s a portal. Together, they unpack how ancestral travel can be a sacred act of reclamation, how Black women can unlearn the performance of survival, and what Detty December really means. If you’re feeling disconnected or craving something deeper than a vacation, this episode is your invitation to return to yourself.

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What if dreaming wasn’t just an escape—but a weapon for disruption? Shelah sits down with Virginia Cumberbatch, an equity strategist, creative activist, and co-founder of Rosa Rebellion, to unpack why rest isn’t just self-care—it’s strategy. 

If you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down or struggled to imagine a world beyond the struggle—this one’s for you. Because rest isn’t just resistance. It’s power.

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What if softness isn’t the reward you earn after healing—but the very tool that helps you heal? In this episode Shelah sits down with writer, cultural commentator, and soft power enthusiast Blue Telusma for a conversation that turns everything we’ve been taught about strength, love, and survival on its head. Together, they explore what it means to reclaim softness—not as a trend, but as a sacred act of resistance—and why expansive, non-traditional love requires emotional sovereignty, self-trust, and unlearning everything we thought we knew about control. If you’ve wondered how to build love that’s free, honest, and yours—this conversation is your permission slip.

What if connecting with spirit was also a form of resistance? In this episode of Unruly, Shelah Marie sits down with medium, occultist, and cultural thinker Ebony Jasmine Harris to talk about the ways spirituality, ancestral connection, and political awareness are deeply intertwined.

This is a deep, rich conversation that affirms what many of us already know: the divine isn’t just in the heavens—it’s in the culture, the body, and the community.

Is faith a business strategy? Can success be intentional and sustainable? This week, we’re sitting down with Abena Boamah-Acheampong, the powerhouse founder behind Hanahana Beauty, to talk about the intersection of faith, creativity, and business. Abena didn’t just launch a skincare brand—she built a movement rooted in ethics, sustainability, and community empowerment. If you’re ready to stop playing by someone else’s rules and start building with faith, this episode is for you.

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What if success isn’t earned—it’s created?

We’ve been sold a hustle-driven version of success that keeps us stuck. But Pea the Feary is here to rewrite the rules. In this episode, we break down manifestation, timeline jumping, and the energetic cheat codes to success that no one talks about. Forget the grind—this is about stepping into your power and making success inevitable. Let’s get into it.

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What does it really mean to live a purpose-driven life? It’s not just about finding a dream job or passion project—it’s about defining success on your own terms. In this episode, journalist and media powerhouse Blake Newby keeps it real about what it actually takes to align your career, your values, and your purpose. If you’ve been feeling stuck or questioning your path, this episode is your sign to make it make sense.

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Are we really free, or is our fate already written? In this episode, Dayna Lynn Nuckolls—The People’s Oracle—breaks down the illusion of free will, the connection between astrology and power, and how divination can help us navigate this moment. We get into the systems that shape our lives, the political forces at play, and what history teaches us about liberation. If you’ve ever questioned how much control you actually have—or what it really takes to break free—this conversation is for you.

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Why is it so damn hard to let go? Whether it’s a toxic relationship, an outdated belief, or the pressure to be everything for everyone—Black women are often taught to hold on at all costs. But what if holding on is what’s keeping us stuck?

In this episode, Shelah Marie sits down with mental health therapist and author Oludara Adeeyo to talk about the art of releasing what no longer serves you—and why true self-care isn’t just face masks and bubble baths, but an active decision to choose yourself.

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