I Will Restore You to Health and Heal Your Wounds

Jeremiah 30:17 “But I will restore you to health and heal your wounds,’ declares the Lord, ‘because you are called an outcast.”

I was looking for a verse about restoration because one of my dear friends received a word from the Lord about it, and I wanted to share it with you. I know many of you who are listening are struggling. You have been struggling with your physical health for a long time, and you are wondering why the Lord hasn’t healed you yet. You know He can, and you might even believe He will. Yet He hasn’t yet, and you are wondering why and when.

Some of you have been struggling financially for a long time, and you wonder when the struggle will end. You trust God to provide, yet you are really struggling right now. Your bills need to be paid, and there is no money. You are wondering when the provisions are going to show up and how much of yourself you are going to have to give away before reinforcements come. You might be struggling in your marriage or with parenting. It feels like the waves keep coming, and although you know the Lord is not going to let you drown in those waves, some days you come very close.

I have been talking to a lot of people lately who are so tired of the struggle. They don’t expect life to be easy, but they can’t take all that is going on. They don’t understand why God is not helping them. They don’t understand why he is not taking this from them. They don’t understand why he is not protecting them from some of this. They are tired and confused. They feel like they are running out of the strength and energy they need to keep fighting.

I am in a Wednesday morning prayer group run by Rosa Rivas. She is also a wonderful friend of mine who agreed to read the Spanish Translation of the podcast so God’s Word and His love can reach more people. Rosa started a WhatsApp chat for those in the prayer group. In this group, people place their prayer requests, support each other, and place any resources they have found that build their faith. Last week, many people in the group were struggling, so Rosa listened to the Lord and held a group call so we could all pray together. It was beautiful and definitely needed. I just want to pause to let you all know that you need people in your life like this. You need community, so when you are down, they can build you up!

While Rosa was praying, she received this word, and I think it is not just for that group but for everyone who needs it. She heard the Lord say:

“ I am restoring broken dreams

I am restoring broken promises

I am restoring broken plans

I am restoring broken relationships

I am restoring broken friendships

I am restoring broken memories

I am restoring broken hearts

I am restoring the brokenness of all the things that have hurt you in your life

I am restoring all the brokenness of your past and your childhood

I am restoring broken health

I am restoring everything just as I did with Job..”

And then she said Declare this:

In Jesus Name, I am restored

In Jesus Name, all that has been lost and taken away from me has been restored, and I will receive double what was taken

In Jesus Name, my wounds have been healed

In Jesus Name, my joy is restored

In Jesus Name, my strength is renewed

In Jesus Name, I am whole

If you are tired. This message is for you. If you are struggling with broken dreams, broken promises, a broken heart, past trauma, current trauma, your health, your past, your childhood, your finances, whatever it is, this is for you. God is restoring you!

I know it may not be in the way you want Him to. I know it may not be your timing. I know you feel you can’t go on. I promise you, He will help you go on. I promise you, when you make it to the other side of this hill, the other side of this mountain, the other side of this ocean or cavern, it will be worth it. I am talking with many people who have been struggling for a long time. Most of them are really struggling to hold on to any hope that things will change.

Is this you? Have you been down for the count so long that you can’t even picture things getting better? Have you been so sick that you can’t imagine a brighter future, one where you are healthy and can do all the things you want to do? I am not even talking about huge things. Some people I know have been so sick for so long that they can’t even imagine a world where they can even go for a walk around the block without pain. They can’t imagine a day that doesn’t include all the medical appointments or treatments. Have you struggled with money so long that you can’t imagine a time when you will be able to pay all your bills? If this is you, I want to assure you that there is nothing wrong. This doesn’t mean you don’t trust God or that you don’t have enough faith. It means you are tired. You are worn down. You are weary. It is ok. I also want you to know you aren’t alone. So many are suffering right now.

This is why community is so important. Sometimes we need someone else to be praying for us when we just can’t anymore. We need someone else to keep hoping for us when we are losing hope. Sometimes hope can be painful. It can hurt to keep hoping for something good, and yet we never see it. It is hard to hope for a husband when you don’t have a boyfriend. It can be hard to hope for a healing when you just seem to be getting worse and worse. It can be hard to hope for provisions when your bills keep piling up.

Hope take vulnerabitlity. Hope is believing in something that you can not see, and this is not easy when what you do see is overwhelming. It is not easy to have hope when you feel like the waves keep knocking you over. This is when it is important to have a community around you. Get involved in a Bible study or something else at your church. Or, if you can’t get out of your house, find an online community. I am in two prayer groups, one at 6:30 on Wednesday morning and one at 10:00 on Thursday mornings. Both are on zoom and both are filled with powerful prayer warriors who would be happy to pray with you. I also have a Walk Boldly With Jesus Facebook group where wonderful people would be happy to pray for you.

If you don’t have a community and don’t want to find one, at least find one person who can be your prayer partner. Someone who can hold you in prayer and who can hold onto that hope for you. Also, you can pray for them. Sometimes, it is easier to pray for others than for your own situation, because we are too close to it. Also, praying for someone else will give you a sense of purpose and, at least while you are praying, distract you from your troubles. I would like to challenge each of you to check out a Bible Study or a prayer group, or to find at least one person and ask them to be your prayer partner. We were not meant to do life on our own. God built us for community.

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode. Lord, we thank you so much for Your Word above. We thank you for restoring us and healing us. We thank you that you love us so much that you meet us where we are, but then you don’t let us stay there; you lift us up. Lord, we ask for that restoration and healing you promised above. We ask for the strength and perseverance to wait for it as we are growing weary, Lord. Help us to hang in there. Lord, I ask that you help each person listening find their community. Help them to find a prayer partner. Help them to not feel so alone. Bring the perfect person into their life, Lord! We love you, and we ask this in accordance with Your Will and in Jesus’s Holy Name, Amen!

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. If you would like more info on either prayer group I mentioned earlier, please reach out. Also, if you are looking for a community, I invite you to join my mentoring community. We meet on Tuesday nights at 8 PM. There is a link for it in the show notes if you would like to join us. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you, and so do I! Have a blessed day!

