Untether Your Life

Untether Your Life

By Nikhil TorsekarHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Untether Your Life episodes

  • 63: Vasavi Kumar - The Transformative Power of "Saying It Out Loud"

    Vasavi Kumar is often described as the "Queen of Saying It Out Loud." A first-generation Indian immigrant raised on Long Island, NY, Vasavi has relentlessly searched to find her own voice, access the freedom of her creative spirit, and help others along the way...out loud.

    When diagnosed with bipolar disorder at the age of 19, she made it her life’s purpose to understand how her mind works, starting with making room to hear herself think. Her mission is to share everything—the good, bad, and ugly—in order to teach a more mindful, practical, and simple way of running every aspect of your life.

    Through her Say It Out Loud platform, Vasavi has taught thousands of entrepreneurs, creatives, and artists from all walks of life how to move through any situation — by saying it out loud.

    In this episode, host Nikhil Torsekar speaks with Vasavi on many topics, including:

    The mission of the Say It Out Loud platform, which includes a podcast (now in its 6th year) and a book published earlier this year by New World Library
    Vasavi's journey with bipolar disorder, and recommendations for other South Asians looking for strategies to manage this condition
    The struggle of South Asians and the complex relationship with our culture; long ridiculed and marginalized, it is now being embraced by the mainstream for Ayurveda, yoga, and other practices seen as trendy and worthy of appropriation or co-opting
    The empowering value of self-talk - something that we've long been dissuaded from engaging in
    The concept of "power leakages" - how they prevent us from living our best life, and what we can do to regain control


    To work with Vasavi and get a copy of Say It Out Loud, visit vasavikumar.com or connect with her at

    @mynameisvasavi on Instagram.

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    50 min
  • 62: Dr. Nilesh Satguru - The Science of Compassion and Self-Mastery Coaching

    Gratitude is a topic that gets a great deal of attention in the personal growth space. However, an area that is less discussed is compassion - a subject that this week's guest (Dr. Nilesh Satguru) is very knowledgeable and passionate about.

    Dr. Nilesh Satguru is a self-mastery coach, compassion expert and medical doctor. After over a decade practicing medicine, Nilesh now coaches entrepreneurs with powerful missions. His client list includes 7 figure serial entrepreneurs, ex-athletes, authors, executive coaches and award-winning charity founders. He was recently named by LA Weekly as one of "10 Leading Coaches to watch in 2023."

    This episode explores a wide range of topics including:

    The scientifically proven benefits of compassion, as studied by famed UCLA neuroscientist and researcher Dr. Daniel Siegel: how it can literally bridge connections between different parts of our brain and help maximize performance
    An overview of Altered Traits, The Body Keeps the Score, The Molecule of More, and other literature that demonstrate our power to change the structure and function of our brain
    Limitations of the overly compartmentalized Western healthcare system, which prompted Nilesh to explore functional and integrative medicine, and other holistic modalities.
    What Nilesh learned from the lotus flower - which thrives in mud - in showing resilience and learning through extremely adverse, life-altering circumstances in his career as a general practitioner in the UK.

    To work with Nilesh, please visit drsatguru.com, or connect with him at

    @drsatguru on Instagram.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about ⁠⁠⁠Untether Your Life⁠⁠⁠ and other projects:

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    44 min
  • 61: Tanya Mitra - The Remixed Relationship, and Managing Mental Health in the South Asian Diaspora

    Of the many issues impacting the South Asian diaspora, one topic we haven't discussed on this show is relations with other minority groups. So I was very excited to connect on this week's episode with Tanya Mitra, one of the most prominent voices on the topic of Blindian (Black and South Asian) relationships. She is a perfect illustration of a life untethered, as she's broken free of numerous templates in the South Asian diaspora - in her choices of career, romantic partner, and strategies for managing her mental health.

    Tanya is an Indian-Canadian-American former luxury fashion executive turned Conscious Change Life Coach who works with Women of Color + Women of Immigrant Descent to break the cycles of limitation by unpacking toxic cultural and societal conditioning.

    Tanya is also the creator of The Remixed Relationship (formerly known as Blindian Bliss), a group coaching program and community that supports South Asian women in a relationship with a Black partner who are struggling to navigate familial and cultural disapproval by learning to courageously and confidently live in their truth.

    We touched on many topics, including:

    How relations between black and South Asian communities – specifically romantic and marital relationships - have evolved since the 1990's, when Tanya began her first relationship with a black boyfriend in high school.
    Tanya's incredibly challenging journey with mental health, which began at age 16 with several suicide attempts, hospitalization, and multiple rounds of trial and error with medication. By getting curious, reading extensively, and probing beyond the "script" read to her by doctors, she was able to own her health and achieve happiness, balance, and stability in her life.
    The mission of Blindian Bliss, a group coaching program that helps South Asian women in relationships with black men achieve "self-awareness, love, heart-centered guidance, and enjoy the best and most important ride of their lives," along with success stories of women who have gone through the program.

