VulgHER

VulgHER

By Selma Nilla and Vicky VeeComedy
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VulgHER episodes

  • Buckee’s Bottom, Waymo Trauma, and Grindr Psychosis

    Selma and Vicky are back—and somehow this episode has everything: breaking sexual dry spells, self-driving cars that may or may not be government-controlled, and a deeply spiritual encounter with a honey butter chicken biscuit.What starts as a casual catch-up quickly spirals into chaos: power dynamics with “average-sized” daddies, being ghosted by Zara Larsson’s camera crew, and surviving a Waymo ride that felt one glitch away from a headline. Along the way, they unpack conspiracy theories about Antarctica (yes, really), debate whether gays are legally required to smile at drag shows, and share travel horror stories featuring cursed airport gates and disappointing Buckee’s runs.Also on the docket: Grindr in a new city, forgetting your douche at the worst possible time, audition chaos, wig-induced identity crises, and a passionate takedown of mobile ordering apps that simply do not work.It’s h*rny, unhinged, mildly paranoid—and exactly what you needed.

    1 hr 2 min
  • Disneyland Fails and Special Massages with Kiki Ball-Change

    Selma and Vicky sit down to casually catch up and immediately spiral into a full-blown breakdown over a space movie, a deeply upsetting rock alien, and why public transit has officially become a lawless society. They rant about manspreading, social media shadowbans, and a viral clip that made the internet collectively uncomfortable.Along the way, they discuss thrift store art that feels vaguely cursed, Disneyland chaos, the emotional damage of Instagram likes, and a comment section that should’ve stayed private. Then Kiki Ball-Change enters the chat to discuss cabaret life, creative hustle, and creating your own opportunities instead of waiting for one.

    1 hr 24 min
  • Hop Into the Chaos: An Unhinged Easter Special

    Happy Easter… but make it VulgHER.Selma and Vicky hop into this holiday episode like two chaotic bunnies on Red Bull - starting with nostalgic Easter vibes before immediately derailing into naughty rabbit behavior, dental conspiracies, and why the CVS Pharmacy is apparently a “local business.” From debating whether the Easter Bunny is sexy or sinister to pitching a fully sponsored adult Easter egg hunt (think p*ppers, Grindr premium, and mild public indecency), nothing is safe—including religion, public transit ads, and dentists who may or may not be running a scam ring. Along the way, they spiral through: chaotic candy taste tests, TikTok lives that should not exist, rich moms building $1,000 Easter baskets, and a deeply serious discussion about putting eggs in places eggs should never go. It’s nostalgic, feral, slightly sacrilegious, and somehow still about Easter.Basically: if Jesus rose for this… he’s going back down.

    56 min
  • Uber problems, Dating Fails, and NYC Cookie Battle!

    Selma and Vicky are BACK - and this week completely spirals from the jump. What was supposed to be a chill catch-up turns into one of the most chaotic, unfiltered episodes yet.Between nonstop drag gigs, moving stress, and the general madness of NYC life, the girls are hanging on by a thread… and oversharing to cope. From leaking ceilings in the drag room (yes, wigs were at risk) to late Ubers that test your sanity, it’s already a lot—but that’s just the beginning.Things really go off the rails when a “casual” hookup story enters the chat and somehow becomes a full-blown saga. We’re talking unexpected turns, questionable decisions, and a moment that changes the entire vibe of the episode. You will have questions. We still have questions.Along the way, they also get into:-A heated debate over NYC cookies (and a shocking redemption arc)-The most unexpectedly wholesome pharmacy experience of all time-Why modern tech (looking at you, two-factor authentication) is actually ruining lives-Theater nights, drag gigs, and the chaos of performing while barely holding it together-And the one moment that absolutely should’ve stayed off mic… but didn’t

    It’s messy, it’s hilarious, it’s a little too honest. If you love chaotic stories, unfiltered conversations, and “did-they-really-just-say-that” moments… this one’s for you.