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “There are Jerichos in your life, in your family, in your ministry, in your neighborhood, in your world today, and in my church today. The walls will tumble. Obey me—Intercede for the graces that you will need. Use all the graces I have given you. My mother is at your disposal.”

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Fix Your Eyes On Jesus

Ephesians 2:8-9 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.”

This verse is an important one.  It is something I think we forget more than we remember.  At least I know I forget this often.  I do know I am saved because Jesus died on a cross for my sins.  I know I am not saved because of my own actions.  I know there are no works that I could do to save myself because Jesus already paid the ultimate sacrifice.  I know all of this, and yet sometimes I still try to do it all myself.  Sometimes I try to fix things myself.  Instead of immediately turning to the Lord when things get tough, I try to fix them myself.  I do all that is humanly possible to do, and then when that doesn’t work, I turn to the Lord.  Do you know why it doesn’t work when we try to do things on our own?  Because we were trying to do it on our own.  We can’t do anything on our own, and why would we want to when we have a heavenly Father who wants to do it with us?  

This morning’s devotional was about this same message. The daily devotional I am reading this year is called “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Young.  I am really enjoying this one because the devotionals are not super long, and they are written as if they are a direct message to you from Jesus.  It’s great to get a personal message from Jesus each morning.  I’m going to read you the message from this morning because I think it illustrates this verse well.  

"I want you to experience the riches of your salvation: the joy of being loved constantly and perfectly. You make a practice of judging yourself based on how you look, behave, or feel. If you like what you see in the mirror, you feel a bit more worthy of my love. When things are going smoothly, and your performance seems adequate, you find it easier to believe you are my beloved child. When you feel discouraged, you tend to look inward so you can correct whatever is wrong.  Instead of trying to “fix” yourself, fix your gaze on me, the lover of your soul. Rather than using your energy to judge yourself, redirect it to praising Me.  Remember that I see you clothed in My righteousness, radiant in My perfect Love.”

This gives some great examples, I think we can all relate to.  It is easier for us to feel loved when we like what we see in the mirror or when we feel we are doing a good job.  It is easier to think we are God’s beloved children when we are attending church, showing up for our prayer time, and helping others.  However, what about when we aren’t? What about when we are snoozing through prayer time and missing church on Sunday?  What about when we are not being kind and loving, but we are being irritable and grumpy?  Do we still know we are God’s beloved child?  Do we still believe we are loved?  Or, do we struggle to believe it because we haven’t earned his love or earned our spot as His beloved child?  

I can’t answer that for you, but for me, I know I struggle with feeling like I have to earn it.  The thing that bugs me the most is that I don’t even know I am doing it.  If you ask me if I have to earn God’s love, I would say, “No.”  I truly know I am loved no matter what.  However, if you look at my actions, they say something else.  Why is that?  It is so frustrating when you know something on one level and yet your actions reveal that you might not know or accept it on all levels.  This, I am sure, is a trick from the enemy.  As mentioned in the letter from Wormwood in the Tuesday episode, the enemy wants to keep our brains in a fog.  He wants to keep us from thinking clearly and asking too many questions.  We need to resist this fog.  We need to try to live as intentionally as we can.  We can so easily go through our day on autopilot.  We do the things we did yesterday; every day is similar, and we aren’t even really thinking about what we are doing.  We are just doing what we always do.  However, what if what we always do isn’t the best for us?  What if we could do better if we lived more intentionally?  

In this message from the daily devotional, Jesus is calling us back to Him.  He is calling us to stop trying fix ourselves and instead fix our eyes on Him. Hebrews 3:1 says, "Therefore, holy brothers and sisters, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, whom we acknowledge as our apostle and high priest.”  We need to stop turning our gaze inward and fix our gaze on Jesus.  Look towards Him and then never take your eyes off Him!  I love where it says in the devotional, “Rather than using your energy to judge yourself, redirect it to praising Me.”  That is such a great piece of advice.  Judging ourselves does take so much energy.  Praising God will uplift your spirits, also.  I love to praise God; I always feel so loved afterwards.  

Psalm 34:5 says, “Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.”  When we are looking to God, we are radiant.  We don’t feel ashamed; we feel as though we are God’s children because we know we are.  I love it when God gives us the answers to the questions we are asking.  If we want to know how we can experience the riches of our salvation and the joy of being loved constantly and perfectly, we need to fix our eyes on Jesus and redirect our energy to praise.  Imagine if you could feel the joy of being loved constantly and perfectly?  You can just turn your gaze to Jesus and praise Him.

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today.  Lord, we are so grateful that you gave the ultimate sacrifice for us.  We know we don’t have to earn it, and yet we still try.  Help us to stop that, Lord.  Help us to accept your love and acceptance that is freely given.  Help us to know in our inmost being that you love us no matter what, and we don’t have to do anything to save ourselves.  Your grace has already saved us.  Help us accept your grace, Lord, and use it to praise you!  We love you, Lord, you are so amazing.  You are the best, and we are so grateful for you.  We ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’ holy name, Amen!

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus.  I look forward to spending time with you tomorrow.  Have a blessed day!

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Mercy Is So Important

Jude 1:20-23 “But you, beloved, build yourselves up in your most holy faith; pray in the holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in the love of God and wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. On those who waver, have mercy; save others by snatching them out of the fire; on others have mercy with fear,  abhorring even the outer garment stained by the flesh.

This is a great verse because it tells us to build ourselves up in the most holy faith.  It tells us to pray in the Holy Spirit and to keep ourselves in the love of God and wait for His mercy to lead us to eternal life.  However, it doesn’t just stop there.  It doesn’t stop with God telling us to take care of ourselves.  It goes on to talk about how we should have mercy on those who waver in their faith.  It tells us to snatch others out of the fire.  This is a pretty vivid image.  I think it paints an accurate picture of how important it is that we save others as well.  

