Victoria's Thoughts

hope you guys loved today's episode on how i shop entirely second hand <3 (besides household essentials, beauty products, etc :) )

link to documentary: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.2cb4c101-7d36-5730-bca6-3719ef7bc650?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb

love u girls

hope you guys enjoyed this pod episode <3

My other pod episodes on this:

Stop Trying To Save People: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000530527735

Stop Trying To Save People Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000547345421

love you girls so much <3 leave me a review if you liked this episode ! <3

the book i was discussing: A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle

thank you Daysy for sponsoring today's episode, i love you <3 i hope you girlies enjoyed learning about how i prevent pregnancy while not on hormonal birth control!

link to Daysy: https://usa.daysy.me/shop/products/daysy-en/

use my code: DaysyUS+779 to get $20 dollars off <3

first interview on the pod- eeeeek ! <3 i hope you girls enjoyed!

in today's podcast, I had the honor of having one of my dear friends, Maggie Doyne, join us. Maggie is incredible: she won CNN Hero of The Year in 2015, she founded a children's school and a thriving *non problematic and actually helpful* non profit, and has radically altered our world.

i have known Maggie for around 10 years, and the day we recorded this podcast, she had come over to help me prepare for a big business meeting I had the next day and we ended up recording this episode together in my room. I hope you all enjoy :')

Maggie has a NEW BOOK out!!!!!!! it is AMAZING! Maggie gifted me her book a few months back and i read it in one day: it is moving, well written, and inspiring.

please pick up a copy of her book to learn about her journey: https://www.amazon.com/Between-Mountain-Sky-Mothers-Healing/dp/0785240284/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

please pick up a copy of Maggie's book, Between the Mountain and the Sky- and tag me on IG if you order it i want to see hehehehe.

donate to Maggie's organization: https://blinknow.org

Maggie's book: https://www.amazon.com/Between-Mountain-Sky-Mothers-Healing/dp/0785240284/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

Maggie's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maggiedoyne/

omg guys it was hard to interview!!!!!! especially because it was just spur of the moment! still, i hope you guys enjoyed this conversation. i love you <3

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xoxox,

Victoria de Vall

thank you Daysy for sponsoring today's episode, i love you <3 i hope you girlies enjoyed learning about how i prevent pregnancy while not on hormonal birth control!

ladies, i also highly recommend having a fertility doula or educator that you work with in the beginning who can customize a natural fertility plan to you. i found an abortion doula that also does natural fertility planning and i will actually be working with her to even deepen my natural fertility practices soon. because i am fertile and i absolutely do not want to be pregnant at the moment- and if I did become pregnant i would not continue the pregnancy- it does feel like the stakes are high. having a support system and someone to personally guide you through it is invaluable because they have much more knowledge than we might have.

with birth control, as discussed in the podcast, it is important to understand that while yes- birth control is harmful to the body-, for many women it is less harmful than the pregnancy they might have should they be off of it. birth control is not the root of oppression, it is a symptom of it. we have been oppressed and as a result, we lost of natural connection to our bodies. coming from that space of disconnection, we have to be able to make the most empowering decisions for ourselves given our circumstances. if you desire to make birth control be obsolete- or at the very least not as common as it is now- start with the root by empowering women to begin healing our emotional and physical trauma, connecting to our bodies and our standards.

link to Daysy: https://usa.daysy.me/shop/products/daysy-en/

use my code: DaysyUS+779 to get $20 dollars off <3

cycles journal: https://cyclesjournal.com/collections/shop-cycles-1/products/cycles-journal-2023

"plant b" tincture i use: https://mama-de-la-myco.myshopify.com/products/plant-b-queen-annes-lace-tincture

book: taking charge of your fertility by toni weschler

TW: we discuss sexual assault and rape in this episode

in today's episode, we discuss why sexual discipline in a man is so important. we discuss questions to ask him to see if he has sexual discipline, the politics of it, and all the ins and outs.

today's episode is more ~intense~ because the topic is intense and important.

xoxo,

Victoria de Vall

coaching with me: https://www.victoriadevall.com/book-coaching

in today's episode, we are discussing divine femininity and divine masculinity within the framework of LGBTQ+ relationships.

this was one of my more requested pod episodes, and i hope you girlies enjoy. LOVE YOU

coaching with me: https://www.victoriadevall.com

leave me a review !!!!

xoxox,

Victoria de Vall

in today's podcast episode, we discuss the dire need for women to own what is fun for them, and to disown what is not fun for them. with that disowning, also comes disowning of any experiences, people, things, or places that embody what is not fun for you- which can trigger your abandonment wound.

there's another aspect of this conversation which is women abandoning their desires to be seen as fun to men, which is covered in my podcast "Death of the Chill Girl", here it is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000561948857

*right after i took this podcast, my boyfriend came in my room and told me he booked us a private ballroom dancing class so we can learn how to dance together and that is SO FRICKING FUN TO MEEEE eeekk. people that have the same idea of fun as you >>

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coaching with me: https://www.victoriadevall.com

xoxo,

Victoria de Vall