Effort vs. bare minimum and why old-school gestures still matter. I’m breaking down compatibility, complementary, chemistry — and giving my unfiltered take on the Taxi Cab Theory. Tough love, straight talk, and a little tea.

DON’T FORGET TO FOLLOW AND RATE❤️

Two of my biggest exes popped back into my life in the same week. I unpack how those conversations forced me to look at old patterns, why I’ve mistaken chaos for connection in the past, and what I’m no longer willing to tolerate. From trauma bonds to fearful-avoidant attachment to raising my standards, I’m sharing the lessons that are reshaping how I date in my 20s. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle with someone, this one’s calling out both you and me❤️

Honorary mention to Unc🕺

Six months ago, I turned down the biggest job offer of my life and recorded an episode mid-breakdown about betting on myself. This is the follow-up I promised. In this episode, I reflect on everything that’s changed since! From feeling disconnected to building the exact life, career, and relationships I once only wrote about.

This episode is dedicated to the people who walked in right as I was starting to lose faith...and unknowingly began healing a heart they didn’t break. Thank you for taking me under your wing.❤️🪽

Based on a true story <3 Catfishing, drunk confessions, a 24-hour boyfriend, and a first date that didn’t quite match the chaos of our introduction. Unpacking the in between space with dating, red flags, some unhinged nonsense and a reminder not to let anyone’s limited view of you shake what you know to be true.  

Based on a true story <3 Catfishing, drunk confessions, a 24-hour boyfriend, and a first date that didn’t quite match the chaos of our introduction. Unpacking the in between space with dating, red flags, some unhinged nonsense and a reminder not to let anyone’s limited view of you shake what you know to be true.  

JC WEEKEND DEBRIEF + I dive into the illusion of “options” in dating and how social media is quietly sabotaging our ability to connect. Breadcrumbing, emotional avoidance, and how easy it is to chase attention instead of intimacy. From my situationships to story likes, I unpack why dating feels so shallow right now and how to shift back into intentional connection.

My new job, dream apartment, shifting friendships, dating updates… and yes, cheating exes. I’m finally living the life I once prayed for, while calling out the bare minimum behavior I refuse to entertain anymore. This episode is all about growth, boundaries, divine timing, and standing on business. If you’re in your comeback era or ready to enter it, press play !

HAPPY 24TH BIRTHDAY TO ME💙

To a year of grounded growth, elevation, aligned choices and being unapologetically me. I love you all, thanks for coming along for 23.

Landing my dream job, dream apartment, and a fresh start just before my 24th birthday — The worst week of my life quickly turned into the BEST. I open up about the mental resilience it took to navigate rejection, burnout, toxic relationships, and setbacks, and how choosing alignment over pressure led to everything falling into place. I reflect on full-circle moments, like manifesting the exact role I was once told I wasn’t qualified for, and the power of trusting divine timing. This episode is a reminder that your breakdown might just be the beginning of your breakthrough.

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I’m scared to post this. High functioning depression, the guilt of letting go, and the beauty of making space for more aligned connections. I’m unpacking the uncomfortable but necessary process of outgrowing — jobs, friendships, old versions of myself, and even dating patterns. From feeling disconnected at work to setting new boundaries in my relationships, this is a raw, unfiltered look at what it means to evolve when everything around you starts to feel misaligned. If you’ve been feeling stuck, lonely, or like you’re quietly growing out of your old life, this one’s for you.

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