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  • Episode 22: The Energy of Empathy with Michael Evans

    In this episode I talk to Michael Evans about empathy, what it is and how it works. We also talk about our feelings, why dads are the MOST emotional, and develop our new brand… the Baptist Buddha!

    Guest Plug

    • Empathy & Podcast - http://www.empathyand.com/
    • Show Notes

      • Ten Percent Happier Podcast: Kryptonite for the Inner Critic, Kristin Neff, PhD - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/209-kryptonite-for-inner-critic-self-compassion-series/id1087147821?i=1000453700663
      • Self Compassion - https://self-compassion.org/
      • The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown - https://youtu.be/iCvmsMzlF7o
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        Special Guest: Michael Evans.

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        1 hr 4 min
      • Episode 21: All About Sex with Julie Jeske

        Lucas talks with sex therapist Julie Jeske about how to talk about sex, why it's so difficult, and what the BDSM kink community can teach all of us about how to improve our relationships!

        Guest Plugs

        • Julie Jeske - http://juliejeske.com 
        • Swoon Podcast - https://www.therapyden.com/blog/swoon
        • Show Notes

          • Therapy Den - http://therapyden.com
          • The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/72834.Guide_to_Getting_It_On
          • Becoming Clitorate by Dr. Laurie Mintz - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/31448995-becoming-cliterate
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            Special Guest: Julie Jeske.

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            1 hr 1 min
          • Episode 20: Immigration with Anali Looper

            Lucas talks to immigration lawyer Anali Looper about why people migrate to other countries, myths about immigration, and we get down and dirty with the nitty-gritty details of the immigration system.

            Guest Plug

            • American Gateways - http://www.americangateways.org/
            • Show Notes

              • Southern Poverty Law Center Teaching Tolerance Curriculum - https://www.tolerance.org/about
              • Migration Policy Institute - https://www.migrationpolicy.org/
              • Immigration Resource Center- https://www.migrationusa.org/
              • National Immigration Law Center - https://www.nilc.org/
              • Neighbor to Neighbor South Bend - https://n2nsb.com/
              • Immigration Advocates Directory - https://www.immigrationadvocates.org/nonprofit/legaldirectory/
              • The Mind Online Podcast - https://www.tolerance.org/podcasts/the-mind-online
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                Special Guest: Anali Looper.

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                54 min
              • Episode 19: The Curiosity Hour with Tommy Estlund

                In this episode I talk to Tommy Estlund about his podcast the Curiosity Hour, how we know when to block or unfriend someone, and why we don’t want to be like Marty McFly.

                Guest Plugs

                • The Curiosity Hour Podcast - http://thecuriosityhourpodcast.com 
                • Tommy Estlund on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thomas.estlund
                • Show Notes:

                  • Sea lioning - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning
                  • Foreign Policy Article about the Counterinsurgency Manual in Iraq and Afghanistan - https://foreignpolicy.com/2009/10/01/counterinsurgency-field-manual-afghanistan-edition/
                  • Conversations with People Who Hate Me Podcast - https://www.dylanmarron.com/podcast
                  • Stamped From the Beginning by Ibram X. Kendi - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25898216-stamped-from-the-beginning
                  • Ibram X. Kendi - https://www.ibramxkendi.com/
                  • Seeing White Podcast - https://www.sceneonradio.org/seeing-white/
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                    Special Guest: Tommy Estlund.

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                    56 min
                  • Episode 18: Unschooling with Pam Larrichia

                    Lucas talks to Pam Larrichia about unschooling, awkward conversations about parenting, and ways we can work on connecting more with our kids and each other.

                    Show Notes

                    • Living Joyfully with Unschooling - https://livingjoyfully.ca/ 
                    • Exploring Unschooling Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/exploring-unschooling/id1074379805 
                    • Find Local Unschooling groups through Sue Patterson's website - https://unschoolingmom2mom.com/find-local-groups/
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                      Special Guest: Pam Laricchia.

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                      57 min
                    • Episode 17: Addicted to Hating Your Enemies with Geoff Holsclaw

                      In this episode I talk with Geoff Holsclaw about why Facebook arguments are like heroin, understanding the ways our brains work, and when we should have enemies.

                      Guest Plugs

                      • Geoff Holsclaw - http://geoffreyholsclaw.net
                      • The God With Us Podcast - http://geoffreyholsclaw.net/the-god-with-us-podcast/
                      • Does God Really Like Me? By Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw- https://www.ivpress.com/does-god-really-like-me
                      • Show Notes

                        • The Neuroscience of Breaking Out of Negative Thinking (and How to Do It in Under 30 Seconds) https://www.inc.com/nate-klemp/try-this-neuroscience-based-technique-to-shift-your-mindset-from-negative-to-positive-in-30-seconds.html
                        • The Anatomy of the Soul by Curt Thompson - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8162755-anatomy-of-the-soul
                        • The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24043208-the-soul-of-shame
                        • Dr. Dan Siegel - https://www.drdansiegel.com/books/the_developing_mind/
                        • Getting Past Your Past - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11974141-getting-past-your-past
                        • Jim Wilder and Life Model Works - https://lifemodelworks.org/
                        • Prayer of Examen - https://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ignatian-prayer/the-examen/how-can-i-pray/
                        • Centering Prayer and Inner Awakening by Cynthia Bourgeault - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7583.Centering_Prayer_and_Inner_Awakening
                        • Gratitude Journal - https://positivepsychology.com/gratitude-journal/
                        • Enneagram - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enneagram_of_Personality
                        • Swoon - https://www.therapyden.com/blog/swoon
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                          Special Guest: Geoff Holsclaw.