    To learn more about Tanya's story or find out how to work with her, please visit tanya-mitra.com, or connect with her at @the.remixed.relationship on Instagram.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about ⁠⁠Untether Your Life⁠⁠ and other projects:

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    55 min
  • 60: Neal Bakshi - Banking On Angels: From Wall Street To Spiritual Awakening

    One of the most exciting parts of hosting Untether Your Life is connecting with folks with whom I "vibe" on numerous fronts, such as Neal Bakshi. Like me, Neal's parents came to the US from India, he worked for years in the very stressful financial services industry, and he developed a strong affinity for Eastern wellness modalities of a traditional (i.e., Paramahansa Yogananda’s Self-Realization Fellowship) and modern (i.e., Niraj Naik's SOMA Breath) variety.

    We touched on numerous topics on this week's episode, including:

    Neal's move from the cut throat, always-on world of investment banking at Goldman Sachs to that of a spiritual life coach, reiki energy healer, breathwork instructor, and digital nomad
    Neal's recently published book

    , and how it can help readers achieve a sustainable meditation practice, attain higher states of consciousness, and appreciate the power of synchronicities in life

    How the devastating and unexpected loss of his mother prompted him to untether his life, and rethink his previous attachment to the never-ending pursuit of material satisfaction
    The legacy of Greek mathematician Pythagoras, beyond the widely-known Pythagorean theorem: the vibrational energy of numbers; the significance of "angel numbers;" and why (how??) Neal gets up at the ungodly hour of 3:33 every morning
    The scientifically proven benefits of breathwork, meditation, and energy healing
    A deeper dive into the

    by David Hawkins, Einstein's maxim that "everything is energy" and the Soul Audit, as developed by Jean-Francois Brau

    If any of these concepts resonate with you, please reach out to Neal on Instagram, visit his website at nealbakshi.com, or check out his book Banking on Angels.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about ⁠Untether Your Life⁠ and other projects:

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    54 min
  • 59: Dylan Bernstein: Maximizing Mental and Physical Wellness Through Yoga and Other Eastern Practices

    Are you looking to improve your mental health and overall sense of wellbeing? Focusing on deep breathing and gentle poses through the practice of yoga may help!

    On this podcast, we love to go beyond medication and cognitive behavioral therapy and other traditional modalities in exploring approaches to managing mental wellness.

    In this encore episode of Untether Your Life, we discuss yoga as a mental health management tool. To help educate us and our audience, we have invited one of the practice’s preeminent voices, Dylan Bernstein. Nikhil and Dylan met in middle school at Maumee Valley Country Day School in Toledo, Ohio in 1989. This is where Dylan was introduced to yoga and meditation at age 14, from their favorite teacher Jenny Barthold. Since then, he has called upon these practices to engage the body, still the mind, and seek more subtle expressions of self.

    He has gone on to teach classes, workshops, retreats, and teacher training in Hong Kong, Istanbul, Bali, and other locations worldwide.

    While all physical exercise plays a role in improving your mental health, yoga is particularly helpful as it incorporates breathwork and meditation to help quiet the mind.

    Tuning in today, you’ll learn more about Ashtanga yoga, the self-directed practice of Mysore, and some of the ​​benefits of yoga and meditation for not only your physical health but your mental and emotional wellbeing too!

    Ultimately, Dylan believes that yoga is for everyone, not just Instagram models in designer yoga pants or devout yogis who can twist themselves into seemingly impossible poses. It’s all about owning your health and doing what works for you, and we hope that this episode will inspire you to do just that.

    Topics discussed in this episode:

    The value of having a good teacher
    Insight into Dylan’s yoga journey, which began when he was in high school
    The surprising role Indian comic books played in inspiring his first trip to India
    How Dylan learned to follow his bliss – as per Joseph Campbell
    Why he believes that education is key to your personal foundation
    How the pandemic influenced his practice and brought philosophy to the fore
    Sacrifice, gratitude, practice, and detachment: what yoga means to Dylan
    Breath and pose in the practice of Ashtanga
    Why yoga is often misunderstood as a physical, acquisitive practice
    An understanding of the self-directed approach of Mysore
    Dylan’s thoughts on the commercialization of yoga
    Going beyond the cookie-cutter solutions of medication and cognitive therapy
    Benefits of yoga and meditation for your mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing
    How to start your yoga journey, starting with finding a good teacher!

    You can stay up to date with Dylan by following him on ⁠Instagram⁠ and ⁠Facebook⁠! You can also check out his ⁠website⁠ or reach out to him directly at ⁠[email protected]⁠

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about his various initiatives:

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 58: Happy Birthday to The Life Shift Podcast!

