An inside look: a LIVE on-air coaching session. Foster and Cesar built a relationship on their own terms, and now they spill all the sticky parts of opening their relationship with the help of relationship coach and non-monogamy educator Ally Iseman. This is a rare, real-time look at what navigating consensual non-monogamy actually feels like from the inside. Ally guides them through the emotional terrain of being in an open relationship, giving practical tools and anchor behaviors along the way. For anyone in a non-monogamous OR monogamous relationship, this episode is a masterclass in conscious partnership and emotional intelligence. 

In this episode they explore: 

• What happens when one partner is sexually active outside the relationship, and the other isn't?
• Foster’s deep fear of disappointing Cesar
• The difference between equality and equity in a relationship — and why it matters
• A new practice that Foster and Cesar put to use right away

Ally Iseman, CRC: 

• What is your relationship style? Take the quiz! 
• Passport 2 Pleasure
• IG: @allyiseman or @passport2pleasure

Listen to Part 1 of our conversation with Ally Iseman here: Opening Your Relationship the Right Way with Ally Iseman (Pt. 1). You can also watch the episodes on YouTube.

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Created & Hosted by: Cesar Cardona and Foster Wilson

Executive Producer: Glenn Milley

Editor: Bessie Fong

Special Guest: Ally Iseman, CRC

This episode is brought to you by Jamaal Pittman. You can donate to his scholarship at WheelerScholarship.com, supporting college enrollment.

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