Urban Valor: the podcast

In today's Irban Valor Podcast, Octavio talks about combat in Iraq, repeated IED attacks, losing Marines in his unit, being engulfed in flames, the medevac and ICU experience, learning to walk again, adapting to life with severe burns and a hand amputation, and the impact his injuries had on his wife and children.

Octavio also opens up about what happened after the uniform came off...struggling with alcohol and drugs, losing his sense of purpose, rebuilding his family life, returning to his faith, and eventually finding a new mission helping other veterans.

Today, Octavio serves with Front Sight Military Outreach, where he helps veterans reconnect with faith, community, brotherhood, and purpose after military service.

Chapters: 
00:00 Marine Survives a Massive IED Attack
01:27 Growing Up in Fontana, California
03:03 Family Roots in Zacatecas, Mexico
04:25 Getting Pulled Into Gang Life
07:39 Expelled From High School
08:01 Getting Jumped Into a Gang
11:37 Sent to Mexico
13:57 Turning His Life Around
16:02 Dreaming About the Military
17:16 Meeting a Marine Corps Recruiter
19:44 Leaving for Marine Corps Boot Camp
24:14 Earning the Title Marine
26:00 Joining 2nd Battalion, 5th Marines
29:12 First Deployment to Okinawa
32:42 Training With Force Recon
33:34 Massive Fight Between Marines
37:24 Zodiac Training Off Australia
40:09 The Lesson He Never Forgot
44:32 Becoming a Marine Corps NCO
46:28 September 11th in Okinawa
49:02 Reenlisting in the Marines
50:25 Becoming a Marksmanship Instructor
55:21 Watching His Marines Go to War
58:08 Joining 1st Battalion, 5th Marines
1:01:46 Preparing for Iraq
1:03:56 Deploying to Ramadi, Iraq
1:07:54 IED Capital of Iraq
1:09:26 Running Quick Reaction Force Missions
1:12:18 The Reality of Combat
1:13:34 His First IED Explosion
1:17:34 Losing Marines in Ramadi
1:18:27 Looking for a Fight
1:20:20 Hunting for IEDs
1:23:54 June 16, 2005
1:25:20 The Mission That Changed Everything
1:28:44 The Roadside Bomb Explodes
1:29:09 Humvee Launched 40 Feet
1:30:39 Trapped Inside a Burning Vehicle
1:31:35 Escaping While on Fire
1:34:34 Medevac Under Fire
1:38:00 Fighting for His Life
1:39:57 Hallucinations in the ICU
1:45:24 Beginning the Recovery
1:46:50 Seeing His Daughter Again
1:48:49 Learning His Marines Had Died
1:50:22 Life Inside the Burn Center
1:53:52 How His Children Reacted
1:56:19 Becoming an Outpatient
1:58:29 Medical Retirement From the Marines
1:58:56 His Wife Never Left His Side
2:00:47 Life After the Marine Corps
2:02:18 Alcohol, Cocaine & Losing Direction
2:02:59 Finding Faith and Purpose
2:04:27 Finding His Veteran Brotherhood Again
2:06:17 The Struggle of Leaving the Military
2:07:42 Front Sight Military Outreach
2:09:13 Final Thoughts

Marine veteran Alex Hernandez survived an RPG blast while fighting in Fallujah, Iraq — an attack that severely wounded his tank commander and left Alex covered in shrapnel and blood.

In this episode, Alex tells the story of going from a kid in East LA with no clear direction to joining the United States Marine Corps after 9/11, becoming an M1 Abrams tank mechanic, deploying to Iraq, and finding himself in some of the most intense fighting of Operation Iraqi Freedom.

Alex remembers watching the aftermath of the Blackwater contractor killings before Marines were suddenly ordered outside the wire. What followed was hours of combat in Fallujah.

Then, on April 7, everything changed.