    This week's episode features my thoughts on The Life Shift Podcast as well as a trailer for the show, which launched a year ago.

    One of the things I've loved most about my journey in podcasting is connecting with amazing fellow podcasters such as the show's host, Matt Gilhooly. The Life Shift Podcast features candid conversations with people about the pivotal moments that changed their lives forever.

    We all have our stories, but through these conversations, we discover communities. We learn that there are commonalities through the ups and downs that we all face. But most importantly, we learn that we are not alone. The Life Shift podcast highlights life-altering moments and humanizes the struggles and triumphs through them all.

    Please follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast app, and listen to new episodes every Tuesday morning.

    If you enjoy The Life Shift Podcast, please take a moment to rate the show 5 stars! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    In honor of the one-year anniversary of The Life Shift, here's a quick bit from Matt discussing the show, along with a "highlight reel" featuring some incredible guests.

    This trailer features moments from episodes, including:

    Pamela Topjian
    Matt LeBris
    Cristina Marcello
    Matt Drinkhahn
    Wiley Davis
    Rebecca Lerch
    Claudia Noriega-Bernstein
    Brian Acord

    Music: Spark of Inspiration by Shane Ivers - https://silvermansound.com

    Ad-free episodes released two days early, and bonus episodes with past guests available through Patreon. https://patreon.com/thelifeshiftpodcast

    Connect with The Life Shift:

    Instagram: http://instagram.com/thelifeshiftpodcast
    YouTube: https://bit.ly/thelifeshift_youtube
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/thelifeshiftpod
    Website: http://thelifeshiftpodcast.com

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about ⁠Untether Your Life⁠ and other projects:

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    4 min
  • 57: Natasha Levinger - Author, Healing Your Inner Child; Host, Getting to Know Woo Podcast: Intuition, Inner Child Work, Energy Healing

    The central theme of Untether Your Life is going beyond traditional modalities for managing your mental and physical wellness. What does that actually mean though? It’s a very broad statement, but intuition, inner child work, and energy healing are some of the essential elements of this holistic approach. 

    This week’s guest, Natasha Levinger, is well versed in all of this, and then some. Based in Asheville, North Carolina, she is a professional intuitive reader, energy healer and inner child healing expert. Through her practice Highest Light Healing, she teaches classes and workshops, delivers meditations, and much more. Natasha writes a monthly column called The Energy Report, for the leading wellness lifestyle site Mind Body Green, is the co-host of the podcast Getting to Know Woo and her book, Healing Your Inner Child comes out in April 2023.

    Host Nikhil Torsekar had a very enlightening discussion with Natasha on numerous topics, including:

    An overview of chakras - "vortexes of energy" - and how can better understanding them can equip us to optimize our physical and emotional well being
    How meditation (including several that Natasha offers through her Website) works to clear chakras, and can assist in managing anxiety, depression, addiction, chronic fatigue syndrome, and many other issues
    A closer look at the concept of the inner child, which is "a part of ourselves that stayed stuck in an event"
    How engaging in a more supportive and nurturing dialogue with our inner can child help us better manage challenges such as addiction to sugar, social media, and other vices
    The mission of Natasha's Getting to Know Woo Podcast; how, despite the comical title and light tone, it can provide serious benefit to those seeking help for their trauma beyond medication and cognitive behavioral therapy

    Find out more about Natasha by visiting her Website - highestlighthealing.com, checking out her podcast Getting to Know Woo, or preordering her book on Amazon. You can also connect with her on Instagram.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about Untether Your Life and other projects:

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    35 min
  • 56: Robert Pardi - Possibility in Action: Embracing Impermanence in New York City, Dubai, and Abruzzo, Italy

    Robert Pardi is the founder of Possibility in Action™, "a powerful personal growth philosophy that can help unlock a world of limitless possibilities and potential."

    Robert embodies the tenets of Untether Your Life: after his young wife passed away of metastatic breast cancer, Robert re-imagined his life and left his comfort zone to achieve new dreams. He now shares the many life lessons he’s learned through his work and fashioned his life as an example of Possibility in Action™.

    Prior to his dramatic life change, the New York City native had spent several years in the Middle East, as Senior Portfolio Manager in Abu Dhabi, and Co-Founder of the Dubai-based Private Equity firm Evolvence Capital. He now spends the majority of his time in Abruzzo, Italy.

