We Read Smut: Bookish Conversations for Romance Readers

Reading slumps can happen to even the most passionate book lovers, leaving you feeling unmotivated and disconnected from your favorite stories. In this season finale episode, podcast host Alesia dives deep into understanding reading slumps and provides practical strategies to reignite your reading passion. 

Key Takeaways:

Recognize Common Causes of Reading Slumps

• Stress and burnout 
• Information overload 
• Life transitions
• Disappointment with previous reads

Effective Strategies to Overcome Reading Slumps

• Take a short break from reading
• Set realistic reading goals 
• Change your reading environment 
• Explore different genres and book formats 
• Connect with other readers

Don't let a reading slump discourage you. Remember, reading should be enjoyable, not a chore. Give yourself permission to explore, experiment, and most importantly, have fun with your reading journey.

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What makes historical romance more than just bodice-ripping stories? Historical romance is a genre far more complex and diverse than many readers realize. Far from being limited to Regency-era England and stereotypical duke narratives, this genre offers rich storytelling that explores complex social dynamics, personal growth, and diverse experiences across different time periods and cultures.

Clare from @UnsuccessfulBookClub is a life-long bookworm with a penchant for science fiction, fantasy, and romance. She has recently developed a deep interest in historical romance. When she isn't reading, she enjoys cooking, eating, and taking her children to soccer games, often while neglecting her laundry.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• How historical romance spans multiple eras, from medieval times to the 1970s
• Ways the genre has evolved to include diverse representation, including LGBTQ+ and characters of color
• How modern historical romances tackle important themes like consent, social justice, and personal empowerment
• How some authors like Beverly Jenkins and Alyssa Cole are transforming the genre with nuanced, inclusive storytelling
• Ways that tropes like marriage of convenience and forbidden love add depth and tension to historical narratives

Join the "Queering Historical Romance" challenge in June and discover the incredible diversity of historical romance. Follow @UnsuccessfulBookClub on Instagram for recommendations and start your journey into this dynamic genre today!

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

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Morning Glory Milking Farm by C.M. Nascosta (Amazon)

Lisa Kleypas (Amazon)

Jilie Anne Long (Amazon)

The Flame and the Flower by Kathleen Woodiwiss (Amazon)

A Lady for a Duke by Alexis Hall (Amazon)

Spindle Cove Series by Tessa Dare (Amazon)

Desperate Duchesses by Eloisa James (Amazon)

The Brothers Sinister by Courtney Milan (Amazon)

Worth Saga by Courtney Milan (Amazon)

A Notorious Vow by Joanna Shupe (Amazon)

A Shore Thing by Joanna Lowell (Amazon)

A Caribbean Heiress in Paris by Adriana Herrera (Amazon)

Desire by Amanda Quick (Amazon)

Surrender My Love by Johanna Lindsey (Amazon)

Hold Fast by Eliza MacArthur (Amazon)

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Are You Healing from Purity Culture? Purity culture can leave deep emotional scars that impact our understanding of sexuality, relationships, and self-worth. In this powerful episode, sexuality educator Lauren Elise Rogers joins us to explore how individuals can reclaim their sexual identity and find healing through the transformative power of erotic imagination.

Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator, Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, and the founder of Sex Ed For You, where she provides clear, compassionate, and comprehensive guidance on intimacy, relationships, and sexual health. 

Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like: Long-Term Partnerships, Purity Culture Obstacles, Consensual Non-Monogamy, Life Transitions, Mismatched Libido, & LGBTQIA+ issues. Despite growing up in "Purity Culture," where dating and physical intimacy were forbidden, Lauren now proudly centers agency and autonomy in her redemptive love story with her partner.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Sexual fantasies are a normal and healthy way to explore your desires safely, with women typically placing themselves at the center of their erotic imagination.
• Purity culture creates harmful beliefs that tie personal worth to sexual purity, limiting individual sexual expression and self-understanding.
• Erotic literature can be a powerful tool for sexual healing, allowing individuals to explore fantasies and understand their core erotic themes without judgment.
• Communication with partners about sexual fantasies and desires can strengthen relationships and create deeper intimacy.
• Parents play a crucial role in sex education, and addressing personal sexual shame is essential to providing healthy guidance for children.
• Solo sexual exploration is a valuable journey of self-discovery that can help individuals understand their desires and build sexual confidence.
• The four core erotic themes (longing, prohibition, power dynamics, and overcoming ambivalence) can help people understand their unique sexual preferences.

Your sexual journey is uniquely yours. Start reclaiming your narrative today by exploring literature that speaks to your experiences, and remember: healing is a personal, powerful process of self-discovery and liberation.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

Lauren on the Pleasure in the Pause Podcast

The Erotic Mind By Jack Morin (Amazon)

Ep 9 - Asexuality, Aromanticism, and the Spectrum of Identity with Margherita Scialla

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In the bookish space, readers tend to incorrectly categorize Black stories. It’s important that we understand the differences between genres and subgenres of Black literature. Join us for an great conversation with Aniya, known as the Well Read Pharmacist, as we break down the nuanced world of urban fiction, urban romance, Black contemporary romance, and urban erotica.

