Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

Sort of cuts off at the end but fuck it — it is what it is

Dear (female) bitches: Stop trying to capture a high value (by societal terms) man if you cannot deal with the sacrifices it takes. Because there are sooooo many. Most of us get to choose the men we want and we do a fucking terrible job at that. Women make horrendous decisions and also get to shirk responsibility time after time after fucking time. And I’m just over here yelling and screaming at you hoes to grow the fuck up. It is challenging but we make it harder most of the time. And that is not okay ❌🙎🏽‍♀️

Using Rod Stewart’s song “Young Turks” to illustrate a healthy ebb and flow of submission within men and women romantic relationships. Okay wow I really sound dumb as hell not knowing that 10% of 600,000 is 60,000 🙄😑 Classic lady brain/Vanessa move 🙆🏽‍♀️

Comparing humans to ants in a way that, hopefully, illustrates why different perspectives are beneficial and uplifting. As well as why it’s better to trust yourself fully then pretend to be some lame ass version of you just because you’re too afraid, unaware, unsure, etc. to discover the truth of who you are. Then again, maybe you shouldn’t listen to me. It’s YOUR life. Control what you can and learn to ebb and flow with everything else

“Happy times together we’d be spending. Maybe if we think and wish and hope and pray it might come true. Baby then there wouldn’t be a single thing we couldn’t do” — Beach Boys

Scary revelations to be aware of but no paranoia needed 🫵🏾👹

Reflecting on my childhood/teenage years. Although I’ve certainly been this type of villain (and far worse) I’m sharing stories of my villains. And I get a bit carried away which is expected because I am dramatic as fuck 🦹🏽‍♀️⚛️

Giving some fun marketing options and reminding myself and all that being honorable can be a HUGE pain in the ass but it’ll (hopefully 🤞🏾) be worth it 💁🏽‍♀️

Just me going ape shit on these dumb hoes in the hopes that the rare breed of rational, coherent, critical thinking ladies can organize with me to create some form of code of ethics a majority of us could follow and enforce (even though I know it’ll take time). Plus, to be fair I’m mostly just cursing & yelling 🧠🗣️🫦👩🏽

If it doesn’t concern you personally why waste your energy and time reacting to it? And I get it — it’s hard to hear and accept the truth as well as admit your faults — and every day is a new opportunity to try. Maybe not ALL women find fulfillment with marriage and kids but a huge number of them do so if it’s not for you who cares. The more anger and emotion you output only proves this “hurtful” (cue the eye roll 🙄) statistic further. So remember your choices have consequences and if you want more positive results in general you’d do well to remember this fact.