She's So Lucky

#366: If you've ever wondered why some people seem to have opportunities fall into their lap, this conversation is for you.

Jessica Nabongo and I get into what luck really looks like when your life is in alignment, how to tell the difference between chasing something and letting it find you, and why getting clear on who you are might be the most powerful thing you can do for your career. She also shares what it's taken to protect her energy, sit with hard seasons, and show up as more than the one thing people know her for.

We talk about:

• Why the key to luck is increasing your risk tolerance
• Luck, alignment, and treating your life's work like an assignment
• Building a career where everything comes to you
• Protecting your energy online and knowing when to log off
• Being seen as more than the one thing people know you for
• What it took to create a cookbook with a recipe from every country in the world

Episode Links:

• Pre-order Jessica’s new book Catch Me in the Kitchen: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9781426224843
• Subscribe to Jessica’s Substack: https://thecatchmeifyoucan.substack.com/
• Follow Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicanabongo/

Sponsors:

• Cotton: Cotton is the Fabric of Our Lives. To learn more, head to https://www.thefabricofourlives.com
• Nutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.
• Square: Square is offering listeners up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/lucky
• ButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky for $20 off your first box, plus ground beef and bacon in every box for life along with free shipping.
• Dae: Visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKYY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase until October 31, 2026.
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#365: Three years ago when Blake Newby first joined me on the show, life looked a little different. She was in the thick of her Saturn return, still untangling herself from traditional media, betting everything on herself with zero proof it would work.

She's back, and now she's watching those bets pay off in ways she couldn't have scripted. Blake joins me to talk about what it actually feels like when the things you manifested start coming true, and why getting there doesn't erase what it cost to get there.

This is an honest conversation about staying grounded while an entire industry falls apart around you: building your own platform when nobody's handing you opportunities, protecting your integrity when the money gets tempting, and learning to call on something bigger than yourself to keep moving.

We talk about:

• Revisiting the thesis of Blake's first episode, "it's expensive to dream," three years later
• Protecting your integrity as the stakes (and the money) get bigger
• The collapse of traditional and digital media, and why you have to build your own thing now
• Becoming a more responsible, media-literate consumer in the age of misinformation and AI
• Beauty and fashion as inheritance, joy, and politics, not just aesthetics
• Finding alignment through spirituality

Episode Links:

• Follow Blake on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blakelawren/
• Follow Blake on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@blakenewby_
• Episode 207: The Truth About Working Towards Your Dream Career with Blake Newby: https://youtu.be/2dElf_NyOSE
• Subscribe to Blake’s podcast, According to Blake: https://www.youtube.com/@AccordingToBlake

Sponsors:

• Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe with Quince. Visit https://www.quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.
• Ladder: If you have an iPhone, head to https://ladder.fit/lucky and take a quick quiz to find your perfect Ladder plan. Use my link and get a free 7-day trial with NO credit card, and $10 off your first month if you join.
• Instant Hydration: For a better way to stay hydrated, go to https://www.instanthydration.com/solucky and use my promo code SOLUCKY for over 40% off your first subscription order.
• ButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ribeye, New York strip, or filet mignon in every box for a year, with free shipping always.
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• Arca Wealth: Book a complimentary fiduciary planning call at https://www.arcawealth.com/lucky

Connect with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
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#364: In this week's episode of She's So Lucky, I'm sitting down with returning guest, psychologist, and bestselling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco to talk about the science of self-worth and why so much of what we call "identity" is actually just an old memory in disguise.

You might remember Marisa from our February 2023 conversation on platonic intimacy, which ended up being our top episode of the year. She's back this time to talk about her new book, Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment, and this conversation picks up right where that one left off.

Marisa breaks down the difference between the "good twin" and "bad twin" of high self-esteem, why the healthiest people are often the ones who feel their feelings instead of pushing them away, and how memory reconsolidation can actually change the way old pain sits in your body.