While moving through the city in an M1 Abrams, Alex spotted armed fighters appearing with RPGs and AK-47s. Moments later, an RPG struck the tank commander’s hatch.

His tank commander lost his right eye.

Alex was hit by shrapnel and badly wounded in both hands.

But surviving the battlefield was only the beginning.

Alex also opens up about returning home, losing the career and identity he thought he would have, struggling with his mental health years after the war, seeking help, and eventually trying to rediscover a sense of purpose through service and teaching others.

This is a story about war, brotherhood, injury, identity, and what happens when the fighting stops but the battle isn’t necessarily over.

CHAPTERS:
00:00 — The RPG Attack in Fallujah
01:10 — Growing Up in East LA
06:16 — His Grandfather Inspires Him to Serve
07:33 — 9/11 Changes Everything
09:24 — Proving He Could Become a Marine
11:12 — Injured During Boot Camp
13:27 — The Marine Who Never Made It Home
16:54 — Becoming an M1 Abrams Tank Mechanic
19:07 — Arriving at 29 Palms
22:21 — Preparing for War
25:23 — Heading to Iraq
28:42 — First Incoming Fire
30:04 — Life Inside an Abrams Tank
36:45 — Blackwater Killings and Fallujah
38:09 — The Battle Begins
40:46 — 13 Hours of Combat
44:50 — April 7th
45:30 — Watching an RPG Fly Toward the Tank
47:04 — Drawing Fire Away From the Marines
48:59 — RPG Strikes the Tank
49:21 — “I’m Pissing Out Blood”
50:47 — Escaping the Burning Tank
51:31 — Surgery and Recovery
53:57 — Returning to the Fight
57:43 — His Wife Deploys to Iraq
58:30 — Coming Home
1:02:12 — Losing His Sense of Purpose
1:04:29 — Mental Health Begins to Collapse
1:06:33 — Calling the Crisis Line
1:07:58 — Finally Finding the Right Help
1:09:46 — Learning How to Move Forward
1:11:27 — Finding Purpose Again
1:12:14 — “Pick Your Head Up and Continue to March”

Marine Staff Sergeant Tony Storey served 21 years in the U.S. Marine Corps, including combat deployments to Somalia and Iraq. At just 21 years old, he led Marines into Somalia during Operation Restore Hope, survived a bullet striking the sandbag beside his head, and later endured a monsoon that flooded his fighting position with human remains.

In this episode, of Urban Valor, Tony shares what it was like entering Mogadishu, serving as an 0311 Rifleman, training Iraqi security forces, and carrying the memories of combat long after coming home. 

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Chapters: 
00:00 Marine Still Has the Bullet That Almost Killed Him
01:15 Tony Storey — 21 Years in the Marine Corps
01:44 Childhood, Abandonment & Losing His Grandparents
06:56 Growing Up in the Shadow of His Marine Father
10:45 His Father’s Brutal Combat History in Vietnam
17:02 “He Was the Marine I Wanted to Be”
20:32 Deciding to Join the Marines
26:03 Arriving at Parris Island
31:08 The Recruit Named Batman
33:30 What Marine Boot Camp Taught Him About Himself
38:32 A Massive Recruit Brawl Breaks Out
45:59 Hurricane Hugo Changes His Graduation
49:14 The Moment He Finally Became a Marine
51:03 Early Marine Combat Training
58:20 Instructor Accidentally Shoots Two Marines
01:00:07 Marine Corps Security Forces
01:05:30 Suicide in the Barracks
01:16:06 Joining 2nd Battalion, 9th Marines
01:16:40 America Is Going Into Somalia
01:19:11 Preparing for Operation Restore Hope
01:21:00 First Wave Into Mogadishu
01:24:23 21 Years Old Leading Marines Into Somalia
01:27:36 They Were Digging Inside a Cemetery
01:30:35 The Bullet That Almost Killed Him
01:34:14 Entering Baidoa — “The City of Death”
01:34:43 The Monsoon That Flooded Their Fighting Holes
01:37:36 Human Remains Begin Floating Past Him
01:43:34 Christmas Day in Somalia
01:45:59 The Child Tony Couldn’t Save
01:51:28 Leaving Somalia
01:53:27 The Marine Who Stole a Lotus
02:00:40 Transitioning Back to Civilian Life
02:04:14 Recalled by Name and Sent to Iraq
02:05:43 Training Iraqi Security Forces
02:19:56 Working Alongside SEAL Team 10
02:28:00 Coming Home From Iraq
02:29:12 Fireworks, IED Memories & Combat Trauma
02:30:38 The Things Combat Veterans Can’t Explain
02:33:38 The Faces He Still Remembers
02:35:30 The Calls From Marines Who Are Struggling
02:37:03 “I Wouldn’t Trade a Damn Thing”
02:37:49 What Tony Lives for Today
02:40:45 Final Thoughts & Semper Fi

