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Vampires! 1700-2000 nothing short of lore or fiction. Or are they? in this episode we talk about the birth of vampires, actual vampire epidemics, stories based off the real thing, dracula and buffy to name a few. Also, what's the deal with garlic, I explain that too.

Did someone every tell you that Halloween was the devil's holiday? turns out they didn't do their research, Halloween also isn't the pagen holiday Samein. They are two very different celebrations. Everything we do on Halloween including trick-or-treating, wearing costumes, and lighting the jack-o-lanterns have roots in a Christian Celebration that took place on the 31st of October in preperation for All souls day on November 1st. crazy right?

once a cheater always a cheater? not so fast! I have a book that might change everything you know about love, sex, marriage, and dun dun dun cheating! Esther Perel hopefully isn't a stranger to you, i cover the gems of "that state of affairs" and even talk about the time my boyfriend cheated on me with multiple women while i was cooking for him. and yeah, one of the girls was my roommate.

how many times have you said you were going to stop doing that one thing? Are you the friend who always has the perfect thing to say but you never listen to your own advice? you can do better, here are the first thoughts on this.

It's good to be back but i am not excited to tell you all about the friend drama! we all end up in friendships that later on we regret... right? I can't be the only one who had a narc for a friend

I'm back! his not wanting to be monogamous, that's not a problem babe, becauses we aren't bald eagles and we believe in real love over constructs. this week we are talking monogamy, non-monogamy, polyamory and more. But we are doing in with an open mind my loves. the neuroscience and anthroplogy and most of all why we want to be monogamous so damn badly when we are so bad at it.

0:00 18:30 life update: current favorite scents, foods, tv shows and music

18:30 on: talking about dating on tinder vs. hinge. how hinge men tend to be more ready for relationships, so much so they are basically looking for an overnight shipment of a girlfriend. We need to talk about being too ready, and losing our authentic self in effort to get a mate.

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Ever heard of the four horsemen of relationships? or even more the additional 4 horsemen of long distance relationships?There is a lot to think about when starting a long distance relationship and I have all the details you need to make it work or decide to leave.

I have had a lot of long distance experience and fortunately for you I have met every horseman that can kill them. I expose them in this episode so might be able to avoid the long hard death of distance!

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Life update episode!

talking dating update, dilf on dating apps.

car repair, georgia fans, and pest control in the summer

got situationship? I can help! consider this your friendly neighborhood spiderman hanging down with all the details you need to not be in a situationship and find the will to find the right person.

we compare jello and creme brulee

Grim the cat is very needy

and I spill my dark secrets... what elses is new?