I think mercy is something that we need a whole lot more of in the world today.  Mercy and Grace seem to go hand in hand, and this world seems to be in short supply of both of them.  This world, or at least this country, the United States of America, seems to be so divided.  If someone doesn’t believe the same way that we do, we tend to want nothing to do with them.  Or, we want to argue with them and tell them all the reasons why their opinions are wrong.  Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t think things can change without us talking about our differences.  However, these need to be respectful, calm conversations  where both sides are listening to the other with the goal of understanding where each side is coming from.  

These are not the conversations that I have seen happening in our country for a long time now.  I did see a conversation like this last summer at my nephew’s wedding.  My brother-in-law and my husband had a respectful conversation about their thoughts on a bunch of different issues going on right now.  They couldn’t have been further apart on some issues, but they both listened respectfully and actually learned that they agreed on some things.  I think they also cleared up some misunderstandings about some issues.  It was nice to see and a welcome change to the conversations I am used to hearing.

Sometimes we can get so caught up in what we believe.  We think that we are right and that must mean that the other person is wrong.  Something I have been learning a lot about over the last few years is that two opposing things can be true at the same time.  You can love your parents, and you can also feel like you hate them for some moments.  You can be super happy that you got a promotion and also sad that you are leaving your old job, or the friends at your old job.  In most circumstances, neither side is 100% correct.  There are pros and cons to both sides.  There are facts that are misunderstood or taken out of context on both sides.  Also, our emotions always enter into the arguments, and for good or bad, this makes us less objective.  

Our feelings for the people we are talking to or arguing with can get caught up in our feelings for what they are saying.  We can start to think that they are bad people just because we don’t like the things that they are saying. The day that this reading was given at the prayer group, the following word or prophecy was also given.  “What I hear the Lord saying to me is that whether you believe it, whether you like them, whether you understand them, God tells us to love them. Love them in their misunderstandings, love them, pray for them, don't be like them.”  I think this is important for us all to hear.  God is not asking us to just pray for those that we love or those that we agree with.  He is asking us to pray for everyone.  He is asking us to even pray for those that we don’t agree with and those we don’t like.  He is asking us to pray for those whom we don’t understand.  

I think in this verse God is explaining to us that everyone is at a different place in their journey.  He is saying to have mercy on everyone, but in very different ways.  He is saying to pray for everyone and to love everyone, but also he is warning us not to get so close that we become like those who do not follow God’s ways.  He says to “snatch them out of the fire,” but he also says “on others have mercy with fear,  abhorring even the outer garment stained by the flesh.”  To me, this means that some people we can save, with God’s help, and others we need to have mercy, and pray for them, but we need to be careful that we do not become like them.  I love how the word that was given this day was about how we needed to love everyone.  This is something that is so hard to do sometimes.  

Actually, all of this is hard to do most of the time.  It is hard to love someone who is saying and doing things that you don’t agree with.  Possible things that are hurting you or your loved ones.  It is hard to have mercy for people whom you feel are wrong in so many ways.  It is hard to have mercy for those who don’t seem to have any mercy themselves.  It is hard to pray for people who have caused you harm.  It’s hard to pray for people who seem so different, who seem like they don’t care about anyone or anything.  God understands that this is hard.  I believe this is why he started the verse with, “But you, beloved, build yourselves up in your most holy faith; pray in the holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in the love of God.”  

Have you ever been on an airplane before?  Before you take off, the flight attendant goes over all of the safety precautions.  One of the first things that they tell you is that if the cabin air pressure drops you oxygen masks will drop down from the  ceiling.  They warn you to put your mask on before you help someone else.  Why is this so important?  This is important because if you help others first, by the time you get around to helping yourself, you may not have the energy.  I believe this is similar to what God is telling us.  He is telling us to make sure that we are taking care of ourselves.  He is telling us to build ourselves up in our faith, to pray, and keep in the love of God.  This will fortify our faith and strengthen us so that we can go out and snatch others from the fire.  

If we are not keeping our faith strong, we may have great intentions to go out and to help others, and yet we find ourselves being pulled down instead.  God tells us to love others and to pray for them, but not to become like them.  This is a hard task.  It is difficult not to give in and become like others in the world today.  Especially if you are surrounded by sin in the world.  However, if you are strong in your faith, if you are praying and staying in God’s love, you will have all the strength you need to resist these temptations.  The next time you are in a situation with someone that you don’t agree with or that you feel is not a great person, remember that God is calling you to have mercy on them.  Instead of arguing with them, say a quick prayer for them.  The next time you pass by someone and you don’t understand them or what they are doing, instead of judging them, say a quick prayer for them.  We are all going through something.  We have no idea what someone else is going through, what experiences led them to where they are.  We need less judgment in this world and more understanding and love.  

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that you bless all those listening to this episode today.  We ask that you help us to have more mercy and grace for others.  We ask that you help us to judge less and seek to understand more.  Lord, we ask that you strengthen our faith and understanding.  We ask that you help us to stay in your love, so that we may be strong enough to offer love and mercy to others.  Lord, we ask that you help us to remember in the moment that we are your ambassadors of love and mercy.  The only experience that some people will have with you, Lord, is through us; help it to be a positive experience.  Help your love and mercy to shine through us! Father, we are so grateful for all you do for us.  We love you, and we ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’ holy name, Amen.

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God Has Compassion For You!

Isaiah 54:10 “For the mountains may depart, and the hills be removed, but my steadfast love shall not depart from you, and my covenant of peace shall not be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion on you.”

We received this scripture verse at the Watchmen Prayer Group that I go to on Wednesday mornings. It is at 6:30, and it lasts about half an hour. If you are up early in the morning and would like to start your day off praising the Lord and hearing what He has to tell us for the day, then let me know, and I can add you to the email list. It is a Zoom meeting, so no matter where you are, you can attend. Although if you are not in the Eastern time zone, it might be a bit too early. We do record it, though, so if it is too early, you could always get on the email list and then listen to the recording. I am telling you that it is a wonderful way to start your day.