Army Major Mandy Feindt says Navy jet fuel contamination from the Red Hill water crisis poisoned her family — and when she spoke out, the military came after her.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Mandy breaks down what happened after her family moved onto Ford Island in Hawaii, began getting severely sick, and later learned they had been exposed to contaminated water connected to the Red Hill fuel spill.

She talks about her son’s health issues, more than 800 family medical appointments, confronting Secretary of the Navy Carlos Del Toro, filing for whistleblower protection, and the retaliation she says followed.

Mandy also shares what happened years later when her son was mistreated at a military Child Development Center, the fight to obtain video and records, and why she believes military systems too often protect the institution before the family.

This is a story about Red Hill, military toxic exposure, whistleblower retaliation, military families, institutional betrayal, and what happens when a career Army officer decides she can’t stay quiet.

Mandy’s message:

Take a mess and turn it into a message.

If you or your family were impacted by Red Hill, military toxic exposure, or a similar situation while serving, share your story below.

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Chapters:
0:00 Navy Jet Fuel Poisoned Our Family
1:29 Meet Army Major Mandy Feindt
2:43 Growing Up in a Military Family
4:00 How 9/11 Changed Her Life
6:17 Becoming an Army Officer
8:07 Afghanistan & Casualty Operations
12:48 Command, ROTC & Special Operations
16:25 Moving to Hawaii
18:50 The Dream House on Historic Ford Island
20:19 Her Family Suddenly Gets Sick
21:20 The Red Hill Fuel Spill
24:39 The Navy Said the Water Was Safe
27:54 Her Entire Family Ends Up in the Hospital
29:23 Fighting for Military Children
34:08 Speaking Out as an Active-Duty Officer
38:40 From Hospital Bed to Public Advocacy
41:06 Walking the Halls of Congress
42:45 When the Retaliation Escalated
44:55 Confronting the Secretary of the Navy
46:52 “Nothing in Life Is Pure”
48:31 Investigated After Confronting Navy Leadership
49:08 Filing for Whistleblower Protection
55:22 The Military's Flushing Operation
58:21 More Than 800 Medical Appointments
1:00:48 The Psychological Trauma of Contaminated Water
1:01:15 “An American Military Asset Poisoning Americans”
1:04:47 The Red Hill Lawsuit
1:06:51 Why Long-Term Medical Monitoring Matters
1:09:39 The VA Finally Recognizes Red Hill
1:11:20 “There's the Door”
1:12:39 Why She Refused to Stay Silent
1:14:46 Native Hawaiians & Military Families Unite
1:16:15 How Does This Happen in the U.S. Military?
1:20:26 Why Families Weren't Properly Tested
1:22:39 Institutional Betrayal
1:27:26 Trusting the Military Again
1:28:24 Her Son's Daycare Incident
1:30:00 Discovering the Abuse
1:34:34 The Army Promises to Handle It
1:37:08 The Same Teacher Comes Back
1:38:01 Fighting to Preserve the Evidence
1:41:48 The Military Says It Wasn't Abuse
1:44:03 Why the Secretary of the Army Wouldn't Meet Her
1:46:24 Parents Barred From the Hearing
1:47:16 The Video Evidence Disappears
1:49:39 What the Remaining Video Showed
1:51:28 Military Daycare Oversight
1:53:36 CPS Substantiates Child Abuse
1:56:30 The Teachers Returned to Work
1:59:02 The FOIA Records
2:00:18 “You Poisoned My Kids”
2:01:06 The Fight Is Still Ongoing
2:03:31 Retaliation Over Protecting Her Son
2:06:52 Why Speaking Up Comes With a Cost
2:07:12 Her Whistleblower Case Is Substantiated
2:09:43 Will Her Children Ever Serve?
2:12:36 The Military Recruiting Problem
2:14:14 What Military Families Need to Know
2:14:51 What's Next for Mandy
2:16:13 Turning a Mess Into a Message