    57 min
  • Celebrity Drama: Chappell Roan Melt Down + Timothée Chalamet Hate Train

    Welcome back to VulgHER, the podcast where nothing is off-limits and everything gets said out loud. This week, Selma and Vicky return from their chaotic VulgHER Live show to unpack the highs, the hangovers, and everything in between. From behind-the-scenes tea in NYC’s drag scene to brutally honest takes on queer nightlife, they dive into hookup disasters and successes, customer service chaos, and the internet trends that give them the ultimate ick. It’s messy, hilarious, and unapologetically real—plus a little Grindr scrolling and way too much honesty along the way.

    1 hr 1 min
  • VulgHER LIVE with Van Goth! Winner of Canada’s Drag Race!

    The girls are LIVE and absolutely unhinged in this chaotic episode of VulgHER. Selma and Vicky take the podcast to the stage for a night of drag, gossip, audience chaos, and zero censorship.From drag show etiquette and Grindr horror stories to Britney Spears gossip, Taco Bell orders, and the reality of moving in New York City — nothing is off limits. The hosts also welcome a very special guest: the winner of Canada’s Drag Race Season 6, Van Goth, who spills tea on winning the crown, Drag Race casting, and life after the show.

    1 hr 17 min
  • Two Truths and a Trauma

    In this episode of VulgHER, Selma and Vicky spiral through one of their most chaotic conversations yet. From spotting an adult film star at the gym to sharing their most ridiculous hookup stories, nothing is off limits.The girls talk about the weird reality of Grindr and Sniffies culture, accidentally getting featured by Drag Race queens, and why one-ply toilet paper should be illegal. They also dive into subway preachers, strange gym encounters, and a game of Two Truths and a Lie that gets truly unhinged.

    1 hr 2 min
  • Gold Medals and Golden Showers

    The chaos queens are back — and they’re taking it there. 😈In this unhinged, laugh-out-loud episode, Selma and Vicky return after technical difficulties to dish on NYC winter blues, moving stress, nightlife gossip, and the looming madness of their upcoming VulgHER Live show. From jury duty panic and apartment packing meltdowns to dating app horror stories and queer culture hot takes, nothing is off limits.They dive into Grindr drama, situationships, and the strange modern dating limbo between hookup culture and emotional commitment. The conversation spirals into kinks, boundaries, drag life, nightlife hookups, and the unexpected sex appeal of seeing a performer command a room.Plus: pop culture picks, music obsessions, figure skating discourse, and the small joys keeping them sane in a chaotic world.Raw, raunchy, and ridiculously funny — this episode is peak VulgHER.

    1 hr 6 min
  • Sniffies, Sobriety and Stardom! Inside the Adult Industry & NYC Nightlife with Boomer Banks

    This week on VulgHER, Selma and Vicky welcome nightlife legend, adult film icon, and DJ extraordinaire Boomer Banks. From dominating the adult industry to redefining himself through music, fashion, and advocacy, Boomer shares the raw truth behind fame, identity, and survival in queer nightlife culture.

    The trio dives into porn industry myths, sexual honesty, sobriety, HIV advocacy, online hate, and the reality of navigating fame across multiple careers. Expect wild stories, unfiltered laughs, and surprisingly deep conversations about healing, reinvention, and chosen family.

    1 hr 35 min
  • Coming Out Stories, Corsets and Bedroom Chaos

    This week, Selma and Vicky ditch the wigs and heels to reveal the boys behind the glam. From raw coming-out stories to drag sacrifices, body image journeys, and chaotic dating drama, the girls get vulnerable.They dive into the confidence drag creates, the identity shifts that happen when the makeup comes off, and the real cost of serving fantasy for a living. Expect unhinged hot takes, nightlife tea, DL boy horror stories, and honest conversations about queer identity, mental health, and self-growth.

    1 hr 21 min

About VulgHER

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Drag divas Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee's unfiltered, unhinged, and unapologetically queer podcast, VulgHER!