Marisa and I talk about how attachment styles became status symbols, why "secure" turned into something people perform instead of something people feel, and why she prefers the term "secure-ish." We also talk about ambition, and why wanting more doesn't automatically mean you're operating from a wound.

This one's tender, it's smart, and it's going to have you thinking about your own memories differently for a long time after you finish listening.

This episode is for you if:

• You've ever felt like the other shoe is about to drop, even when things are going well
• You reject compliments or feel weird when people are nice to you
• You've used attachment theory or self-help language to build an identity instead of understanding a feeling
• You're tired of the "love yourself unconditionally, all the time" messaging and want something more real
• You're questioning whether your ambition is coming from a healthy place or an old wound
• You want to understand the actual neuroscience behind why certain memories keep showing up in your body
• You're ready to stop shaming the parts of yourself that are still healing
• You want language for what it feels like to be loved and still not feel lovable

Episode Links:

• Intimacy in Friendships: Having Healthier Friendships and Making Friends As An Adult with Dr. Marisa G. Franco: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0YZPgrhNWqFtJLyN1BSj2r?si=338a3c77357d46e2
• Get Dr. Franco’s new book Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9798217046591
• Follow Dr. Franco on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisagfranco/
• Check out Dr. Franco’s website: https://drmarisagfranco.com/

Sponsors:

• Dae: Just for She's So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.
• Monarch: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at https://www.monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.
• Opill: Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online.
• Bask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.
• Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.
• Cozy Earth: Head to https://www.cozyearth.com and use my code LUCKYLES for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear.

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#363: In two years, Marina Middleton went from a first-time Create & Cultivate attendee to co-owner and CEO of the company. Now, three years into running it, she’s sharing the honest truth about what it looks like to be on the other side of a major quantum leap.

Marina joins me to talk about the moment she realized she’d lost her spark, and what she did to get it back. If you’ve ever felt like you have to choose between the career you’re building and building a family, or you struggle with tying your work to your worth, this one is for you.

This episode is an honest conversation about reclaiming your ambition without sacrificing the people you love, or running yourself into the ground.

We talk about:

• The DM that turned Marina into co-owner and CEO of Create & Cultivate
• How to separate your worth from your work
• Why ambition isn’t something to be ashamed of, and how to reclaim it
• How to get your spark back after a period of burnout
• Cutting out frenemies and building real boundaries (plus her checklist that went viral)

Episode Links:

• Related Episode: How to Start Angel Investing with Jaclyn Johnson https://open.spotify.com/episode/664zbiSkUF9AGIyigNt6Yg?si=iUN_FVZFQ8uNplFY58MD6Q
• Follow Marina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marinaamiddleton/
• Follow Create & Cultivate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createcultivate/
• Check out the Create & Cultivate Festival in LA on September 19 and 20: https://www.createcultivate.com/festival

Sponsors:

• Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.thefabricofourlives.com
• IM8: Get a free welcome kit, five free travel packs and 10% off your order at https://www.IM8health.com/lucky code LUCKY
• Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapod
• Ladder: Remove the guesswork with Ladder and get a real coach telling you exactly what to do for every workout. If you have an iPhone, head to https://www.ladder.fit/lucky to take a quick quiz and find your perfect ladder plan. Use my link and get a free 7-day trial and $10 off your first month if you join.
• OSEA: Go to https://www.oseamalibu.com and get 10% off your first order with code LUCKY.
• Dae: Just for She’s So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.

Connect with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
• Subscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
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• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
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• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#362: Stephany Faublas built her platform on radical honesty, and she’s bringing her signature candor to this week’s conversation.

Stephany joins me to talk about what raising herself looks like right now, in the season after the court wins, after the healing, after she stopped performing being "okay" and started taking the steps to shift from surviving to thriving. We get into the mom sabbatical she took this summer, the boundary that changed her life, and what creating her own luck looks like in real-time.

This episode is a masterclass in what it actually looks like to design your life instead of just surviving it.