Marine veteran Peter Caro joined the U.S. Marine Corps expecting to become a mechanic. Instead, he was sent to Iraq as a Motor Transport operator during a time when IEDs were killing drivers across the battlefield.

In this Urban Valor interview, Peter shares what it was like serving in Fallujah, driving dangerous roads in Iraq, surviving IED attacks, taking enemy fire, and dealing with the PTSD and survivor’s guilt that followed him home.

Peter served in the Marines from 2004 to 2013 and completed multiple deployments to Iraq. During his service, he transported personnel and equipment, trained Iraqi police and military forces, and operated outside the wire in some of the most dangerous conditions of the Iraq War.

He also opens up about the moments that stayed with him most — seeing Marines he knew listed as killed in action, watching a vehicle in front of him hit an IED, and struggling with the belief that other Marines deserved to come home more than he did.

After leaving active duty, Peter began dealing with hypervigilance, panic attacks, isolation, drinking, and survivor’s guilt. His path to understanding PTSD eventually led him back to school, where he studied psychology and social work.

Today, Peter works as a therapist helping other veterans navigate trauma, PTSD, depression, and the difficult transition from military to civilian life.

Chapters: 
00:00 Marine Boot Camp & Surviving an IED Attack
01:00 Peter Caro’s Marine Corps Story
01:50 Growing Up in a Mexican-American Family
06:34 Why Pete Wanted to Become a Marine
08:34 Watching 9/11 Change Everything
11:31 Feeling Lost Before Joining the Marines
13:44 Walking Into the Marine Recruiter’s Office
16:33 The Reality of Marine Corps Boot Camp
18:32 Choosing to Push Through
19:01 A Recruit Tries to Escape Boot Camp
23:39 The Reality of the Boot Camp Bathroom
25:13 Pete’s Infamous Boot Camp Story
27:00 Marine Corps Graduation & His Father’s Reaction
31:51 Returning Home After Boot Camp
32:59 Getting in Trouble on Recruiting Duty
36:00 The Marine Corps Job He Didn’t Expect
37:30 Joining 9th Communication Battalion
40:02 When Pete’s Roommate Went UA
43:55 Preparing to Deploy to Iraq
45:31 “Dude, You’re Going to Die”
47:00 Training for His First Iraq Deployment
48:47 Accidentally Taking Night Vision Goggles Home
51:58 Deploying to Fallujah, Iraq
53:07 Training Marines & Iraqi Security Forces
54:04 Carrying Iraqi Money Into a Combat Zone
55:53 His First Experience Taking Enemy Fire
56:41 Tracer Fire Over a Marine Convoy
59:24 Becoming Desensitized to Combat
1:00:50 Seeing Marines He Knew on the KIA Wall
1:03:19 The Beginning of Survivor’s Guilt
1:04:28 Secretly Getting Married Before Deployment
1:08:55 Training Iraqi Police & Army
1:10:25 Ambushed During a Convoy Mission
1:15:43 Coming Home From Iraq
1:18:35 Pete’s Second Iraq Deployment
1:20:29 The “Code Brown” Convoy Story
1:24:32 Incoming Fire Nearly Kills Pete
1:28:12 The Mission That Changed Everything
1:31:24 The Truck in Front of Him Hits an IED
1:32:49 Thinking His Marines Were Dead
1:35:00 Guilt After the IED Explosion
1:36:45 Why Pete Decided to Leave Active Duty
1:40:48 Life in the Marine Corps Reserve
1:43:43 Being Reenlisted by R. Lee Ermey
1:45:21 Returning to College After the Marines
1:46:50 “I Hate the Fact That I Came Back Alive”
1:48:46 How Combat Changed Him at Home
1:50:54 Drinking, Isolation & Emotional Numbness
1:51:32 Learning About PTSD in Psychology Class
1:54:50 Refusing to Accept He Had PTSD
1:56:11 The Panic Attack That Changed Everything
1:57:44 His First Experience Seeking Help
1:58:53 The Vietnam Veteran Who Changed His Life
1:59:56 Finding a New Mission Through Social Work
2:00:49 Becoming a Therapist for Veterans
2:02:08 Why Transitioning Out Can Be So Difficult
2:03:18 Why Pete Almost Didn’t Tell His Story
2:05:54 What He Would Tell His Younger Self
2:06:43 “You Are Enough”

