Waffling About Mostly Nothing

Its another Sunday, what a great time to be alive, am I right? I'm right, right? Today I talk about so much shit ranging from trump personally arresting me to self love and not being so harsh on yourself all the time, because god damn are you mean to yourself. what have they done to make you so mean to them? huh? They're just trying to be there for you and all you do is shit on them. Tell me, would you be this mean to anyone else? I bet you the answer is no, so why the hell are you so damn mean to yourself. STOP take a step back and reassess how you think of yourself, trust me when I say life gets so much better when you start realising your worth and treating yourself accordingly. Try it, what's the worst that can happen when you start being nicer to yourself? 

Okay so as you can so clearly tell, quarantine has been absolutely amazing!! (also just in case it isn't clear because I feel like you cant really tell over a screen, I'm being sarcastic) Every 2 hours, I'll slowly think I'm going insane on my own but that's okay because there's much more content I can put out for you! I also feel like I said: 'I think a lot' and I think (see?) its because I've been listening to too many podcast speakers that use that phrase almost as much as I use the word 'like'. but yes, I do use 'I think' a lot here and that's mostly because all I can really do right now is think and I'll be honest, I've been thinking so much I can't even catch up with my own thoughts at this point so I mostly just word vomited the entire episode and it is definitely a mess. but every one of my episodes is a mess anyway, amirite. After quarantine is over, I've got hope that I'll be able to provide more normal content; whether that's more entertaining or not, I'm not sure but I'll always be doing my best. anyway, enough with the unnecessary sappy stuff, ill let you go n enjoy this episode

Okay, I know the title sounds a little sad and very lonely but that's not how it went and definitely not the impression I want to give off. During this episode, I talk about all I did for me, and just me; and if I'm being completely honest, this is definitely one of the better valentines days I've had. The more I learn to make ME a priority and start actually putting myself first, the happier and more confident I feel doing literally anything. it's genuinely made the biggest during this lockdown and I sort of regret being so close minded and not taking the advice my mom would give me when it comes to loving myself. Give it a go and let me know hot it goes! Talk soooooon (also please pray for your girl because she's got two tests in a few days that she is not the least bit prepared for)

Hey, hi, hello! This is definitely a little more serious than most of my other topics but I've decided to share what's been going on the past week, mainly because I wish someone had said this to me earlier (and that's pretty much been all I could think about the past week lol). I've linked a few sites just to stay informed but I'd definitely suggest taking at least 15 minutes yourself to read up on how to protect yourself and some safety precautions to take when dealing with someone/something suspicious. 

Stay informed on all matters on how to stay safe around bank scams and fraudulent behaviour: https://www.barclays.co.uk/digisafe/types-of-scams/

Main things a bank will generally never ask you to do: https://moneyfacts.co.uk/guides/money-guides/things-your-bank-will-never-ask-you-to-do/

How to spot and avoid scams: https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/blog/how-to-spot-and-avoid-bank-scams

And if you're confused over something happening in YOUR account, don't be afraid to ask questions and do your own research and digging until you're 110% sure everything is okay and safe. If your gut is telling you something seems suspicious, follow that instinct and don't be afraid to take your time when dealing with something as serious as personal and bank information! 

Stay safe out there, my friends!

Hey, Hi, Hello, and welcome back to Waffling About Mostly Nothing! How are you? How has your week been? Oh, wow really? that’s super interesting!! Wait, what’s that? You want to hear about my week, well I mean sure if you insist! My week’s been a little hectic and days feel like they’ve just all become this one massive day, so its safe to say I’m very confused almost all the time, but let’s be honest that’s just how I am anyway. Right, so a few things have been going on ranging from getting a little too creative with my ways of procrastination to needing to sleep so much, its actually starting to concern me. I also found out that some idiot tried to get my card details and steal money I don’t even have. Jokes on them because I have no money anyway! I’ve also managed to get a board and am in the process of turning into my vision board, so I’ll definitely keep you updated! Anyway, that’s how my week went. Nothing else really interesting happened, sounds like your week definitely beat mine!

....and that's okay. That's actually the end of the title but I felt it would've been too long if I put all of that in there so here we are! Someone could probably do with hearing this right now. Not everyone's going to like you and that is okay. Trust me on this one, in order to grow, you're going to have to change a little bit in certain ways or the other and eventually, you'll probably end up falling out with some people and some people will just decide they don't like you. They might have a reason or they might not, but regardless it is genuinely none of your concern. Unless it's a super close family member or friend, I don't want you occupying your thoughts with possible reasons they don't like you or ways you can change, just because there's a slight possibility they're going to like you. Obviously if you're a big ol' meenie and don't respect other people's boundaries, this doesn't apply to you and you should maybe look into not being such a foot (yes a foot!) But if you're listening to this podcast, I can almost guarantee you're not a terrible person and if you're not a terrible person, why should you fee terrible? huh? Answer me that! You should not feel terrible for the way other people choose to occupy their thoughts and time with disliking you for just being you! Anyway, this was probably long enough so I hope you enjoy this week's episode and have an extra fun week next week! Speak soooooooonnn!!

Hello my friends!! How has your day been? I hope its been great and the new year is doing you justice. This week's episode is a little longer than usual, well a lot longer but for good reason... I think. I've honestly got the worst stomach cramps while I'm writing this but I'm honestly just really excited over you guys hearing this one because I've slowly started to come out of my shell and talk a little more freely, even though I wont lie, I'm still a little unnatural and nervous but we're getting there. I can at least assure you (and me) we'll definitely get there soon. Anyway, enough about that, This week I discuss how I've been attempting to make myself a priority and (spoiler alert) its going really well and I'm loving how I'm feeling as a result! I wont keep you reading this long, just because I think this episode's done a good job in that. haha get it? because this is the longest episode I've uploaded yet. Why am I still typing? Okay bye' I love you!

Hello my friends, I hope you've had a good week and the new year hasn't gone to shit yet. Speaking of new years, during this entire year I've decided to stop dating other people completely. I don't really know why I made this so official in my head like I date all the time, when I actually don't. Last year I only "saw" 2 people, and they both ended up breaking my heart. So after all the breakdowns and drama, I decided I'd actually take the chance to date myself. Not just say it or tell myself "I'm great" every once in a while. No. Actually date myself. Let me explain. I'm going to date me and ONLY me for the next year. No random crushes. No flirting or playing around or whatever the hell, because I'm now taken, by me. I realize this may sound really sad but for now we'll go with it. I'll go more into it when I've got more of a grip of what I'm doing and how it feels; but for today's episode, I decided it would be a great start to ask myself the 36 questions that lead to love. I only got through 18, but trust me when I say, it got deep. VERY quick. As cheesy as that may all sound, I think I'm doing something good for me but ultimately, very challenging; so come join me while I figure out how the hell I can fall in love with myself. Because the way I see it, the only way I can set the standard for how someone else treats me is by embodying it myself.

Hey, Hi, Hello! How are you doing today? How has 2021 been so far? Today, I discussed all the habits I want to start incorporating and hopefully making a habit but knowing myself I probably wont end up sticking to. However, its the 3rd day of 2021 and so far, so good, so who knows, amirite? I should also mention, I got very excited while recording this, because I was actually alone for once, and no one could hear me so I got to be as loud as I could be and I feel like that just added that little bit I was missing, right? No? Okay, maybe not. If while you're listening you think, hey this girl's being a little much and should probably pace herself, don't worry, that's expected. Its also probably because almost every episode before this one, I've edited in a certain way or the other and this is the first time I didn't and I honestly feel like this is my favorite episode so far! Lets cheers to that and to having this year be the greatest comeback ever! Cheers!