Content Warning: This episode includes open discussions of self-harm, eating disorders, domestic violence, and strong language. Please listen with care, and honour your capacity. If today isn't the day, this conversation will be here when you're ready.
There's a dangerous myth buried deep in the soil of the creative world—one that tells us greatness demands our suffering. That if we're not willing to bleed for our art, then we're not real artists at all.
In this raw and unflinching episode, we dismantle that lie.
Sarah opens a tender and powerful conversation about the two extremes so many creatives are pulled between: • The artist who sacrifices everything, losing herself in pursuit of brilliance. • The woman who silences her creative voice, building a life with no room for art—and feeling the ache of that absence every single day.
Both choices take a toll. Both distort the truth.
Inside this episode: • The toxic cultural conditioning around artistic martyrdom • How denying your creative nature is its own form of slow self-abandonment • Sarah's personal story of navigating both extremes—and what it took to come home • The quiet burnout of creatives who live in service of others' art, while starving their own • A reframing of art not as a demand, but as a sacred relationship—one that asks for care, presence, and space to breathe
This is not an easy listen. But it is a necessary one.
For the artist who has been told to suffer. For the woman who's forgotten how to choose herself. For the soul that longs to create—not from sacrifice, but from sovereignty.
→ There is another way. And you're allowed to choose it.
If this conversation resonates— There are gentle, joy-filled resources waiting for you at RockwoodAlchemy.com. Whether you're in a season of stillness or full creative ignition, there's something there to meet you. To nourish your path. To remind you that your art—and your life—deserve to feel good.
Your creativity is not a weapon to be used against yourself. It's a whisper, a rhythm, a remembering. Come back to it, on your own terms.