This episode took the air out of the room.

Jessica sits down with Urban Valor and walks us through the life most people never see behind the uniform. From a childhood surrounded by chaos and addiction… to stepping into a Marine Corps environment that felt more like danger than brotherhood… to losing herself inside a bottle just trying to cope with the weight of everything she’d carried since childhood.

She gets real about the DUI that nearly ended her career, the harassment she endured, the blackmail that pushed her to the edge, and the moment she realized the system that was supposed to protect her was ready to burn her instead.

And then — she takes us into the deep end.

Her ibogaine journey.
The pain.
The hallucinations.
The emotional rebirth.
The moment she met the child version of herself and finally understood why she drank, why she ran, and why she hurt.

This might be one of the most important conversations we’ve had with a veteran. Not because it’s dramatic — but because it’s honest.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – Entering the Marine Corps & First Warning Signs
02:00 – Childhood Trauma: Abuse, Neglect & Survival
06:30 – Alcohol in the Marine Corps & Isolation Overseas
11:00 – The DUI That Changed Everything
15:45 – Harassment, Blackmail & a Broken System
22:50 – Getting Demoted & Hitting Rock Bottom Again
28:40 – Traveling to Colombia & Rediscovering Life
34:00 – MSG Dreams Crushed & Another Setback
38:30 – Testing Positive & Preparing for Discharge
44:50 – Living in a Bus & Rebuilding Purpose
49:00 – Starting Liberisk & Helping Veterans Heal
53:00 – Entering Psychedelic Treatment (Ibogaine)
55:15 – The Ibogaine Trip: Pain, Darkness & Revelation
1:05:00 – Emotional Breakthrough & Rebirth
1:12:00 – What She Learned & How It Changed Everything
1:18:00 – The Bigger Message for Veterans & Humanity

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This is the stuff they don’t put in documentaries.

Seth Ryan’s first combat mission as an Army Ranger wasn’t just historic — it was horrifying. We’re talking chemical suits, pitch-black raids, gunships in the sky, and digging up decomposed soldiers with their bare hands. This is the real story behind the rescue of POW Jessica Lynch — told by the guy who lived it.

And trust me... you’ve never heard it like this like you will on today's Urban Valor Episode!

In this episode, Seth walks us through:
- Growing up surrounded by drugs, prison-bound relatives, and trauma most kids never see.
- The fire that burned down his home — and the weird, defining aftermath.
- Getting mentally obliterated in Marine Corps boot camp... and reshaped into something tougher.
- Switching to the Army Rangers and becoming a punching bag for hazing because of it.
- Living in barracks filled with black mold, spitting blood from pneumonia — and not backing down.
- Watching new guys break bones falling off rappel towers, or worse.
- His first mission ever — a rescue op no one expected to survive.
- Digging into a soccer field by hand to recover the rotting remains of American soldiers.

The unspoken toll that moments like that leave behind… and why Rangers carry it alone.

If you’re here for real special operations history, raw emotional storytelling, and a side of war that doesn’t make it into the headlines… you’re exactly where you need to be.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – Growing Up in Chaos
04:20 – Watching His Home Burn Down
07:45 – Becoming a Marine
13:05 – Marine Corps Boot Camp: Mental Breaking Point
20:10 – 9/11 Changes Everything
26:55 – Switching to the Army Rangers
33:20 – Hazing, Black Mold, and Ranger Regiment Reality
40:00 – Training Accidents and Broken Bodies
48:00 – Jessica Lynch Rescue Mission Begins
55:30 – Breaking Through the Hospital Wall
58:00 – Rangers Dig for the Fallen
01:03:45 – The Emotional Weight of Recovery
01:10:00 – Reflections on Combat and Sacrifice

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They said he’d fail. His best friend was shot and killed. Now he’s a White House officer.

Lieutenant Commander Alvaro Ramos didn’t take the easy path. He grew up with a tin roof over his head, sleeping on floors in Guam. He joined the Navy to escape poverty — and then watched his best friend, a fellow corpsman, get killed by a negligent Marine on deployment.

That moment could have broken him. Instead, it built him.