Navy SEAL Andrew Arrabito sits down to tell the REAL stories behind serving in United States Naval Special Warfare from 2002 to 2012, including time with SEAL Team 5 and SEAL Team 1.

In this episode of Urban Valor, he breaks down what BUD/S was really like, the mindset required to survive SEAL training, life as a new guy in the teams, and what combat looked like during deployments overseas.

He also tells the incredible story of a nighttime freefall jump where he lost access to his ripcord, began tumbling at low altitude, deployed his reserve chute, survived… and then got back in the aircraft and jumped again.

Beyond the military stories, Andrew opens up about growing up in Northern California, losing his father and two older brothers in a plane crash at age seven, and later returning to the crash site in Alaska.👍 Like this video to support and show appreciation.

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Chapters: 
0:00 “I Thought I Was Dead” – Parachute Malfunction
1:25 Meet Navy SEAL Andrew Arrabito
2:07 Growing Up in Northern California
5:20 Faith & Family
6:08 Why He Wanted to Become a Navy SEAL
7:11 Joining the Navy & Getting to BUD/S
14:50 How BUD/S Instructors Targeted Candidates
15:54 The Different Phases of SEAL Training
21:59 Deaths & Danger During SEAL Training
23:09 Joining SEAL Team 5
24:01 Life as the New Guy
25:34 Hazing & SEAL Team Culture
27:25 First Combat Deployment to Iraq
28:42 Combat Missions in Iraq
32:06 Hunting a Sniper in Tal Afar
33:46 Screening for DEVGRU
42:00 Fighting in Afghanistan
43:12 How Taliban Fighters Hid From Apache Helicopters
45:40 A Helicopter Crash That Nearly Included His Team
46:02 Did They Make a Difference in Afghanistan?
46:22 Training Other Navy SEALs
58:27 Losing His Father & Two Brothers
58:38 Returning to the Alaska Plane Crash Site
1:00:06 Losing His Family at Seven Years Old
1:01:08 Building His Business After the SEAL Teams
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Marine Corps Sergeant Major Jean-Paul Corville served 22 years in the United States Marine Corps from 1991 to 2013, earning the Bronze Star with Valor and rising to the rank of Sergeant Major.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Corville shares Marine Corps boot camp stories, infantry life, combat in Iraq, leadership lessons, disaster response in Japan, and the decision that ultimately changed the course of his career.

He talks about growing up shy and overweight in Louisiana, transforming himself through training, choosing the Marines, becoming an 0331 machine gunner, serving at 29 Palms, deploying to Okinawa, becoming a drill instructor, and eventually reaching the highest enlisted levels of Marine Corps leadership.