Now back to the scripture. It begins with, “For the mountains may depart and the hills be removed, but my steadfast love will not depart from you.” There are a couple of nice things about that part. First, I think we all have some mountains that we wish would depart from our lives. Sure, we love it when we are on the mountain top. We love the high we get when we make it to the top of the mountain, and we can see all the land. We can see the sun rise or the sun set. We can see the valley, and we might even be able to understand a bit more about the valley when we are on the mountain top. However, wouldn’t it be great if we didn’t have to climb that mountain? I guess that is a good question. Would we wish away the mountain if it meant we didn’t have our mountain top moment?

As I was writing that last part, I felt the Holy Spirit stir inside of me. I felt like He prompted that last question. As I was writing about the experience at the top of the mountain, I realized that if we wished our mountains away, we wouldn’t get all the comes along with making it to the top of a mountain. There is so much that we gain from going through hard times. We gain perspective. We gain wisdom and knowledge. We gain perseverance and resilience. We learn so much about ourselves. We also learn so much about God if we are looking. I look back at all the really hard times that I have had, and I don’t think I would wish them away. They made me who I am today.

I have so much compassion for others because I received so much compassion when I needed it most. I do not judge people because I know what it is like to walk through hard times. I know what it is like to be doing your absolute best and still have children who act out. I know what it is like to try so hard to save your marriage and yet nothing works. I have been to enough events where other people share their stories to know that no matter what we look like on the outside, we are all going through something hard. We all have things in our lives that are hurting us. We all have thoughts in our heads that tell us we are not enough or we are not loved. We all have something that we are struggling with. I am a better person because of all the hard times I have been through.

What is great about this verse is that it says, even if our mountains do depart and the hills disappear, God’s steadfast love will not depart from you. This is amazing because if God is telling us that His steadfast love will not depart from us, then that means we have His steadfast love. This may seem like an obvious statement, and yet I am not sure we all knew this already. Did you know that God’s steadfast love is ALWAYS with you? Do you know what steadfast means? According to the internet, it means firmly loyal or constant; unswerving. It also means fixed or unchanging, and can also refer to fixed or unmovable. This is pretty awesome. Have you ever thought of God’s love that way? I hope you have, but I am guessing most of us haven’t.

I am not sure most of us spend much time thinking of God’s love at all. We probably spend most of our time thinking we are not worthy of God’s love. We listen to the lies our brain tells us about how we are sinners, and we aren’t worthy of God’s love. We have done so many terrible things in our lives that there is no way God could love us. We will be the first to tell others that God loves them no matter what, and yet we feel like we are the exception. God’s love just doesn’t extend to us. We are wrong.

Yes, we are sinners; that is not a lie. We all do things we aren’t proud of, and we all do things that aren’t in line with what God wants from us. And God loves us anyway. Just as our parents love us even though we mess up. Actually, not just like our parents because our parents’ love is flawed. We live in a broken world, and so even though we are all doing the best we can, we all fall short. However, God’s love is perfect. It is 100 % uncondiltional. We can mess up in the worst way, and He will still love us.

Let’s review that definition again. Steadfast love means firmly loyal or constant; unswerving. Constant and unswerving, did you hear that? That confirms just as the verse said, that God’s love never leaves us. It is constant. No matter what you have done, it is still there. You wake up with loads of regret over your drunken night last night, and God’s love is still there. You let down your loved ones, and you have no idea how to make it right. God’s love is still there. You cheat on your spouse, God’s love is still there. You fight with your kids, God’s love is still there. You disobey your parents, but God’s love is still there. You murder someone, God loves is still there. It is always there.

Steadfast love also means fixed or unchanging, and can also refer to fixed or unmovable. It is fixed or unchanging. Do you realize what this means? It means God’s love never changes. Not only does it never leave us, but it never changes. That means God doesn’t love us a lot when we are doing something good and loves us just a little when we mess up. He loves us for exactly who we are 100% of the time. We have all His love all the time. He loved us before we were even born, and the level of that love has never changed. It’s always there, it’s always full. It’s always amazing.

The verse ends with, “and my covenant of peace shall not be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion on you.” This is something that I feel I could talk forever about. Yet this episode is already getting a bit long. However, I didn’t want to not address it as I don’t think many of us know this. God’s covenant of peace shall not be removed. Did you know God made a covenant of peace with us? Did you know you have a covenant of peace with the Lord? You may wonder how this could be when you are so anxious or worried all the time. This is not the life God has planned for you. He does not want you to be worried and anxious all the time.

God tells us over and over again in the Bible to have no fear. He tells us He is our protector and our provider. Sometimes we can block that peace when we forget to turn to the Lord. Or when we focus so much on how big our problem is that we forget how big our God is. If we want the peace God has for us, then all we have to do is look for it. This verse said that his covenant of peace never leaves. It’s always there; we just forget sometimes. Or, we just can’t see it. If we look for peace, we will find it.

The very last thing the verse says is that the Lord has compassion for us. It is important that each one of us hears that. God has compassion for you. He is not judging you. He is not just waiting for you to screw up. He is not expecting you to screw up. He is not just waiting to punish you. God is rooting for you. He is on your side. He has compassion for you. He sees you. He sees you doing all you can to change. He knows your heart. He knows you. He sees you in ways you don’t see. Here me when I say, “God has compassion for you! He has a covenant of peace and steadfast love for you! He is rooting for you, and He is on your side!”

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless each person listening to this episode. Lord, we want to experience your steadfast love. Please help us. Please help heal and renew our hearts so we can accept the love and peace that you have for us. If there is anything we are doing to block that love or peace, please help us to realize it and to stop doing it. Help us to understand that you are for us, you are rooting for us, and you love us. We ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’s holy name, Amen.

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. If you’re ready to stop living your faith cautiously and start walking boldly with Jesus, I want to invite you into my Christian mentoring community. This is a space for women who love God but feel stuck, unsure, or tired of repeating the same patterns. Together we grow in confidence, learn to hear God’s voice, build strong spiritual habits, and step into who we truly are in Christ. If you’re ready to renew your faith and live with boldness through the power of the Holy Spirit, I’d love to walk with you. There is a link for mentoring in the show notes. I look forward to meeting with you again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you just asyou are, and so do I! God is on your side, and we are both rooting for you, always! Have a blessed day!