Alvaro went on to serve 23 years in the United States Navy, earned his commission, became a Physician Assistant, and rose to serve inside the White House Medical Unit under Presidents Trump and Biden.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Alvaro opens up about:
- The fatal moment that changed his life forever
- Getting told “I hope you fail” by a senior chief
- Why he almost quit the Navy
- The identity crisis of becoming an officer
- And how Special Boat Team 22 finally made him feel like he mattered

If you’ve ever been underestimated, doubted, or knocked down — this is your reminder to get back up.

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Video chapters: 
0:00 – “I Hope You Fail” — The Moment That Changed Everything
1:10 – From the Philippines to Guam: Childhood in Poverty
3:50 – Why He Joined the Navy Instead of College
6:10 – Boot Camp Culture Shock
9:00 – 9/11: The Day Everything Changed
11:45 – Deployment Confusion and a Heartbreaking Mistake
15:00 – The Day Moreno Died
17:30 – The Words That Haunted Him in College
20:00 – From Corpsman to Officer: Fighting Imposter Syndrome
24:00 – Special Boat Team 22: Finally Feeling Valued
27:00 – The Jeep. The Seal. The CEO.
30:00 – That Random Course at Walter Reed
31:30 – The Call From the White House
33:00 – What It Really Means to Lead

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Decorated Army officer turned warrior‑advocate Rudy De La Rosa opens up like never before: marked for death by the Mexican Mafia as a teenager, pulled into gang violence, homeless, and staring down his own destruction—before trading bullets for a uniform and fighting for something bigger than himself. 

In this Urban Valor Podcast episode, we dig into generational trauma, gang warfare in East LA & the 605 freeway corridor, the “green‑light” hit list, then military service in the U.S. Army, combat in Afghanistan, lifting the weight off his family’s legacy, and rewriting his story.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – 00:19 | Knife from the Kitchen: Childhood Horror  
00:19 – 00:53 | “We’re Going to War”: Realizing Violence at Home  
00:53 – 01:28 | Origins: Santa Monica to Whittier, Early Life  
01:28 – 03:08 | Generational Trauma: Grandfather in WWII, Father in Vietnam  
03:08 – 06:52 | War‑Scars Passed Down: Navy, PTSD & Family Violence  
06:52 – 09:13 | A Father’s Advice: “If You Don’t Go to War You’re Not a Man”  
09:13 – 12:49 | Teenage Years: Gang Culture, Identity Crisis & Survival  
12:49 – 16:17 | The Neighborhood, Vultures of Divorce & Facing Harsh Reality  
16:17 – 19:36 | High School Years: Gang Affiliation, “Green Light” Hit List  
19:36 – 24:16 | Targeted, Stalked, Almost Killed: The Green Light Turns Real  
24:16 – 27:15 | Homelessness, Dropping Out & the Turning Point  
27:15 – 30:23 | Joining the Army: From Gang Life to Uniform  
30:23 – 36:04 | Military Career Begins: MP to Officer Candidate School  
36:04 – 43:12 | Combat Tour & Afghanistan: Facing War on a Global Stage  
43:12 – 47:42 | Leadership, Family Sacrifice & Choosing What Matters  
47:42 – 54:06 | 9/11 Moment: From Barracks to Battle  
54:06 – 58:59 | Deployment Realities & Mission Focus  
58:59 – 1:04:30 | The Policy Fight: Military Kids, Mental Health & Advocacy  
1:04:30 – 1:10:52 | Homecoming, Reflection & The Afghan Exit  
1:10:52 – 1:16:06 | Career End, Civilian Life & Legacy  
1:16:06 – 1:24:26 | From Soldier to Advocate: Changing the System  
1:24:26 – End | Final Thoughts: Purpose, Service & True North  

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This might be one of the wildest Marine Corps stories we’ve ever had on the show. Retired Marine First Sergeant Randall Parkes sat down with Urban Valor to share some of the funniest, most unbelievable, and downright fcked up* moments from his 20 years in the U.S. Marine Corps. From barracks inspections gone wrong, to combat deployments in Iraq and Afghanistan, to a real-life rescue that helped spark the Abraham Accords — this episode has everything.

Randall gets brutally honest about what it’s like to lead Marines, deal with chaos as a First Sergeant, and balance discipline with dark military humor. He shares raw, hilarious, and emotional moments from his time in recon, MARSOC, boot camp, and even his post-military life — from real estate success to landing a job at Anduril.

