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In this hilarious episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the wild world of therapy—whether you wanted it or not! 🤪 Ever wondered who had therapy forced upon them? Spoiler alert: one of our hosts was committed! 

Join us as Lacey and Heather share their most memorable therapy moments, the highs and lows of their mental health journeys, and the laugh-out-loud antics surrounding Heather's unwilling commitment. That's right—while trying to navigate grief, Heather found herself in a place she never thought she'd be, and Lacey heroically plotted a great escape (don’t worry, it was just grief, not insanity!). 😅

From awkward therapy sessions to breakthrough realizations, this episode is packed with relatable stories, plenty of laughs, and a healthy dose of sisterly love. So, grab your headphones and get ready to join the fun as we explore the quirks of seeking help and how sometimes, you have to laugh to heal! Tune in now!

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In this episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather are thrilled to welcome a very special guest—Lacey’s sister, Jennifer! Get ready for a brand-new segment called "I Have Notes," where Jennifer dives into the juicy details that we've overlooked—perhaps on purpose!—in our previous stories. It seems Lacey has a talent for telling slightly different versions to each of us!

Prepare for a lively conversation as Heather and Jennifer compare notes on Lacey’s string of horrible first dates and her boundary-bending encounters with men she definitely shouldn't be seeing. With plenty of fun nicknames, loads of laughs, and some outrageous anecdotes, this episode is a delightful blend of sisterly love and unforgettable moments that you won’t want to miss! Tune in for the fun!

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In this humorous episode of We Are Not the Same, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the ultimate showdown: high maintenance versus low maintenance! Are you the type who spends hours curating the perfect wardrobe, flaunting stylish shoes, and savoring gourmet meals, or do you prefer rocking that no-makeup look while living off takeout and comfy sweats?

Join us as we dissect the colorful spectrum of maintenance. What really qualifies as high maintenance in the world of clothes, shoes, and food? Is it all about the latest trends and artisanal cuisine, or can you strut your stuff in a killer outfit—sans the makeup—and still look fabulous? 

From fashion faux pas to culinary conundrums, we’ll share our own struggles, triumphs, and laugh-worthy tales about navigating these maintenance levels. Together, we’ll explore if being high maintenance is a badge of honor or just a recipe for chaos—and if low maintenance is the true path to peace!

So, grab your comfiest sweats, kick back, and get ready for a fun and relatable conversation about the choices we make and the fabulous lives we lead—no makeup required! 

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In this riveting episode of We Are Not the Same, we delve into the high-stakes courtroom drama surrounding Johnny Bravo. Charged with eight counts of stealing and trafficking Heather's stolen property, Johnny has perplexingly entered a plea of not guilty, after admitting to the detectives he in fact committed the crime, all the while squeezed into a too-tight borrowed suit. Karma appears to be catching up with him as his once-charming looks have sharply diminished. Join us as we explore if being held accountable will finally halt Johnny's manipulative antics towards women and children. With engaging discussions and insights, we aim to uncover the deeper narratives behind this scandalous saga. Tune in for an our characteristic humor as we unravel the fallout from Johnny's actions!

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How do you honor a life lost in a split-second heroic act? Together with my best friend Laci, we unravel the deeply personal story of becoming a widow—a side of my life I've seldom shared. We journey back to the fateful day of June 26th, 2020, when an unforeseen river tragedy forever altered the course of my life. Through candid and unscripted dialogue, we confront the raw emotions of grief and emphasize the profound lesson life’s unpredictability imparts: Cherish every moment with those you love.

As we recount the events of a river rescue gone tragically awry, we also reflect on the societal judgments and misconceptions that emerge in the wake of such incidents. We celebrate the selflessness that earned recognition from the Carnegie Hero Memorial and share the collective experience of grief and gratitude for survival. This narrative is not just about loss but also about the enduring power of love and the strength that arises from shared hardships.

In the aftermath of loss, navigating life with intention becomes paramount. I share how creating meaningful memories with my children, embracing new experiences, and finding therapeutic outlets in bodybuilding have been transformative. Parenting alone brings unique challenges, yet support from family and friends has been crucial. I discuss treatments I found beneficial, such as ketamine therapy, to heal and grow. Join us in this heartfelt conversation about resilience, vulnerability, and the healing journey through trauma and friendship.

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In this episode of We Are Not The Same, join hosts Lacey and Heather as they dive into the wild saga of Johnny Bravo's fall from grace! 😲 Hear Heather's firsthand account of being ensnared in his con and how the Spokane PD delivered some serious justice! 🚓✨ But hold on—there's more! Stick around for part two where we unveil fresh updates that’ll keep your head spinning!

Get ready for an engaging ride filled with laughs, lessons, and unexpected twists! 

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Ever felt like you’re rudely snatched back and forth by someone’s romantic whims, much like an erratic yo-yo? Meet our latest Hall of Fame inductee, 'Yo-Yo,' whose oscillating behavior is both bewildering and oddly amusing. We unpack these yo-yo antics with laughter and share our guilty pleasure for gossip, hinting at a potential new segment inspired by Reddit's "Am I the Asshole?" There's a lot to learn from these red-flag-filled tales, and we're here to ensure you recognize them before finding yourself entangled in similar chaos.

Relationships today are a complex playground, teeming with breadcrumbing and the murky waters of situationships. Through our own tales and those of others, we explore how personal growth, open communication, and a keen awareness of boundaries can help navigate these turbulent waters. Whether it’s friendships blending into romance or managing unaligned expectations, we reflect on the importance of honesty and setting boundaries, while still managing to keep the humor alive as we recount our own misadventures.

Accidental flirtations and unintended signals are just part of the chaotic charm of modern relationships, and our stories prove it. We share all this and more, emphasizing the importance of owning up to one's role in relationship dynamics. With anecdotes spanning mistaken mail mishaps to chaotic yet empowering moments of self-reliance, we spotlight the balance of authenticity and humor in the digital dating age.

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Get ready for some jaw-dropping revelations in this episode of We Are Not the Same! Join Heather and Lacey as Lacey spills the tea on her rollercoaster ride involving secret love children that could rival any soap opera plot!  From an engagement shattered by the unexpected news of hidden kids to navigating the hilarious—and sometimes awkward—moments that arise when life throws you curveballs, Lacey shares her wild journey. With a mix of laughs and heartfelt moments, she opens up about her coping strategies and whether avoiding these surprise family members is on her to-do list. Tune in for a chuckle-worthy exploration of love, secrets, and the chaos that comes with it! 

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In this eye-opening episode, hosts Heather and Lacey dive deep into the world of "Pick-Me Girls." What drives some women to seek validation at the expense of others? Are they truly just trying to fit in, or is there more beneath the surface?  

Get ready for candid discussions, personal stories, and thought-provoking insights as we explore the dynamics of women supporting women vs. the allure of male approval. We’ll also unpack the impact of this phenomenon on friendships and self-esteem. 

Join us as we challenge the stereotypes, deconstruct the negative labels, and empower each other to embrace authenticity. It's time to rise above the validation vultures and celebrate our true selves!

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In this hilariously unsettling episode of We Are Not The Same, your favorite hosts Lacey and Heather dive into their wildest (and most awkward) stalking stories! From weird messages that make you cringe to surprising encounters with former crushes, they've got tales that’ll make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even check your closet. 

Join the duo as they explore the bizarre behavior of stalkers and share their own outrageous experiences in the darkest corners of the dating world. Expect laughter, outrageousness, and some seriously questionable life choices! 

Get ready to discover that sometimes the shadows are just figuring out their punchlines! Tune in for the laughs, stay for the lessons.

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