What you'll take from this episode:

• How to stop performing "okay" what it takes to truly get out of survival mode
• A new way to think about the oxygen mask advice everyone gives but nobody actually follows
• How to release the shame that comes with choosing yourself
• Why you can’t process what you don’t let yourself feel
• How to think about money as a tool for freedom, not just survival, and where to start if you don't have a plan yet
• A reminder that your life is something you can design, and the first steps to doing so

Episode Links:

• Follow Stephany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stehfuhnee_/
• Follow Stephany on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stehfuhnee_?lang=en
• Subscribe to Stephany’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvk7Yw5lbM7xwNG8QJeVtgA
• Subscribe to the Afterbirth Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@afterbirthpodcast

Sponsors:

• LILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.LILYSILK.com/lucky and use code lucky at checkout for 20% off your purchase.
• Larine: Larine is offering our listeners up to 50% off at https://www.buylarine.com/lucky
• Instant Hydration: For a better way to stay hydrated, go to https://www.instanthydration.com/solucky and use my promo code SOLUCKY for over 40% off your first subscription order.
• Brickhouse Nutrition: Visit https://www.brickhousenutrition.com/lucky for 20% off and free shipping.
• Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.
• Dae: Just for She's So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.

Connect with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
• Subscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
• Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
• Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok
• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#361: Tareasa “ReesaTeesa” Johnson went viral in February 2024 with "Who the F Did I Marry?", the 50-part TikTok series that ended up in front of half a billion people. This week she's back with something different: her memoir, "What TF Do I Do Now?" just dropped, and she’s bringing us even deeper into her story.

We also get into the parts nobody wants to admit out loud: what she calls the viral tax, the real cost hiding behind every brand deal and TV offer, and the loneliness that shows up even when your name is a hashtag half the world knows. She's honest about the fact that alone and lonely aren't the same thing, but they've overlapped for her more than she wanted to say in the book.

This episode is for you if...

• You're learning how to trust your gut
• You're curious what actually happens financially and mentally after a story goes viral
• You need the reframe from "what if I'm wrong" to "what if I'm right" in your own life right now
• You're doing the quiet work of forgiving yourself
• You want to hear how someone rebuilds trust with her own intuition after ignoring it

Episode Links:

• Get your copy of What TF Do I Do Now, by Tereasa “ReesaTeesa” Johnson: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9798217088607
• Follow Reesa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reesamteesa?lang=en
• Follow Reesa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reesateesa/

Sponsors:

• Monarch: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at https://www.monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.
• Superpower: Visit https://www.superpower.com and use code LUCKY for $20 off your $199 Superpower membership.
• Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/lucky
• Quince: Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to https://www.quince.com/balancedles. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
• Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.
• Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.
• Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use the code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at https://www.opill.com.

Connect with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
• Subscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
• Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
• Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok
• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#360: In honor of my 37th birthday, I’m sharing seven mindset shifts I’m bringing into my 37th year. From wellness, to having more audacity, to better time management, these seven shifts are moving the needle for me, and I think they can help you too.

Episode Links:

• 35 Things I Learned by My 35th Birthday: https://youtu.be/XBYilEerUrg?si=5Lrev2xDXY5j98DN

Sponsors:

• Nuuly: Visit use code LUCKY at https://www.nuuly.com to get $28 off your first month.
• IM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to https://www.IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.
• Bask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.
• LILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.LILYSILK.com/lucky and use code lucky at checkout for 20% off your purchase.

Keep in Touch with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
• Subscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
• Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
• Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok
• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#359: If you're learning how to embrace the fear of not knowing what's next, this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Hunter Harris and Peyton Dix, writers, creatives, tastemakers, and co-hosts of the pop culture podcast Lemme Say This. We dig into the media and pop culture moments that helped them create their own luck, and the creative pivots they’ve made along the way.

We also talk about navigating seasons of transition, and what it really looks like to leave your comfort zone and figure out your next best step when you’re in the messy middle.