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Video chapters: 
0:00 – Flashlight Incident & Barracks Inspection Chaos
2:00 – Marine Corps Wartime Service Overview
3:50 – First Deployment & Recon Battalion Life
6:00 – Becoming a First Sergeant: The Good, Bad & Absurd
10:00 – DUI Drama & Naked Room Inspections
16:00 – Life on Ship & Wild Company Commanders
20:45 – Djibouti Jump Missions & Mission Cancellations
23:50 – Corpsman Save Emirati Prince's Life
27:00 – Condom Bowl Fiasco
30:00 – Transition to Drill Instructor Life in San Diego
34:30 – Depot Life & Suicide Watch Recruit
37:00 – Thumbtack Inspection & Culture Shift in Training
41:00 – Screwing With Recruits (In Good Fun)
44:15 – First Transgender Recruit Experience
50:00 – Honest Reflection on Inclusive Boot Camp
55:00 – Career Climax & Transition Plans
1:03:00 – Battles with Retirement Orders
1:10:00 – Hating Corporate Life After Service
1:15:00 – Finding New Purpose at Anduril
1:17:00 – Final Reflections: From First Sergeant to Civilian

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What drives a decorated Special Operations pilot to unload his weapon - not in fear of the enemy, but of himself?

In this Urban Valor Podcast interview, Army veteran and Night Stalker pilot Nick O’Kelly reveals the mental battle he faced during deployment in Afghanistan. A former Green Beret turned elite helicopter pilot, Nick opens up about the hidden war inside his head — a war with depression, PTSD, and suicidal thoughts that nearly claimed his life.

While flying missions in an active combat zone, Nick reached a breaking point. Fearing he might harm himself, he made the chilling decision to empty his pistol and carry it unloaded for the remainder of the deployment. This episode dives deep into the culture of military mental health, the silent suffering many combat veterans endure, and what it means to survive not just physically, but emotionally!

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – Meet Nick O’Kelly
02:45 – Special Forces Beginnings
07:30 – Transition to Aviation
11:05 – Deployment to Afghanistan
14:10 – The Toxic Command & Losing Purpose
18:30 – The Day He Unloaded His Pistol
25:15 – Living in Fear of His Own Thoughts
30:00 – Hiding Depression in the Ranks
38:20 – Finding Help and Climbing Back
44:10 – Life After the Military & Lessons Learned

Check out https://thenickokelly.com/stigma to follow Nick’s work. 

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This is one of the wildest military redemption stories I’ve ever heard.

Shawn Vance was a former college athlete who spiraled hard—stealing for the thrill, smoking weed daily, and eventually overdosing on meth he found while picking up trash on the freeway. The overdose wrecked his heart. He could’ve died. Should’ve, honestly.

But instead… he enlisted in the Army through the 18X program and clawed his way into Special Forces.

In this Urban Valor episode, Shawn walks us through the full ride—from near-death overdose and felony arrest, to surviving Green Beret selection, passing the Q-Course, and becoming a Special Forces Medic (18D).

We break down:
– How Special Forces Selection (SFAS) really works
– Why so many 18X candidates fail out
– What actually happens during the Q-Course and SERE
– How the Army gave him the structure to turn it all around

If you’re into real stories about resilience, transformation, and the ugly truth behind “elite” military training—this one’s gonna hit.

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She came to America at five. She became a Marine. What happened next will stay with you.

This week on Urban Valor, we dive into the story of Gunnery Sergeant Kimmy Lamano, a Filipino-American immigrant who rose through the ranks of the U.S. Marine Corps while carrying the weight of trauma, silence, and survival.

From growing up in Manila and Hawaii, to surviving a convoy explosion in Afghanistan while teaching Afghan children, Kimmy’s journey is one of grit, honor, and post-service healing. For 18 years, she served her country in combat zones, humanitarian crises, and as a trailblazing female Drill Instructor.

But it wasn’t just the battlefield she had to fight on. It was the return home, the invisible wounds, and the struggle to find purpose beyond the uniform.

💥 Hear how an undocumented TBI and PTSD nearly took her down — and how she came back to serve again, this time through her nonprofit Fidelis Outreach, helping veterans and communities around the world.

