Ben Goresky spent his early adult life as an addictions counsellor, & holds a bachelor's degree in Addictions Counselling.
He coachs men in 1st and 2nd stage recovery using a holistic approach to accelerate their healing and achieve a full recovery from addiction.
As a leader in The Samurai Brotherhood, a community for conscious men, he draws on his experience in the realms of addiction, & transpersonal therapy to support men in improving their relationships, and their success in the world.
His dream is to live in a world where everybody knows their value, feels loved, and is in touch with their purpose.
& the work he does truly is helping that dream come true.
What we discuss in this episode:
-part of what brought him to this work was that “he had met his match & knew that if he didn’t level up that he would probably sabotage the relationship”
-It’s not your job to tell your partner when they’re projecting
-“your dream partner will become your nightmare, and we need to learn to resolve the nightmare without forcing the other person to change…”
-why men have such a hard time taking suggestions from women. Is it a mother wound or is it our culture?
- “If you think you're enlightened, spend a week with your family” do we ever stop getting triggered?
-How we can truly set aside our ego so that we can hold space for our partner
-Learning to hold and love our partners inner child
-the US vs THEM sickness that many of us have
-The best distraction your mind can create to prevent you from looking inward is to have someone else to blame
-How he asks his men’s group, “I think I’m better than other people because___” & what happens in the group when this is answered honestly
-Why we are all so selfish but refuse to acknowledge it
-intellectualism as a common cover-up for fear of direct experiences (intellectual bypassing)
-letting yourself be imperfect
-BEING alone with our thoughts
Books mentioned: king warrior magician lover
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