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “I have an image of the walls of Jericho, showing how the army marched around the walls of Jericho. And the Lord is saying, “You are the army that will walk around the walls of Jericho and break them down, and the enemy will be defeated. It is through prayer, through love. Because remember, I am love.”

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The Lord Rescues You From Them All!

Psalm 34:19 “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord rescues them from them all.”

I saw this verse, and I wanted to share it with you. In mentoring, we are learning how not take offense at things. In other words, how to not let things bother us as much. The beginning part of this verse is something that doesn’t really seem fair. It says, “Many are the afflictions of the righteous.” Why? Why do we have to suffer if we are righteous? Can’t God keep us from that? If we are following the Lord and we are doing all the things He wants us to do, why do we have to suffer?

Do you ever feel this way? Do you ever cry out to the Lord, asking why? Why me? Why now? Why my child or my loved one? Why, Lord, why? I know I have done this before. Actually, the question I find myself asking a lot is why this again? I thought we were over this or through this. Or I ask, when will this be over? How long do we need to stay stuck in this? I am sure you have asked the Lord similar questions.

We can fall into a trap of thinking that if we are righteous. If we follow the Lord, then our problems will all go away. Especially if we find Jesus at the bottom of a pit. If we are at our worst when we discover Jesus, then we think after finding Him, we are going to coast through life. Yes, we may hit some bumps, but the worst is over. I would love to tell you that it was always the case. I wish I could say once you find Jesus, you are home free. However, it says right in the verse, many are the afflictions of the righteous.

My parents always knew Jesus. There was never a time when they weren’t going to mass and spending time with the Lord. Even when they were in High School, dating, they would meet before school and go to mass together. I would think, with that kind of dedication, the Lord would bless them and protect them from harm, and yet they did not have a struggle-free life. They had 11 children, and my mom stayed home to watch the kids when they were little. With 11 children, someone is always little for at least the first 25 years or so. My dad had a pretty good-paying job, and yet we still struggled with money. There just is not enough to go around when you have 11 kids.

We not only struggled with money, but our family suffered many medical crises. Like when my grandfather’s throat was cut with a screwdriver by an intruder who wanted his money. My grandpa didn’t have any money. One sister had a fever for several days, and we were told that if it didn’t break by morning, she might not make it. I had a brother who was pulled through a machine in a factory that makes chicken wire. There were plenty of other illnesses and car crashes. I had a sister who loved the Lord, and then at college got swept up in a cult and has suffered severely over the years trying to recover from that. We have had divorces in our family.

I say all of this to let you know that no family is above troubles. You or your loved ones are not struggling because God is punishing them. God was not punishing my family, and He was not punishing Job in the Bible either. God is a good Father, and like all good Fathers, He sometimes allows us to suffer so that we can be stronger on the other side of it.

The second part of this verse is so important, and it is something we can’t forget. This verse does not just say that the righteous will have a lot of trouble and then end there. It goes on to say, “but the Lord rescues them from them all.” The Lord will rescue you from all your troubles. If He has not rescued you yet, He will. Keep waiting, keep seeking, keep asking. It will happen. God will not abandon you. Let me tell you some of the ways God rescued my family.

Whenever my parents were struggling financially, God took care of them. One time, they needed money for something, and they prayed about it and told God if He wanted them to do it, then He would need to provide the money, and the next day, they got a check in the mail for the exact amount. When they didn’t have food to feed us kids, they prayed, and a neighbor knocked on our door with groceries. When my dad’s car broke down, a neighbor gave my dad a car. My dad didn’t ask, He just gave it to him. When my grandpa was attacked and his throat was cut, he should have died. However, he not only made a full recovery, but the doctors said he healed in miraculous timing. My sister’s fever, which was so high, finally broke, out of the blue for no reason, the doctors said. But we know it was God! My brother, who was pulled through a machine that makes chicken why came through with only a shoulder injury. The Lord definitely rescued him. What about your life? Can you look back and see times in your life when the Lord has rescued you? Can you look back at times when you were homeless, and God found you a place to live? When you were sick, and God healed you? When you were scared, and God protected you?

I know it stinks that we have to go through afflictions. I know God could save us from them, and it is hard to see why He doesn’t. However, if we really think about it, we will see how it would not do us any good if He saved us from everything. I know you may have suffered a terrible affliction, the loss of a child, spouse, sibling, parent, or friend. I know it doesn’t make sense. I am not going to pretend to have all the answers, and I don’t know if I buy that everything happens for a reason. However, I do believe that God can use all things for our good. When I don’t understand what is going on. When I am stuck in the middle of a situation, and things look dark, I hold onto that promise. I talk to God about how much I can’t wait for him to use this awful situation for good. Even though I can’t see a way where he can, I know He can because there is nothing He can’t do! The Lord will rescue you!

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today. Lord, we ask you to help us turn to you in our afflictions. We ask you to rescue us, Lord, just as it says in this verse. Lord, it is hard to keep waiting for your rescue, especially when it is taking so long. We thank you for all that you do for us, and we are sorry if we get impatient while we wait. We ask for strength and perseverance to make it through all the afflictions that we have to go through. We ask for peace as well, Lord! We love you, and we ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’s holy name, Amen.

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. If today’s episode spoke to you, and you’ve been carrying hurt, resentment, or just feeling tired of holding everything together, I want you to know you don’t have to walk through that alone. I host a weekly mentoring community where we slow down, seek God together, and learn how to live lighter and freer in our faith. If your heart is longing for support, healing, or simply a safe place to grow, I’d love for you to join us. You can find the link in the show notes. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I. God is on your side, and we are both rooting for you! Have a blessed day.

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “Beauty can be seen with the eyes of the heart. And when I look at each of you, my children, I see beauty. I see with eyes that see clearly, distinctly, lovingly. I see you for who you truly are. And I am pleased with who you truly are, for you resemble Jesus, my Son, your Savior.”

