#185. In a rare turn of events, we are doing a Q&A episode today. You’re being nosey, I’m (happily) oversharing about all things wedding, relationships, mental health, & more. This episode is meant to make you feel a little better about yourself as I share how not-together my life truly is (because NO ONES is… it’s always something). 

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Ready to take a fresh path to self-discovery? Every Monday, Jemma of “The Psychology of your 20s” brings you a new mantra, breaking it down to show you how you can apply it to your own life. Whether you’re facing a major transition or looking to evolve your everyday routine, Mantra is the podcast for you. Join Jemma every week for reflections, practical tips, and personal insights that’ll inspire you to live with intention and unlock your true potential. Follow Mantra with Jemma Sbeg wherever you get your podcasts.

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#184. Welcome to the Dating 101 series! Dating in today’s world can feel overwhelming, but with the right approach, it can be a fulfilling (& fun) journey toward finding a life partner. This course is designed for women who are dating with the intention of marriage who want to navigate the process with clarity, confidence and purpose.

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#183. Hannah Chody left her career in finance to pursue a remote role and to commit to growing (& making money off of) her social media channels. In today’s episode, we’re detailing Hannah’s career transition, how to grow on social media nowadays, and a step-by-step to switching career paths successfully. 

DISCLAIMER: This episode was recorded before the shut down and subsequent restoration of TikTok in the US.

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#182. We’re back with another installment of ASK P, an episode where I answer listener Qs and give, surprisingly, SOLICITED advice. In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to handle body talk in relationships, and asking “how important is sexual fulfillment in a relationship?” Listeners write in about lowkey despising their best friend’s partner, approaching mental health-related topics with their boyfriend and compromising on engagement & marriage timelines. 

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#181. As a retiring mass-consumer, I’ve been transforming how I practice the art of shopping, collecting, gifting, etc. As “just a girl,” I’m not likely to partake in the no-buy trend I’ve seen around socials, albeit a healthy trend to partake in. That being said, I would like to be more intentional in my consumption, especially when it comes to the things I wear, interact with and see in my space every day. Enter: Caroline Stern’s concept of the “Niche Luxury Hot Girl.” Inspired by her TikTok series of the same name, we’re talking all things NLHG in today’s episode of Note to Self.

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#180. Joe and I are getting married! Today’s episode is about my engagement story and the importance of connecting with yourself during these memorable life moments. I’m dishing some details about the ring, and Joe joins us at the end to answer a few questions. 

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#179. From newsletters that will make you smarter to apps that will make you healthier, I’m sharing my top hot-girl tools & resources for 2025. This list will be ever-growing, so make sure to follow NTS on social media (@ntsbyps) for direct links and more tools/resources to improve yourself & your life throughout the year. 

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#178. Improving your every day starts with acknowledging where you are right now. I like to start each year with a deep look in the metaphorical mirror, so I know exactly where I am and where I’m wanting to go. I’m walking through my very transparent life audit, and sharing the mindset, habits, & tools I’m planning on implementing in my life to make 2025 the best year yet. 

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#177.  I’m sitting down with the founder & CEO of Allara Health, a women’s virtual care platform that provides personalized treatment for chronic hormonal, metabolic, and gynecological conditions, Rachel Blank. Rachel created Allara Health out of necessity, as dealing with her own health struggles revealed the obvious gaps in traditional healthcare’s ability to treat these conditions. This episode is for anyone looking to take control of their hormone health in 2025 and beyond. 

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