Corville also opens up about combat, loss, mistakes, consequences, and what happened when one decision cost him more than he ever expected.

From hilarious Marine Corps stories to some of the darkest moments of his life, this is an unfiltered look at a 22-year military career from someone who lived it at every level.

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Chapters: 
00:00 Preview
01:38 Growing Up Shy & Overweight in Louisiana
07:58 Why He Chose the Marine Corps
15:10 Marine Corps Boot Camp & Becoming a Machine Gunner
22:04 Life at 29 Palms & Early Infantry Stories
27:49 Deploying to Okinawa
46:04 Life as a Marine Corps Drill Instructor
1:24:43 Deploying to Kuwait Before the Iraq Invasion
1:33:59 Combat in Baghdad & Losing Marines
1:59:40 The Battle of Karma
2:32:46 The Career Decision That Changed Everything
2:34:34 Retiring as a Sergeant Major After 22 Years
2:43:28 Hiking the Appalachian Trail & Life After the Marines
2:53:19 Motivation, Inspiration & Final Advice

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Ronald Long is a United States Marine Corps veteran who served from 2009–2013, leaving the Marines as an E-4 Corporal. In this episode of Urban Valor, Ronald shares his incredible story of joining the U.S. Marines, experiencing combat, surviving an IED explosion, losing a fellow service member beside him, and confronting experiences that would follow him long after the battlefield.

But Ronald’s story started LONG before the Marine Corps...

He grew up in Northern California in a Puerto Rican family that endured financial hardship, his sister’s battle with cancer, his mother’s addiction, abuse inside the home, and eventually the breakup of his family.

As a kid, Ronald learned pretty damn quickly how to survive.

By his teenage years, that meant helping raise his sisters, trying to help keep his family financially afloat, getting involved in selling marijuana, witnessing violence around his friends, and reaching adulthood without much of a plan for what came next.

Then life changed FAST.

Ronald began a relationship, discovered he was about to become a father, and suddenly needed a way to provide for a family.

Then, seemingly out of nowhere...

A Marine Corps recruiter called.

Ronald signed the paperwork, went to boot camp, and began a path that would eventually put him into situations very few people can truly understand.

And somehow, even surrounded by some incredibly dark moments, Ronald’s Marine Corps stories can also be absolutely hilarious.

From doing boot camp practically BLIND because nobody gave him his glasses...

...to Marines breaking into the WRONG barracks...

...to a drill instructor apparently studying World of Warcraft just so he could figure out new ways to destroy the recruits playing it. 

But combat was different.

Ronald describes transporting bodies, seeing horrific injuries become almost routine, and the moment a pressure plate detonated feet away from him.

For a moment, his mind transported him somewhere completely different.

Then Abdul came crashing back into his reality.

And Ronald realized his friend was dead.

Thank you to Ronald Long for trusting us with his story.

