Let's talk about what some people might consider is incompatibility in a relationship. Or is this just the norm of being two different people? I have heard many people come into therapy with me that feel that they are in compatible with their partner and they're trying to find someway to rectify this. However, more often than not this is simply a moment that they are experiencing what it is to live with a different person.

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This is our part two of the two part series around past ammo. In today's episode, we're going to talk more specifically about forgiveness and the role we play in forgiving our partners for past wrongs. This is going to be another episode where we take radical responsibility so get ready this might be uncomfortable.

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Today we are going to talk about part 1 of a two-part series in regards to the topic of using past issues as ammo within arguments. I think every couple can understand that past pain definitely can linger if not addressed. Let's talk about how to begin this process, so that arguments become more focused on what is happening right now and not so much about what has happened in all the time you have been together as a couple.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

I believe it's common knowledge that we know our partner cannot be all things at all times to us. However, I still see in my practice that we have a lot of unrealistic expectations for our relationship. Today let's talk a little bit about what makes an unrealistic expectation and how to come to a compromise so they both of you can be in a relationship that feels happy and respectful of your differences. 

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

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Today we're gonna talk about the importance of having a no way mindset when it comes to working on couples issues. Defining, the no way out mindset means to be ready to deal with the situation that you are in because you cannot leave. I want to give some examples of people I have seen in practice as well as throughout social media, but personify these issues of easily, leaving and giving up on the commitment that it takes to be in a relationship with another person.

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

Every relationship does this dance. This dance goes beyond sexuality, and really is about the flow of roles and teamwork. Because this topic is vast and very personalized, I am only going to be talking about the most general points that I think everyone should start to assess and hopefully personalize in their own relationships. You will need, a strong awareness in yourself and what truly feels comfortable, happy and natural for you. Please keep in mind that this is a topic laced in a lot of cultural stigma so if you feel uncomfortable by discussing femininity and masculinity, this may not be the episode for you. For those willing to open their minds and our curious, welcome!

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

In today's podcast, we're gonna think about the effectiveness and the possibility of you creating rules or guidelines to how you and your partner decide to have arguments. We're naming it the rules of engagement. 

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

In today's society, I see a lot of moments where people are expecting a behavior or an experience to come from someone else before it comes from them selves. This is specifically challenging when it comes to couples therapy. If you don't have anything to give or any energy or any willingness to do the thing you're requesting from your partner it doesn't make a lot of sense than asking of them to do what you are unwilling to do also. Today we're going to talk about the phenomenon of hypocrisy, and how to work on being aware of it and remedying the issue.

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

Todays topic is something that I learned from my own relationship as well as through my years working with other couples. In any argument both of you can be feeling hurt and when we fight to get our needs met we are fighting against our partner needing to get their needs met. In todays discussion I am going to layout a way to break the cycle of hurt by both of you learning to work on arguments one hurt person at a time. 

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.

The genders have many similarities because of our experiences as humans. However there are still many differences that go unnoticed until it becomes an argument. Today lets talk about one that is a common miss understanding that can happen between a couple. 

If you would like to learn more about me and my practice feel free to stop by my website, sunrisetherapies.org. If you live outside of Massachusetts, USA but would like to get a question answered please do check out my Patreon subscription options! I offer email or phone calls for people looking to get a more personalized answer to their questions.

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Disclaimer: The information provided by Dawn C. Ramezany is solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. It is understood that even though Dawn C. Ramezany is a licensed mental health counselor, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.