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And They Laughed At Him

Mark 5:38-40 “When they came to the house of the leader of the synagogue, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. When he had entered, he said to them, “Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping.” And they laughed at him. Then he put them all outside, and took the child’s father and mother and those who were with him, and went in where the child was.”

We are back to the story of a little girl who was restored to life. Last week I replayed a devotional that my friend Catherine did on this Bible story. Then on Friday, I felt the Holy Spirit wanted me to focus on two other parts of the story. However, I only got to focus on one part on Friday. Today, we will finish up with this story. I really felt strongly that these verses were important enough that we shouldn’t gloss over them. I felt they were important enough to slow down and really examine what they are saying.

In case you missed last Tuesday and Friday and you don’t know this story, let me briefly fill you in. There was a synagogue leader whose daughter was dying. He asked Jesus to come and heal his daughter. Jesus was on his way when someone touched his garment and was healed. Jesus felt power leave his body and asked who touched Him. The lady confessed, and he told her that her faith had healed her. While he was talking to this lady, someone came and told the synagogue leader that his daughter had died, so there was no need to bother Jesus anymore. Jesus told the man, “Do not fear, only believe.” This is where today’s verse picks up.

Mark 5:38-40 says, “When they came to the house of the leader of the synagogue, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. When he had entered, he said to them, “Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping.” And they laughed at him.” When Jesus gets to the house, he asks everyone why they are crying and making a commotion. He tells them that the little girl is not dead; she is just sleeping. Then it says, “And they laughed at him.” This is the first thing that I want to focus on.

I get why they might have laughed. People were just beginning to know who Jesus was. They didn’t know Him as we know Him. They didn’t have the benefit of reading all the Gospels and hearing all the amazing things He did while He walked the earth. I am not sure if they had ever seen someone raised from the dead yet. They may have heard about Jesus's miracles, but many synagogue officials stayed away from Him because they weren’t sure what to think of Him.

What I want you to know is that people may laugh at you, too! If you intend to walk boldly with Jesus and you intend to step out and use the power of the Holy Spirit that is living inside of you, then people may laugh at you, too. If you offer to pray for someone’s healing, they may laugh and tell you that there is nothing you can do because the doctors said there is no hope. You may try to tell someone that with the power of the Holy Spirit, they can forgive the murderer who killed their loved one, and they may laugh at you. You may tell someone that even though you don’t know how, you have hope that God will provide them the money to pay their bills or the food to put on their table, and they may laugh at you. When this happens, I want you to remember that they laughed at Jesus, too.

When you are laughed at for your beliefs or for being bold and stepping out in faith to pray for amazing things, try not to take offense. They don’t know any better. They believe what this world is teaching. They are “drinking the kool-aid” so to speak of this world. They don’t have to believe what you are saying is true. They don’t have to believe to receive the healing. Remember in the Bible when those people lowered their friend down from the roof so that Jesus would heal him? Jesus said, their faith healed him. You can have enough faith for them. Do you know how I know it is true that the person being healed doesn’t have to have faith? Because Jesus raised people from the dead, and if you are dead, you don’t have faith, you don’t have anything, you are dead.

It is also not our job to try to convince people that what we believe is true. Jesus did not spend time talking with the people who laughed at Him. The next part of the verse is the second thing I want to focus on. It says, “Then he put them all outside, and took the child’s father and mother and those who were with him, and went in where the child was.” Jesus put all the non-believers outside while he prayed for this little girl. It is important to know that you can do this. If you are praying for healing for someone and you are surrounded by non-believers, or worse, people who are openly mocking you, it is ok to ask if you can have a few minutes alone with the person you are praying over. It is important that we block out all the negative voices, and that can be really hard to do at times.

I have a friend who was talking about how she had a loved one who died, and she was praying for the Lord to bring him back to life. She knew God could do it as He had done it before, and God is the same yesterday, today, and always. (Hebrews 13:8) If you have read about God doing something amazing in Scripture, then you know He can do that today, too. Isn’t that amazing! So, my friend was praying for God to bring her loved one back, but she had another family member in the room who didn’t believe that was possible. She said, looking back, she wished she had asked the other loved one to wait in the hall for a bit while she prayed.

You may never be praying for someone to be raised from the dead, although I hope you do someday, but that doesn’t mean you won’t be laughed at. This world is a crazy place right now. People might laugh just because they think it is crazy that you would believe in a “mysterious guy who lives in the sky and grants wishes.” This is something some have said to me before. Whatever it is they are laughing at you for, just remember, they laughed at Jesus, too! Also, remember how Jesus responded. He did not defend himself. He did not yell or get upset. He did not try to explain and reason with them. He just asked them to leave while he prayed, and then He let the power of God convert their hearts.

This is what we are being called to do as well. God doesn’t need us to defend our position. He doesn’t need us to convince anyone of His Power. God is the one who does the miracles, and he is the one who changes hearts. The best way we can point people to Jesus is by loving them. I would say it is that easy, but loving people who are laughing at us is not easy. So instead, I will say it is that simple. It is not complicated. Jesus told us that if we love God with all our hearts and we love our neighbors as we love ourselves, then we will fulfill all the commandments. Simple doesn’t mean easy, but it does mean that if we know what to do, we can practice it and get better and better at it. We can do this. If we want to live boldly, then we need to develop thicker skin. We need to learn that people are not rejecting us; they are rejecting Jesus, and they have been doing that since He was born. Jesus is tough. He can take it. We just need to learn not take offense and instead just love all people, even those who want to persecute us. It may not be easy, but it is definitely worth it. We will have so much more freedom when we learn not to care what others think of us and to only focus on what God thinks of what we are doing.

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening today. Lord, help us to be bold and step out in faith. Help us to be brave enough to ask those who are laughing at us to give us a few minutes alone while we pray. Help us to be strong enough to not let those who are mocking us or laughing at us derail us from the mission you have given us to walk boldly with Jesus. We love you so much, Lord, and we only want to do your will. Help us to keep our eyes focused on you! We ask all of this in accordance with Your Will and in Jesus’s Holy Name, Amen!