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Chapters: 
00:00 Preview
01:04 Meet Marine Veteran Ronald Long
02:17 His Sister’s Battle With Cancer
04:19 Addiction and Abuse at Home
10:15 His Family Nearly Loses Everything
12:30 Gang Violence and Losing a Friend
17:55 Life Before the Marine Corps
23:16 Finding Out He Was Going to Be a Father
23:55 The Marine Corps Recruiter Calls
25:50 Leaving for Boot Camp
26:50 Going Through Boot Camp Nearly Blind
28:26 Breaking Into the Wrong Barracks
32:34 World of Warcraft Meets Marine Boot Camp
37:02 Becoming a Squad Leader
39:18 MCT and Becoming a Radio Operator
44:42 Arriving in the Fleet
45:58 A Wild Night With His Corporals
50:53 Becoming a Field Radio Operator
52:10 Preparing for Afghanistan
59:19 Taking Over Communications in Afghanistan
1:00:07 Becoming Addicted to Combat Patrols
1:01:42 The Push Along Route 611
1:03:39 Abdul Steps on an IED
1:04:29 Realizing Abdul Is Dead
1:05:16 Surviving the Blast
1:06:52 Faith, Anger, and Wanting to Die
1:15:20 Returning to Afghanistan
1:15:39 Becoming Desensitized to Death
1:17:00 The True Cost of the Deployment
1:26:14 Surviving Another Major Battle
1:27:22 Coming Home From a Brutal Deployment
1:29:43 Trying to Become a Husband and Father
1:41:19 Getting Married Days After Coming Home
1:42:34 Discovering His Wife Was Unfaithful
1:45:24 Preparing for Another Deployment
1:52:40 Waking Up Injured in Thailand
1:54:19 His Unit Leaves Without Him
1:56:10 Stranded and Trying to Rejoin His Unit
2:00:04 Traveling Through the Middle East
2:06:53 Finally Rejoining His Marines
2:11:02 Deciding to Leave the Marine Corps
2:12:23 Transitioning to Civilian Life
2:13:53 Moving Millions on the Las Vegas Strip
2:24:14 A Fight Changes His Career
2:26:22 Becoming a Counterterrorism Instructor
2:27:04 Finding Purpose Again
2:31:06 Struggling With Suicidal Thoughts
2:31:55 Losing His Purpose Again
2:34:00 Sitting in a Parking Lot With a Gun
2:34:19 The Phone Call That Kept Him Alive
2:35:25 Losing Fellow Marines to Suicide
2:37:16 Finding a New Mission After the Military
2:37:56 Turning Veteran Trauma Into Comedy
2:42:15 Helping Veterans Find Purpose
2:43:02 Stories Over Stigma
2:43:39 Ronald’s Message to Other Veterans
2:44:33 Closing

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U.S. Army tanker Carlos Manjarrez served as an M1 Abrams armor crewman from 2012 to 2018. In this episode of the Urban Valor Podcast, Carlos shares the story of growing up in San Bernardino, joining the United States Army with a baby on the way, choosing a combat MOS, becoming an Army tanker, and experiencing the wild personalities, leadership, training, and brotherhood that came with life in an armor unit.

Carlos didn’t grow up with some perfectly mapped-out plan to become an M1 Abrams tanker.

After graduating high school in 2011, college wasn’t clicking. He had a child on the way, wasn’t sure what came next, and eventually walked into a military recruiting station looking for one thing:

A combat job.

He considered the Marines first, but the available jobs weren’t what he wanted. Then he walked into the Army recruiter’s office and was given several options—including cavalry scout, mortarman, and 19K M1 armor crewman.

Carlos picked tanks.

But this conversation goes WAY beyond the Army...

Chapters:
00:00 Wild Army Tanker Stories
01:17 Growing Up in San Bernardino
03:01 Growing Up Without His Father
07:26 Taking a DNA Test to Find the Truth
10:30 Growing Up Around Gangs & Street Culture
15:35 The Police Encounter That Became a Wake-Up Call
19:35 Why He Wanted to Join the Military
22:45 Walking Into an Army Recruiting Office
24:06 A Baby on the Way Changes Everything
26:25 Choosing 19K Army Tanker
26:56 Basic Training Begins
31:45 Getting Smoked by the Drill Sergeants
36:13 What Army Basic Training Was Really Like
39:44 Questioning Whether He Made the Right Decision
40:17 His Son Is Born During Training
40:40 Getting Orders to Fort Stewart
46:16 Life in His First Army Unit
47:52 National Training Center at Fort Irwin
48:35 How an M1 Abrams Tank Crew Works
49:25 Becoming an M1 Abrams Gunner
49:45 Earning the Legendary Tanker Boots
51:01 Preparing to Fire the M1 Abrams
59:02 Getting “Killed” During an NTC Mission
1:00:14 Seeing a Soldier’s PTSD Triggered in Training
1:02:15 Live Mortar Rounds Land Next to Their Tank
1:06:01 Preparing for an Afghanistan Deployment
1:06:29 Orders Suddenly Change to Germany
1:06:45 Training With U.S. Allies in Germany
1:08:17 The Sketchy M1 Abrams River Crossing
1:15:28 Pranks Played on New Army Tankers
1:16:42 Tank Crew Traditions & Gunnery Pranks
1:20:09 What Firing an M1 Abrams Feels Like
1:21:15 Why Every Tank Crew Member Matters
1:32:06 Leaving the Army & Trying to Become a Cop
1:34:31 Losing a Close Army Friend
1:35:45 Finding a New Career Through Helmets to Hardhats
1:37:28 Becoming a Groundman & Working Toward Lineman
1:54:12 His Advice to Young Soldiers
1:55:07 Final Thoughts

