Black Men and Manhood: Why So Many Feel Like They’re Not Measuring UpWhy do so many Black men feel like they’re not measuring up? Whether it’s struggling to meet societal expectations, feeling inadequate in relationships, or quietly carrying the weight of unspoken traumas—this conversation is long overdue. We’re peeling back the layers, from toxic expectations to the quiet battle with self-worth, and making space for truth, healing, and real talk.

Today’s episode is dedicated to exploring the real experiences of Black love in therapy. We’ll discuss common issues couples face and hear from our amazing panel of therapists on how they approach these challenges in session. Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or navigating healing from past relationships, this episode is for you.

This Pride Month, we’re celebrating identity in its fullness. In this episode, we talk about what it means to be Queer, Black, and Whole in a world that often tries to split us apart. From navigating family and faith to finding joy, freedom, and healing—this is a conversation about reclaiming every piece of ourselves without apology. Because being whole doesn’t mean being perfect—it means being real.

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, the space where healing gets real, and therapy meets real life.Every second Tuesday of the month, we bring together an incredible panel of licensed Black therapists to respond to the questions you’ve been sending in—because sometimes, you just need to talk to your therapist. So join us tonight for Vulnerability is the New Sexy.

On today’s episode, we’re taking a deep dive into an often overlooked question in our community: Are we really prepared for emotionally intelligent partners?We’ve all seen the trending conversations and Instagram posts unpacking what it means to be in a relationship with a man who shows up with emotional honesty, clarity, and integrity—but what does that really require from us as individuals and as a community?Today’s conversation brings together a powerful panel of Black mental health professionals to explore this topic with nuance, honesty, and cultural relevance.

Today, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many of us avoid but desperately need—accountability and forgiveness. As Black men, our ability to heal and evolve is directly tied to how well we own our mistakes and release resentment. Without accountability, growth is stunted. Without forgiveness, peace is impossible.

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy. I’m your host, Joe Corley — licensed therapist and Black male mental health advocate. Today’s episode is deeply personal. We’re talking about the presence — and absence — of fathers in the Black community, and how that shapes who we are as men, fathers, and partners. We’ll dive into the generational patterns, the healing, and the legacy we’re trying to build. I’m joined by some incredible brothers who are here to share their truth.

Today’s episode is one we wish we didn’t have to have — but we must. We’re here to honor lives like Kyren Lacy and Keith Miller — Black men whose inner battles became too heavy to carry. We’re not here to speculate. We’re here to listen, feel, and heal — as a community.

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. I’m your host, Joe Corley, and this week we're diving into a timely and transformative conversation: How do we get beyond the gender wars and start uplifting one another as Black men and women?The narratives online often pit us against each other, but real healing happens when we sit down, listen, and speak with intention. Today, I’m joined by two brilliant therapists, Felice Britt HighTower and Jeanni Johnson, and one more brother in the field, as we explore what it truly means to understand each other’s needs, expectations, and emotional truths

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Tonight, we’re examining the health of today's Black man. We're looking at mind, body, and soul to explore the intersection of physical health, mental health, and the lived experience of Black men. We'll dive into how stress, culture, systemic oppression, and internalized expectations take a toll on our bodies and minds—and what we can do about it. It's a talk few Black men may want to hear, but all should. Join us tonight.