You’ve probably said them—or heard them—in tough times: “Everything happens for a reason,” “Time heals all wounds,” “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But do these popular sayings actually help us heal… or just shut us down?

In this episode, Kelly and Chip break down some of the most common feel-good phrases we hear in hard moments—and explain why they might be oversimplifying real-life pain, struggle, and growth. From “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” to “if you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life,” they dig into where these ideas fall short and how they can unintentionally cause harm.

But don’t worry—it’s not all doom and dismissiveness. They also offer more grounded, compassionate alternatives that make space for both truth and growth. Because sometimes, the best way to move forward is to stop pretending it’s all fine.

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Curious about what your Chiron placement means — and why it matters so much? In this episode, Kelly is joined by certified Evolutionary Astrologer Jill Brown to explore how Chiron (known as the “wounded healer”) reveals your soul’s deepest healing work and karmic patterns from past lives.

Jill breaks down the difference between evolutionary and traditional astrology, and shows how understanding placements like Chiron and rare aspects like a Yod (aka “the Finger of God”) can lead to real transformation. Using Kelly’s chart as a real-time example, she walks listeners through how to identify and work with these powerful placements in their own lives.

Whether you’re navigating a Saturn return, healing from shame, or just astrology-curious, this episode blends cosmic insight with practical tools — reminding us that deep healing can come with lightness, humor, and clarity.

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What if the biggest thing holding us back from living our most joyful, embodied, juicy lives… is fear? In this episode, Kelly and Chip explore our strange addiction to fear—why we’re drawn to scary movies, clickbait headlines, worst-case scenarios, and that constant low-level anxiety so many of us live with.

They break down what’s happening in the nervous system, how dopamine and fear keep us in loops we don’t even realize we’re in, and how to start shifting toward more presence, courage, and clarity.

Inspired by Kelly’s interview with Stephanie James (Your Big Fat Juicy Life), the convo turns into a real talk about trust, media noise, and how to choose joy even when the world feels chaotic. And yes—Chip had some reservations about doing this episode in the first place, which led to some surprising insights on how differently we all process fear.

This one’s about coming home to yourself, getting clear, and living life in full color—because fear may sell, but joy is what we came here for.

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Psychotherapist, filmmaker, and podcast host Stephanie James joins Kelly to talk about her heart-expanding new book, Your Big Fat Juicy Life (and Everything After)—a soulful guide to living with more purpose, passion, and zero fear. Drawing from her own healing journey and deep conversations with spiritual thought leaders, Stephanie shares how shifting our relationship with fear—especially the fear of death—can unlock a life that’s more vibrant, meaningful, and alive than ever.

This episode explores how grief, loss, and uncertainty can actually be doorways into deeper joy, how we can move through emotional heaviness instead of avoiding it, and why our soul is always craving expansion. If you’ve ever felt afraid of the unknown, stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or unsure how to fully live while holding the weight of the world—this one’s for you.

Website: stephaniejames.world

Socials: @stephaniethespark

Podcast: Igniting The Spark 

Book: My Big Fat Juicy Life (and everything after)

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Inspired by Kelly’s conversation with Lauren Sisler about the power of owning your full story, Chip and Kelly dive into the parts of their lives that once felt hard to share—and how laughter has become a tool for healing. From shame to self-acceptance, they reflect on the moments that shaped them… and wrap it all up with hilarious, dramatic movie trailer voice overs of their own lives. Because sometimes, the best way to own your story is to laugh your way through it.

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You may know Lauren Sisler as the Emmy Award-winning ESPN sideline reporter with the signature sideline shimmy — but what you might not know is the heartbreaking story behind her smile.

At just 18 years old, Lauren lost both of her parents to a hidden opioid addiction… on the same day. In this episode, Lauren opens up about the shame, silence, and grief she carried for years — and how she slowly found her voice, her purpose, and the power of falling in love with her story.

We talk about what shame really looks like for children of addicts, how addiction affects the whole family, and how Lauren turned her most painful experience into a mission to help others own their stories, too.

This conversation is raw, honest, and incredibly inspiring reminder that even in the darkest moments, healing is possible. 

Check out Lauren's website: laurensisler.com

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In this episode, Chip and Kelly are inspired by the Aries New Moon Eclipse energy and dive into the idea of rebranding your life – with plenty of laughs along the way. From Chip’s epic hair rebrands (perm phase included) to how life’s challenges push us to reinvent ourselves, they explore why clinging to a one-size-fits-all blueprint holds us back. Instead of feeling stuck or pressured to have it all figured out, they talk about why it’s okay to evolve, grow, and sometimes just start fresh – whether it’s your mindset or your hairstyle. Tune in for relatable stories, real talk, and a reminder that change can actually be a good (and funny) thing!

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In this episode, Kelly sits down with master astrologer Marvin Wilkerson to dive into the transformative energy of the Aries Solar Eclipse. Known for its bold, direct, and passionate nature, this eclipse calls us to embrace new beginnings, courage, and leadership while cutting away old patterns that no longer serve us. Kelly and Marv explore the activation of Shamanic Warrior Energy, reflecting on our soul’s identity and the power of standing in our truth—even when it means breaking free from past conditioning.

They also discuss the significance of the Libra Lunar Eclipse, highlighting the need to dissolve false structures and align with our soul’s true path. Plus, they unpack how this cosmic event challenges us to balance discipline and devotion, merging vision and structure to alchemize illusion into embodied wisdom.

Whether you’re feeling the push for independence or reflecting on your spiritual evolution, this conversation offers insights into how to navigate these intense celestial shifts. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of the Aries Eclipse and manifest your most authentic self.

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Kelly and Chip dive into the buzzy world of “trauma”—what it really means, how to tell the difference between an actual trauma response and just a bad day, and why our culture has a habit of taking meaningful words and running them into the ground. From “boundaries” and “healing journeys” to being in your “main character era,” nothing is off limits. It’s part thoughtful, part ridiculous, and fully relatable.

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The word trauma is everywhere these days, but how do you know if you’re actually dealing with trauma—or just going through a rough patch? Kelly sits down with Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner Brittany Piper to break it all down, including why traditional talk therapy often isn’t enough to fully heal.

Brittany explains how trauma is stored in the body, not just the brain, and why talking about it can only take you so far. In her new book, Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery, she shares science-backed somatic practices—that help release stored trauma and reset the nervous system.

They also dive into big questions: Do we all have trauma, or has the term become overused? Have we become an emotionally weak society, or are we just finally paying attention? And in a world that constantly keeps us in chronic stress, what can we actually do to bring our nervous systems back to balance?

Book: Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery

Socials: @healwithbritt

Website: bodyfirsthealing.com

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