Episode 3 : Show Notes

* A moment to set the scene for Victoria: a forest glen with puddling bunnies.

* Sexual 4: “Hurt people, hurt people”.

* "When I feel hurt, I get angry and I want to hurt the other."

* The 4's emotional passion of Envy: constant comparing and chronic disappointment.

* Envy combusts with the sexual instinct: competition, anger, superiority.

* The type-story starts with an uncharacteristic move toward self, inward.

* Meeting Sofia Diaz, the real yoga deal.

* Getting real with oneself, one’s life, and my life depending on this.

* Meeting Bryce, in practice with Sofia.

* Bryce just another wannabe enlightened Boulder snob?

* Falling snow, Bryce, and Beyoncé.

* The sexual 4: “Infatuation”, and feeling drawn to Bryce.

* Originally typed as a sexual 1; anger, criticism, judgment.

* Anger, competition, pain, and blame in relationship.

* Repressed age-13 Trauma breaks open.

* “Truth or Trauma?”

* Focus on what the other is doing wrong.

* Rapture and agony with Bryce.

* Switchback to the self-preservation 4.

* Brief dip into the social 8.

* Uranio Paes suggests the sexual 4, and a weight lifts, an opening, a sobering.

* Importance of knowing subtypes, to clarify mistypes.

* Our professional work includes helping others land in their actual type.

* Victoria's gratitude.

* Simplicity and lightness, awareness, self-observation.

* Purifying, cleaning up, letting go.

* Seeing clearly and compassion for others.

* Forest-animal party-time!

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