    Outside of traditional coaching, Robert hosts personal growth retreats and workshops in Italy, creates micro video mindset modules and hosts the Possibility in Action podcast. In this week's episode host Nikhil Torsekar and Robert touch on many topics, including:

    The origin of Possibility in Action, and how this platform can liberate us from the "land of regret."
    Robert's circuitous journey from an abusive upbringing in The Bronx, to a promising career in private equity and idyllic married life in Abu Dhabi and Dubai (cut far too short when his wife Desiree passed from cancer at 41), to his current vocation in Abruzzo, Italy
    How taking care of Desiree informed his decision to become a life coach and write three best-selling books
    What the imperfections in the pieces of ancient mosaics and Michelangelo's David can teach us about self actualization
    How daydreaming - an activity that we're dissuaded from as children - can serve as a powerful catalyst to help us realize a major life shift.
    Philosophies and authors who have resonated with Robert, including Richard Bach, Rumi, and stoicism - along with the Eastern notion of impermanence

    To learn more about Robert and Possibility in Action, please visit his Website - robertpardi.com, or reach out to him on LinkedIn, Instagram, or Facebook.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about Untether Your Life and other projects:

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    42 min
  • 55: Erwin B. Valencia - NBA Wellness Expert, the "Godfather of Gratitude," Non-Profit & Web3 Founder on the Power of Gratitude and Much More

    The term “polymath” gets thrown around quite a bit these days, with many people positioning themselves as experts in X, Y, or Z. However, a lot of times it's, as they say, "all hat, no cattle." And then there's Erwin B. Valencia who despite wearing many hats - both literally and figuratively, truly embodies the term. 

    Erwin – (aka “E,” or the “Godfather of Gratitude”) is a professional polymath: Wellness Expert/High-Performance Sports Clinician/ Life Coach / Community Nurturer / Non-Profit Founder / Mentor / Dance Ninja. 

    He is the Team Physical Therapist & Wellness Lead for the New York Knicks, the first Filipino to be hired on medical staff of any major US sports team (both the NBA and MLB), founder of Grasshopper Project and Gratitude Gang, and has emerged as a Web3 thought leader on a mission to inspire 1 million Filipinos in the next 5 years. He was recently named one of the 75 Most Influential Filipino Americans, alongside celebrities such as comedian Jo Koy and singer Olivia Rodrigo

    Join Untether Your Life host Nikhil Torsekar as he sits down with Erwin to discuss numerous topics, including:

    How martial arts can teach us to strike a balance between aggressiveness and stillness and, as Bruce Lee once stated, “flow like water.” 
    How Erwin has brought the practice of breathwork and meditation to bring mindfulness to the NBA, which is typically a very adrenaline and fight-or-flight driven environment
    How can starting each day with gratitude, intentionality, and meditation enables Erwin to maximize The 4 P’s – positivity, peace, passion, and purpose – and helped him to manage his mental health even during unforeseen setbacks in initiatives he’d launched
    Erwin's pride in being Filipino, and serving as a mentor, role model, and kuya (Tagalog for "elder brother") to countless future leaders from this region 
    The Filipino concept of atat, or extreme urgency, and how it can often lead to the exact opposite outcome of what we’d hoped for
    Erwin’s experience with

    , the world’s leading personal growth platform, along with The Silva Method, which he’d learned about in the Philippines as a 14-year old

    To connect with E and learn more about Grasshopper Project, Gratitude Gang, his work with the Knicks, and his thoughts on gratitude (and much more), follow him on Instagram, Twitter, or LinkedIn. 

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about Untether Your Life and other projects:

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    48 min
  • 54: Jenny Thrasher, All That We Are - Beyond Saving a Life, to Living a Life We Love

    Jenny Thrasher is on a mission to "shift the mental health narrative from a fear-based, crisis mentality to one of wellness and empowerment." Through her companies All That We Are and Growing Out of Darkness, as well as her writings, she was able to untether herself from the traditionally dire and hopeless approach to navigating the gut-wrenching journey of loss. This is a topic the tireless mental health advocate is all too familiar with, as her father died by suicide, her own daughter nearly took her life, and she herself struggled with suicidal ideation following pregnancy.

    In this episode of Untether Your Life, host Nikhil Torsekar and Jenny touch on many topics, including:

    The vital importance of practicing safe messaging and exercising caution with our choices of words when discussing difficult concepts such as suicide 
    How the tragic loss or near loss of a loved one can teach us to shift from simply staying alive to truly living a life we love
    The actual stigma around suicide (most likely different from what you'd think)
    The background and mission of All That We Are and Growing Out of Darkness
    The story behind her published book Growing Through Grief, as well as her upcoming work
    The merits of acupuncture, reiki, reflexology, emotional freedom technique (EFT) and other holistic healing modalities

    To learn more about Jenny and request a copy of her book, please visit All That We Are or Growing Out of Darkness, or connect with her on Instagram at jennythrasher.allthatweare.

    Connect with Nikhil to learn more about Untether Your Life and other projects:

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    49 min

About Untether Your Life

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Untether Your Life empowers listeners to own their own health and break free of "templates" for managing physical and mental wellness, along with key issues impacting the South Asian diaspora. Nikhil Torsekar speaks with experts in meditation, folks who have struggled with mental illness, clinicians with insights on the South Asian experience, and other incredible guests.

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