Aniya, also known as The Well Read Pharmacist, is a pharmacist and avid reader from New Orleans, Louisiana. She loves escaping into a good book, especially within the romance and thriller genres!

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Urban Fiction vs. Urban Romance: Learn the critical differences between these often-confused genres
• Discover why not all Black books are "urban" and why that matters
• Explore recommended authors across urban fiction, romance, and erotica subgenres
• Understand the importance of reading diverse Black literature
• Get insider recommendations from a passionate book lover and pharmacist

Expand your reading horizons by exploring these rich, diverse genres. Challenge your assumptions, support Black authors, and dive into stories that represent complex, multifaceted Black experiences. 

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

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The Coldest Winter Ever by Sister Souljah (Amazon)

Carl Weber (Amazon)

Nikki Clarke (Amazon)

Vickie M. Stringer (Amazon)

The Cartel Series by Ashley and Jaquavis (Amazon)

Murder Mamas by Ashley and Jaquavis (Amazon)

T’Lyn (Amazon)

Shvonne Latrice (Amazon)

To The Only Thug I’ll Ever Love by K.L. Hall (Amazon)

My Little Love by Charae Lewis (Amazon)

When a Gangsta Calls by Lex C. (Amazon)

Alexandria House (Episode | Amazon)

Alex Warren (Amazon)

Christina C. Jones (Amazon)

Marlee Rae (Amazon)

Bailey West (Amazon)

Tiye Love (Amazon)

Dria Andersen (Amazon |  Episode)

Natavia (Amazon)

Jade Royal (Amazon)

Katrina Jackson (Amazon)

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Why Do We Need to Reclaim the Word "Fat"? In this powerful episode of the podcast, author Leigh Carron opens up about her journey of body positivity, challenging societal norms, and writing romance novels that celebrate bodies of all sizes. Through her personal experiences and literary work, Carron demonstrates how language can be transformed from a weapon of shame to a tool of empowerment.

Leigh Carron writes diverse, body-positive romance that brings the heat and the heart—because love and sexiness come in all shapes, sizes, and colors.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• The evolution of body positivity in literature and media
• Challenging harmful stereotypes about body size
• Reframing the word "fat" as a neutral descriptor
• The importance of self-acceptance and challenging internalized negative thoughts
• Representation matters: Creating diverse characters in romance novels

Remember, your worth is not determined by your size – you are beautiful, powerful, and deserving of love exactly as you are.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

Ep 14 with Aimee - Celebrating Plus-Size Love Stories with Curvy Girls Read Romance

Fat Girl (Amazon)

My Curvy Rival (Amazon)

A Naked Beauty (Amazon)

A.H. Cunningham (Amazon) 

An Imperfect Truth (Amazon)

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Are you ready to expand your reading horizons and discover the transformative power of sapphic literature? Join host Alesia and special guest Sarah in Wanderland as they unravel the complexities of lesbophobia, celebrate queer representation, and explore the transformative power of diverse love stories. 

Sarah has dedicated their platform and voice to dismantling the shame and guilt that can often be associated with reading romance, and to promoting queer romance. After deconstructing from religious purity culture several years ago, they have been on a mission to take the taboo out of finding pleasure in self-exploration and kink, and to find the power that comes from freedom of expression and fulfilled desire.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Understanding Lesbophobia: Learn how lesbophobia intersects with homophobia and misogyny, and why inclusive language matters
• Diverse Representation Matters: Discover why reading sapphic romances from authors of various backgrounds is crucial
• Must-Read Authors: Explore recommendations from Kaylin Baron, Jazz Hammonds, Heather Nicks, and more
• Reading Challenge: Join Sarah's 2025 Sapphic Reading Challenge and expand your literary world
• Therapeutic Power of Reading: Understand how queer literature can be a healing and transformative experience

Challenge yourself to read at least one sapphic romance book this month. Every book you read is an opportunity to understand, empathize, and celebrate the beautiful diversity of human love and experience.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED: 

The Lesbrary

I Heart Sapphic

This Poison Heart by Kalynn Bayron (Amazon)

We Deserve Monuments by Jas Hammonds (Amazon)

Thirsty by Jas Hammonds (Amazon)

Seventh Star Series by Lily X (Amazon)

Heather Nix (Amazon)

Tamara Jerée (Amazon)

The Curse of the Goddess by C.C. González (Amazon)

Down South Bayou by Aricka Alexander (Amazon)

Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner (Amazon)

Delilah Green Doesn’t Care by Ashely Herring Blake (Amazon)

Sapphic Reading Challenge (StoryGraph)

The Tenth Muse Anthology (Amazon)

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What makes a romance novel truly captivating? Join host Alesia Galati as she sits down with bestselling author Dria Andersen to explore the vibrant world of Black paranormal romance, where love, loyalty, and supernatural excitement collide.