This episode is for you if:

• You're in a season of not knowing what's next and need to hear that the in-between can be the best part
• You've ever felt like your value was tied to a job title or company name
• You want permission to embrace fear again instead of only chasing what's comfortable

We talk about...

• The pop culture moments that shaped their taste and career, and what "divas" reveal about our current culture
• How they’ve maintained their friendship while building a business together, and what it actually takes to build something with someone you love
• Leaving big mastheads behind and learning who you are outside of a job title
• The difference between a hot take and an honest opinion, and why manufactured outrage isn't it

Episode Links:

• Listen to Lemme Say This: https://lnk.to/lemmesaythisSL
• Follow Hunter on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hunterh/
• Follow Peyton on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peytondix/
• Follow Lemme Say This on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lemmesaythispod/
• Subscribe to Lemme Say This on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LemmeSayThisPodcast

Sponsors:

• IM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.
• Monarch Money: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.
• Opill: Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online.
• Larine: Larine is offering our listeners up to 50% off at https://www.buylarine.com/lucky
• LILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.lilysilk.com/lucky and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your purchase.
• ButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ground beef for life, or free chicken thighs or top sirloins in every box for a year, with free shipping always.

Connect with Les:

• Subscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
• Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
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• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#358: Today's solo episode started as a reflection on my own disillusionment and turned into a bigger theme: de-influencing. De-influencing myself from glow-up culture, from FOMO, and so much more. The more I let go of what I'm "supposed" to want, the luckier I actually feel — and I think most of us have at least one thing we're still letting an algorithm or a comment section talk us into.

If you've ever gone along with something because you thought you were supposed to want it, only to realize once you were in it that it didn't actually feel good, this episode is for you. I'm getting into what it looks like to actually listen to that feeling instead of pushing through it, and what's on the other side when you do.

This episode is for you if…

• You're tired of contorting yourself to be palatable and want permission to stop.
• You've ever felt FOMO about an event, a trip, or an opportunity and needed someone to talk you off the ledge.
• You're ready to get harder to influence, and luckier for it.

Sponsors:

• Luxe Tribes: Visit https://www.luxetribes.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for $100 off your first trip.
• Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapod
• Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.TheFabricofOurLives.com
• Brickhouse Nutrition: Go to https://www.brickhousenutrition.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off and free shipping.

Keep in Touch with Les:

• Subscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
• Follow Les on IG @lesalfred
• Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
• Follow Les on TikTok @theluckyles
• Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok
• Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

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#357: Recho Omondi launched The Cutting Room Floor as "Fashion's Only Fashion Show" back in 2018, when nobody understood why a fashion podcast should exist. Now she's just closed a multi-year partnership with Patreon, the platform she's been exclusively building her community with since 2021. 

This week we trace it all: the art school pivot from pre-med, the accidental embroidery business that out-earned her fashion label, and the meeting where she walked into Patreon's C-suite and pitched them a deal nobody had ever been offered before. 

We also get into the parts nobody wants to admit out loud: what it actually feels like when your biggest win gets met with silence, and why the algorithm might be doing more damage to how we see each other than many of us are willing to admit.

This episode is for you if...

• You're building something slow and unsexy that nobody's clapping for yet, but you know it's working
• You've ever had a huge win met with silence from someone who was supposed to be happy for you
• You want a reframe on jealousy that isn't just "ignore it and move on"
• You're curious what it actually takes to build a paid community from scratch, no borrowed audience, no shortcuts
• You need permission to trust your gut over everyone else's opinion

Episode Links:

• Subscribe to The Cutting Room Floor on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/thecuttingroomfloor
• Follow The Cutting Room Floor on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecuttingroomfloor/
• Follow Recho on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omondi/
• Follow The Cutting Room Floor on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tcrfff

Sponsors:

• Nuuly: Visit use code LUCKY at https://www.nuuly.com to get $28 off your first month.
• Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/lucky
• Superpower: Visit https://www.superpower.com and use code LUCKY for $20 off your $199 Superpower membership.
• Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky

Connect with Les:

• Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter
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