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                          1 hr 7 min
                        • Episode 16: Addiction and Recovery with Christina Gibson

                          Just a couple notes before this episode. This episode talks about addiction and recovery. We don’t dwell a lot on trauma, but we do mention some of the painful things that are often connected to it such as suicide and sexual assault. They are only briefly mentioned as examples of trauma, but I wanted to let you know that ahead of time  in case those things are difficult to hear.

                          Also we had some technical issues and lost her three things at the end of the episode. Sorry Chris!

                          In this episode I talk to Christina Gibson about normalizing addiction and recovery, sitting with other people’s pain, and why I edit my podcast and she doesn’t.

                          Guest Plugs

                          • The Roundabout Way Podcast - https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-roundabout-way
                          • Show Notes

                            • In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/617702.In_the_Realm_of_Hungry_Ghosts
                            • Johann Hari -  https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong
                            • Braving The Wilderness by Brene Brown - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34565022-braving-the-wilderness
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                              Special Guest: Christina Gibson.

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                              1 hr
                            • Episode 15: Beyond Shame with Matthias Roberts

                              Lucas talks to Matthias Roberts about his new book Beyond Shame. Lucas also confesses that Matthias is his style guru and he has been stealing his haircut for years!

                              Guest Plugs

                              • Matthias Roberts - https://matthiasroberts.com
                              • Pre-Order and email receipt to [email protected] for bonus content and access to a course with Linda Cline and Matthias Roberts
                              • Beyond Shame - http://www.beyondshamebook.com/
                              • Show Notes

                                • Q Christian Fellowship - https://www.qchristian.org/
                                • Brene Brown - https://brenebrown.com/
                                • Linda Kay Kline - https://lindakayklein.com/
                                • Swoon - https://www.therapyden.com/blog/swoon
                                • Say More About That - https://www.therapyden.com/blog/say-more-about-that
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                                  Special Guest: Matthias Roberts.

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                                  48 min
                                • Episode 14: Better Conversations with C. Christopher Smith

                                  In this episode I talk to C. Christopher Smith about what he has learned from over a decade of intentional conversations in his church, different ways to make our conversations better, and I solve the mystery of his first initial.

                                  Guest Plugs

                                  • C. Christopher Smith - http://c-christopher-smith.com
                                  • How the Body of Christ Talks by C. Christopher Smith - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43193118-how-the-body-of-christ-talks
                                  • The Englewood Review of Books - http://englewoodreview.org/
                                  • Show Notes

                                    • Christian Century Article- https://www.christiancentury.org/article/critical-essay/becoming-a-neighborhood-church
                                    • Stone-Campbell movement - https://www.discipleshistory.org/history/brief-history-stone-campbell-tradition
                                    • Restoration Movement - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restoration_Movement
                                    • Encountering Silence Podcast - https://encounteringsilence.com/ World Cafe - http://www.theworldcafe.com/key-concepts-resources/world-cafe-method/
                                    • Appreciative Inquiry - https://www.centerforappreciativeinquiry.net/more-on-ai/the-generic-processes-of-appreciative-inquiry/
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                                      Special Guest: C. Christopher Smith.

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                                      1 hr 3 min
                                    • Episode 13: Oriented to Faith with Tim Otto

                                      Lucas talks to author Tim Otto about being gay in Christian community, what we're afraid of, and finding love in all kinds of places!

                                      Guest Plugs

                                      • Oriented to Faith by Tim Otto - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22812306-oriented-to-faith
                                      • Show Notes

                                        • Church of the Sojourners - https://churchofthesojourners.org/
                                        • Christian Intentional Community Handbook by David Janzen - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13592402-the-intentional-christian-community-handbook
                                        • The Friendship Factor: How to Get Closer to the People You Care for by Alan Loy McGinnis - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48664.The_Friendship_Factor
                                        • The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haight - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11324722-the-righteous-mind
                                        • Taize Community - https://www.taize.fr/en
                                        • Saint Therese of Liseux - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Th%C3%A9r%C3%A8se_of_Lisieux
                                        • Centering Prayer - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Centering_prayer
                                        • Oriented to Love - https://www.evangelicalsforsocialaction.org/oriented-to-love/
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                                          59 min

                                        About We Don't Talk About That

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                                        The podcast where we talk about things we're not supposed to, learn how to have difficult conversations, and talk to people about what makes them different.