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In this episode, Rachel dives into the silent, corrosive emotion of resentment and the hidden toll it takes on busy, strong women. Rachel shares her deeply personal story of keeping a physical "Resentment Jar" where she secretly stored all the things she swallowed instead of saying out loud, from unwashed mugs to a desire for support.
Resentment is a Quiet, Poisonous Hum: It's the feeling you get when you're doing everything, but no one notices, often manifesting as a quiet, poisonous hum that sits under your ribs.
The "Good Girl" Syndrome: Strong women often believe they "just cope" and "don't make a fuss," leading them to swallow their feelings to "keep the peace," which ultimately leads to resentment.
The Physical Cost of Suppression: When you swallow a feeling that needs to be said, your body floods with stress chemicals, just like when you're in danger. These chemicals stay in your body, making you feel "tight, sore, and so bloody exhausting".
Suppression Leads to Anxiety and Sleep Issues: Studies show that when women keep stuffing their feelings down, anxiety symptoms "go through the roof" and their sleep gets "properly wrecked".
The 7-Minute Release Practice: The episode offers a gentle, body-based practice to allow emotions to move through you, starting with identifying where the feeling lives in your body and using deep, sighing breaths and movement to release it.
"That quiet, poisonous hum that sits under your ribs when you feel like you're doing everything and nobody even notices. You know the one: resentment."
"Good girls just don't make a fuss, right? Strong women just cope. They find a way, they make a way. Mums just get on with it. That's what we do."
"It was safer at that time than speaking."
"My shoulders dropped, my jaw unclenched. I cried like a baby in the dark and it sort of felt like the first honest breath I'd taken in years."
"You're not a horrible person for feeling resentful. You're a woman who's been carrying the world on her shoulders and pretending it's light."
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Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience.
Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them.
Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.