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember if you want to learn more about not taking offense to those who mock you, or to anyone really, check out mentoring! Being Unoffendable is the theme for this month and so far it has been really good. CLICK HERE for info on mentoring. You can also get one of the two books I have read that are both amazing. One is Unoffendable by Brent Hansen and the other one is called Bait of Satan by John Bevere. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow, Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I! God is on your side and we are both rooting for you! Have a blessed day!

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “My children, I dealt with much temptation in my earthly life. You read about it in the Gospels. Think about that when you are tempted. Daily, daily, daily, you are tempted. You are tricked into following something lesser than my wonderful word, than my wonderful love, than my forgiveness, my compassion. But I let these temptations come upon you to exercise you, so that you’re turning back to me in faith, your turning back to me in asking for my help, strengthens you, strengthens your love, and your ability to follow me in your human life. They are actually graces, although I know you don't like them. But I ask you to bear with them and to turn quickly to me, for I am ever ready, ever ready to be at your side.”

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Do Not Fear, Only Believe

Mark 5:35-36 “While he was still speaking, some people came from the leader’s house to say, “Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the teacher any further?” But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the leader of the synagogue, “Do not fear, only believe.”

I know we covered this story on Tuesday with the devotional that my friend Catherine wrote. However, I can’t help but think the Holy Spirit wanted me to focus on a different part of these verses. I felt strongly that I was supposed to go back and point out some things about this ending part of the story. So, let’s pick up at verse 35. It says, “While he was still speaking, some people came from the leader’s house to say, ‘Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the teacher any further?” But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the leader of the synagogue, “Do not fear, only believe.”

It is important that we hear this, not just with our ears, but with our hearts, minds, and souls. Jesus says, “Do not fear, only believe.” How many times have we been in a situation where we could have used Jesus sitting right there with us, or standing next to us, and telling us not to fear but only believe? This is the secret, people. This is what we need to know. The Lord mentions the word fear in the Bible over 300 times, depending on the version you are reading. God knows we are a fearful and anxious people, and he is trying to get us to understand that we don’t need to be fearful.

You might be thinking that surely there are some instances when fear is ok. When we should be afraid. However, when we can learn not to fear, no matter the circumstances, then we will truly be living a free and bold life. I think something that is important to know about our feelings vs. emotions. We often use them interchangeably. However, there is a difference. Emotions are our quick, instinctive response to something that happens. For example, someone comes up behind us, and we jump because we were startled. Our heart jumps when we hear a loud noise. We smile when our kids say something really cute. These are emotions; they are physical reactions in our body, and we can’t control these.

Feelings are different. Feelings are how we experience or interpret the emotion. This is what you have control over. You might not have control over your feelings right now, but you can have control over your feelings. Our feelings are based on the story we are telling ourselves. For instance, if someone is supposed to call you and they don’t, you may feel differently about that depending on what you are telling yourself. If you tell yourself he or she is probably busy and will call when they have time, you feel fine about the situation. If you are telling yourself he or she is ignoring you because he or she is mad for some unknown reason, then you will probably feel anxious and worried about the situation. If you tell yourself he or she must be hurt because they always call back, you will probably feel afraid in that situation. Do you see how the story you tell yourself is so important and is something you have control over?

The thing about the stories we tell ourselves is that they are just that, stories. We don’t know why the person hasn’t called us back, and we won’t know until they do. So we can never be sure whether what we tell ourselves is true. If this is the case, and either of those scenarios above could be true, then why wouldn’t we tell ourselves the one that serves us better? The one that gives us peace about the situation? I assure you that if they are mad or sick, there will be plenty of time to worry, be anxious, or be scared once you find out. Why waste time on it before you know it’s true?

Hopefully, all that made sense. I said all of that to show you that while you may not be able to control the emotion of fear in your life, you can certainly decide if you are going to allow the fear to stay or not. Jesus is telling us in this verse, and so many others in the Bible, not to fear. I know this sounds easier than it is, but it is possible to surrender your fear. It is possible to go through really hard things and yet not be fearful of the future. I know you might be skeptical, as you are probably going through some really hard times right now. I want to share with you some really hard times I went through, and although they were hard, I wasn’t afraid. I didn’t know how they would turn out, but I knew God was working and He would protect all those I cared about.

When my children were younger they were times when they were physically and verbally abusive to each other and to Tony and me. There were years when I would allow myself to be scared, and I would worry about the future. I would think that if they are hitting me, then they would hit their wife or their children. Then I learned how to turn those fears over to the Lord. I talked with God about my fears, and then I let them go. I changed the story that I told myself. If I ever started to feel scared about the future, I would consciously say to myself, “God’s got this. God uses all things for good. I don’t know how things will change. I don’t know when things will change. But I know that God is a good, good father, and He is in control of this situation. When I ask, he answers, and I have asked plenty, so all is good.” This may sound too simple, but I assure you it works. If you change your story, you change your feelings.

Sometimes things can be simple but not easy. This is one of those things. It is a simple concept to change your story, but it is not a simple practice. Most of our thoughts are subconscious. We don’t know we are thinking them, we just feel the emotion. If you want to take control of your feelings, you have to stop when you get angry, worried, anxious, or scared and ask, “What am I telling myself right now?” It takes time to learn to do this, but I promise you it is a game-changer once you do. Imagine how much more peace you would have if you could release all the anger, fear, and anxiety you have by changing the story you are telling yourself.

In case you want another example of something really hard that I was able to go through without fear, let me share one more with you. When my son was 16 years old, he overdosed a few times. Eventually, he had to go into rehab and miss his whole Junior year of high school. It would have been easy to be scared for his future. It would have been easy to go down the fear path of all the what-ifs. I can honestly tell you that I was at peace with it all. Now, that doesn’t mean I wasn’t sad, and I didn’t miss him. It does mean that I wasn’t full of fear, and I didn’t ask myself any “what-ifs.” I knew with 100% certainty that God was in this whole situation and that even though I didn’t know how or when this situation would end, I knew it would end. I know God would use it for good. That this was not the end of my son’s story. I knew my son would have an amazing testimony whenever he made it through all of this.