🎙️ This is more than a Marine Corps story. It’s the story of an immigrant who became a leader, a survivor, and a voice for others who suffer in silence.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – Surviving a Convoy Blast in Afghanistan
01:19 – From Manila to the Marine Corps
02:52 – Early Struggles & Learning English
05:29 – Life with Her Marine Stepdad
06:13 – Decision to Join the Marines
09:01 – Brutal First Days of Bootcamp
12:53 – Injury, Rehab & Staying the Course
17:42 – First Deployment: Hurricane Katrina
23:06 – Evacuating Beirut, 2006
26:49 – Becoming a Resilient Leader
30:45 – Combat Deployments & FOB Life
34:42 – Teaching Afghan Kids on Deployment
38:30 – The Blast That Changed Everything
43:39 – Lingering Effects of TBI & PTSD
45:51 – Fulfilling Her Dream: Drill Instructor
49:32 – Transforming Recruits Through Training
53:18 – Behind the Scenes at Parris Island
56:28 – Wrapping Up Her Military Career
59:42 – Civilian Transition & Mental Health
1:04:10 – Founding Fidelis Outreach
1:05:43 – Giving Back Around the World

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Blown up by a 25lb IED. Hunted by a sniper. Lost six Marines in one of the deadliest provinces in Afghanistan.

This is Marine Lt. Col. Mike Manocchio’s story — and it’s unlike anything you’ve ever heard, and it's right here on today's Urban Valor Episode! 

Mike led troops through nonstop combat in Marjah, Helmand Province — an area packed with IEDs, ambushes, and Taliban fighters tracking their every move. He survived a massive explosion, had sniper rounds miss his head by inches, and still went back out to lead his men.

But the hardest part wasn’t the firefights. It was what came after. The survivor’s guilt. The PTSD. The faces of the Marines who didn’t come home.

He opens up about the chaos of war, the day Kyle Carpenter threw himself on a grenade, and what it’s like trying to put the pieces back together when the war ends — but the battle doesn’t.

If you’re looking for Afghanistan war stories, Marine IED survival, or veteran interviews — this one’s going to stay with you.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 – Blown Up by a 25lb IED in Marjah
03:42 – Why He Joined After 9/11
07:15 – First Deployment & Losing Marines Early
12:01 – Training for the Surge in Afghanistan
18:30 – Marjah Patrols & Taliban Ambushes Begin
27:04 – IED Blast Knocks Him Out Cold
36:02 – Sniper Round Nearly Hits His Head
44:50 – Six Marines Lost in Combat
57:43 – Taliban Coordinated Attack Across Bases
1:27:50 – Mental Health Collapse & Finding Help

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In 2003, just days before the U.S. invaded Iraq, a US Army base in Kuwait—Camp Pennsylvania - was hit with a deadly insider attack. In this weeks Urban Valor episode, Army Sergeant Major Bart Womack recounts the terrifying night a fellow soldier threw grenades into tents full of sleeping American troops. It was the first insider attack of the Iraq War, and it came from within their own ranks.

But that wasn't the only time Bart faced death. He also survived a tense firefight in the Korean DMZ, where North Korean forces opened fire on his patrol during one of the most dangerous standoffs of the Cold War era.

From a DMZ shootout in Korea to a fatal betrayal in Kuwait, this is the true story of an American soldier who witnessed war before it even officially began.

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Video chapters: 
00:00 - JSA Gunfire & Tension in Korea
01:06 - Early Life & Accidental Recruitment
03:16 - Basic Training and Airborne Decision
05:40 - Korea Assignment & Sports in the Army
07:18 - Becoming a Drill Sergeant at 23
09:35 - Female vs Male Trainees in Boot Camp
13:28 - Assignment to the Joint Security Area (JSA)
16:15 - Thanksgiving Firefight & Chinese Defector
20:22 - Casualties & Aftermath in the JSA
23:12 - The Old Guard & Tomb of the Unknown Soldier
29:22 - Ranger Instructor: Choosing Training Value
33:26 - 101st Deployment to Kuwait, 2003
38:31 - The Night of the Attack Begins
41:15 - Searching for the Enemy Within
45:42 - Friendly Fire Incident Explained
51:24 - The Apprehension of Sergeant Akbar
56:13 - Discovering Personal Near-Death Experience
1:02:11 - Akbar’s Diary & Radical Motives
1:09:00 - Final Thoughts & Emotional Reflection
1:17:38 - Message to the World: Embedded Enemy
1:33:38 - How to Help: Fight for Purple Hearts

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