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Marcos Estrada went from surviving Chicago gang violence to becoming a United States Marine Master Sergeant—and fighting in Operation Phantom Fury.

Born and raised on the South Side of Chicago, Marcos grew up surrounded by poverty, domestic violence, drugs, gangs, and crime. His father battled heroin addiction and spent much of Marcos’ childhood in prison. By 15, Marcos had already been shot at, stabbed, arrested for serious felonies, and pulled deeper into the gang lifestyle.

Then the Marine Corps gave him another path.

In today's Urban Valor interview, Marcos shares how he escaped Chicago gang life, joined the U.S. Marines, became an infantryman, and completed a 20-year military career that included multiple combat deployments.

But whew… getting there was anything but simple.

Marcos talks about watching his mother rebuild her life after suffering devastating injuries, the neighborhood Marine who unknowingly inspired his future, entering the Marine Corps with multiple waivers, and the drill instructors who saw potential in a broken kid before he could see it himself.

He also recounts intense combat during Operation Phantom Fury in Fallujah—including RPG fire, ambushes, land mines, wounded Marines, and the moment he saw fellow Marine Stacey Green lying motionless after an explosion.

This isn’t just a Marine Corps combat story.

It’s a story about trauma.

Brotherhood.

Accountability.

And what can happen when someone is finally given structure, responsibility, and a reason to believe they can become more than their environment.

Marcos didn’t erase his past when he became a Marine…

He transformed it into grit, leadership, and purpose.

Watch the full interview to hear how a kid from Chicago’s South Side survived the streets, earned the title Marine, rose to Master Sergeant, and faced some of the most dangerous fighting of the Iraq War.

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CHAPTERS
00:00 Operation Phantom Fury Ambush
01:37 Growing Up on Chicago’s South Side
03:08 Surrounded by Gangs and Crime
04:34 His Father’s Addiction and Violence
06:02 Forced to Grow Up at Seven Years Old
07:38 The House That Became a Safe Haven
08:48 The Marine Who Changed His Life
09:59 Waterboarded by a Marine as a Kid
12:26 Reuniting With His Childhood Hero
15:35 His Mother’s Incredible Recovery
16:39 Becoming Involved in Gang Violence
17:27 Shot At in a Chicago Alley
18:15 Retaliating Against a Rival Gang
19:54 Trapped Behind Enemy Lines
21:41 Realizing He Had Been Stabbed
24:21 Treating the Wound Without a Hospital
25:40 Secretly Visiting a Marine Recruiter
27:40 Returning to Enlist at 17
29:12 Joining the Delayed Entry Program
30:01 Felony Arrests and Military Waivers
31:09 Preparing for Marine Corps Boot Camp
32:19 Leaving His Old Life Behind
33:21 Becoming a Standout Recruit
34:45 The Drill Instructor Who Believed in Him
36:27 How Marine Boot Camp Was Structured
37:29 The Infamous Sugar Sandwich
41:16 Marine Combat Training
42:06 Choosing the Infantry

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