Jesus told a man who thought his daughter had just died not to be afraid, but to believe. He is telling you and me that, too. He is telling us that things aren’t what they seem, and we just need to believe, even if it makes no sense to believe. God can do amazing things. He can do things that we can’t even imagine. Keep trusting. Keep believing. Hope in the Lord does not disappoint. (Romans 5:5) Change the story you are telling yourself. Change the questions you ask. Instead of all the bad what-ifs. What if he dies? What if his life is ruined? What if he is never the same? Change it to What if God saves him? What if God delivers him from this addiction? What if he is healed? What if my spouse comes home? How could changing the story you are telling yourself, and changing the what-ifs from negative questions to positive ones, change your life?

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today. Lord, you are amazing. You are so good, and we want to have no fear and to believe. Please help us! Help us to change our stories. Help us to take captive our thoughts. Please help us to remember that you are all-powerful and you use all things for our good. We love you, Lord, and we ask this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’s holy name, Amen!

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. I am surprised at where the Holy Spirit took me this morning with this devotional, as it was not the topic I thought I would be teaching about. However, I know there was a reason, and one of you really needed to hear this message today. Someone needed to know that they can take control of the feelings they have been having. I look forward to meeting you here again on Monday. Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I! God is on your side and we are both rooting for you! Have a blessed day!

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “Arise, arise, arise. You are my shining lights. Fear not. Even in this present darkness, you have nothing to fear as you align with me and my good plans for you, your family, and your nation. Arise and shine, my beloved ones.”

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Why We So Often Feel Justified—and Why Anger Steals Our Peace

1 Peter 2:23 “When he was abused, he did not return abuse; when he suffered, he did not threaten; but he entrusted himself to the one who judges justly.”

Offense usually begins with something real, but staying offended slowly costs us our freedom.

When we’re offended, it’s not because we’re imagining things. Someone said something hurtful. Someone dismissed us. Someone didn’t see us, respect us, or protect us the way they should have. Our bodies react before our faith does. That reaction—tightness, anger, defensiveness—feels justified because it is trying to protect us. The problem isn’t that offense shows up. The problem is what happens when we let it stay.

Offense convinces us that holding onto anger is necessary for self-respect, safety, or justice. It whispers, “If I let this go, I’m saying it didn’t matter.” But over time, instead of protecting us, offense begins to imprison us. It narrows our thinking, drains our peace, and keeps us emotionally tied to the very thing that hurt us.

Today, I invite us to gently notice this pattern without shame. Not to rush into forgiveness. Not to minimize pain. Just to ask an honest question:
Is what I’m holding onto actually helping me live free?

Jesus never promised that we wouldn’t be hurt. But He did promise freedom—freedom from bitterness, from constant reactivity, and from carrying wounds longer than necessary. Jesus reminds us:

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)  

And He also promises:

“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)

Today isn’t about fixing anything or forcing forgiveness. It’s about awareness—learning to notice how offense quietly operates in our hearts and recognizing that something can feel justified even when it doesn't actually lead us toward peace or life. When we’re hurt, our body reacts first. Before we can think theologically or spiritually, our nervous system scans for danger. A sharp tone, a dismissive comment, or a betrayal registers as a threat, and anger shows up quickly because it’s one of the body’s built-in protection responses. Anger creates energy. It gives us clarity. It helps us draw boundaries. In that sense, it *feels* helpful.

This is why offense feels justified. Anger convinces us that we’re doing something necessary—that we’re standing up for ourselves, protecting our dignity, or guarding our hearts. It often feels morally right, especially when real harm has occurred. We tell ourselves, *“I’m not just upset—I’m right.”* And because something truly wrong may have happened, that belief can feel deeply convincing.

But what the book *Unoffendable* by Brent Hansen gently reveals is that feeling justified is not the same as becoming free. Anger is excellent at getting our attention, but it’s terrible at leading us toward peace. When we hold onto it, anger doesn’t just respond to the moment—it begins to shape our inner world. It keeps our minds alert and our hearts guarded. We replay what happened, brace for future harm, and stay emotionally on edge. Over time, that vigilance becomes exhausting.

This is how anger tightens its grip on our peace. What started as a moment of protection turns into a posture of defensiveness. Instead of resting, we stay watchful. Instead of trusting, we stay reactive. And slowly, without realizing it, offense begins to occupy more space in our thoughts, prayers, and relationships than we ever intended.

Letting go feels risky because anger has convinced us it’s keeping us safe. Releasing it can feel like saying the hurt didn’t matter—or like leaving ourselves unprotected. But Jesus offers a different way. He never framed righteousness as reacting quickly or holding onto offense. He modeled righteousness as trust, surrender, and love rooted in truth rather than impulse. He promises that we don’t need to carry the weight of offense to be whole. “When he was abused, he did not return abuse; when he suffered, he did not threaten; but he entrusted himself to the one who judges justly.”  (1 Peter 2:23)

I am not asking us to deny pain or rush forgiveness. I simply invite us to ask an honest question: **Is what feels right actually leading me toward life and peace—or is it quietly becoming a prison?**

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today. Help us to look at our own lives and see where offense might be keeping us prisoners. Helps us to notice where anger might have been justified at first, and now holding onto that anger is just hurting us. Help us to see why it itsn’t helpful to keep replaying the hurt that we felt over and over again in our minds. Help us to let go, Lord. Help us to forgive. We ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus’s holy name, Amen.

Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. If you are interested in learning more about how to go through life being Unoffendable, I invite you to join the mentoring this month. I will be exploring the main concepts of the book Unoffendable by Brent Hansen. It is a really good book that explains how much more peace and freedom we will have in our lives when we learn how to be unoffendable. CLICK HERE to check out mentoring. It is just $25 a month if you join this week. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I! God is on your side, and we are both rooting for you, always! Have a blessed day.

Today’s Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email [email protected]. Today’s Word from the Lord is, “Sometimes I have to remind you because I see you slipping, and I won't allow you to fall. I will steady you. I will return your balance to you. When the world is encroaching, when the world is pressing in on you, I'm right there. I’m right there.”

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