Dria Andersen is a paranormal author and photographer who draws inspiration from stories and legends. Her passion lies in writing about Black love and exploring the diverse concept of family.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Writing Journey: Dria began her writing career while pregnant, using self-publishing to bring her stories to life
• Representation Matters: Creating stories with predominantly Black characters that reflect her own community experience
• Unique Shifter Dynamics: Developing shifter worlds where supernatural beings integrate seamlessly into urban settings
• Trauma and Healing: Exploring found family and character growth through nuanced storytelling
• Genre Diversity: Spanning multiple paranormal genres from shifters to vampires and fantasy

Whether you're a romance enthusiast or new to paranormal fiction, Dria Andersen's books offer an immersive experience that celebrates love, community, and supernatural adventure. Dive into her world today and discover why readers can't get enough of her unique storytelling approach.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

The Friend Contract (Amazon)

Haven (Amazon)

Devon (Amazon)

For Her Protection (Amazon)

Claiming April (Amazon)

To Her Rescue (Amazon)

A Destiny Awakened (Amazon)

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Fatphobia and fat shaming are so deeply entrenched in society that traditionally, only a narrow set of beauty standards were represented in romance. Luckily, more and more authors, seeing how unrealistic this is, are transforming the literary landscape by writing curvy, confident, and complex characters that more closely represent their readers. In this episode of the podcast, Alesia sits down with Aimee from Curvy Girls Read Romance as they take a deep dive into body representation in romance books, specifically, celebrating authors who write real, authentic love stories with plus-sized characters. 

Aimee has been a romance reader for a few years now and, in the last year, has been solely focused on plus-sized protagonists. She wanted to see more realistic body types reflected, to see herself in the stories she spent so much time reading. Now Aimee has built a small community on Instagram and surrounded herself with people looking for the same thing. Sharing book recs, trope recs, and author recs and hoping to normalize body positivity.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Finding books with plus-sized representation, both on the cover and within the pages. 
• Be cautious when using the word “curvy,” as it can often be misconstrued.  
• Ways in which plus-size romances go beyond the weight of the character, giving more representation to multifaceted people. 
• Representation has evolved significantly in the last 10 years, with authors being more conscientious of how they write these characters.  
• Indie authors are the ones leading the charge in body-positive storytelling. 

Whether you're a size 2 or 22, romance is about connection, passion, and seeing yourself reflected in stories that celebrate every curve, every stretch mark, and every beautiful, complex human experience. Today's conversation isn't just about books—it's about breaking down barriers and expanding what love looks like.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

CC Monroe (Amazon)

Sloane Spencer (Amazon)

Sleet Kitten by S.J. Tilly  (Amazon)

Kat Baxter (Amazon)

Mia Brody (Amazon)

Anna P. (Amazon)

Nicola Davidson (Amazon)

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Romance reading is evolving, and readers are discovering wild new genres that challenge traditional storytelling. In this podcast episode, Alesia sits down with Cassie from Unfortunate Reads to explore the fascinating world of monster and sentient object romance, breaking down stereotypes and celebrating diverse reading experiences.

Cassie is a sex-positive, feminist, LGBTQIA+ ally who enjoys reading every type of smutty book - from slow burn and mafia romances to straight-up gingerbread man erotica — but what I’m known for is reading the extremely weird/off-the-wall ones (think…clippy/door/flamingo shifter/coronavirus/etc.)

In this episode, we're discussing:

• Sentient object romance isn't just about weird sexual encounters; it's a nuanced genre exploring complex themes
• Reading should be about joy, personal growth, and exploration, not just meeting societal expectations
• Monster and unconventional romance genres provide safe spaces for readers to explore sexuality and identity
• Indie authors are creating incredibly diverse and inclusive narratives within these unique romance subgenres
• Content creators like Cassie are helping readers discover books they might never have found on their own

Don't judge a book by its cover—or its unconventional premise. Expand your reading horizons, challenge your assumptions, and remember that reading is ultimately about connection, understanding, and personal enjoyment.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

Jumping the Shark by Ash Raven (Amazon)

Unhinged by Vera Valentine (Amazon)

Squeak by Vera Valentine (Amazon)

Stuffed by Sylvia Morrow (Amazon)

Handle Me by Unfortunate Reads (Amazon)

Unfortunate Reads (Amazon)

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Are you tired of the same old book reviews and looking for a fresh, authentic perspective on reading? Join host Alesia as she sits down with Lisa, known as BabeInLibrary, for an electrifying conversation that goes beyond traditional book discussions. This episode dives deep into the world of BookTube, romance reading, and the transformative power of diverse literature. 

Lisa is a proud bookish nerd that can be found at any time with a book in her face. She attributes her love of reading to Pizza Hut and the Book It program from her youth. Unfortunately the means she is always seeking a reward or a good girl after she finishes a book. As a proud library card holder since 2000 she dedicated her bookish name to that special place.  You can find her on all social media platforms at babeinlibrary.

In this episode, we're discussing:

• The Evolution of Book Communities: From secret reading to open discussions about spicy romance
• Diversity in Reading: Strategies for intentionally expanding your literary horizons
• BookTube Insights: Behind-the-scenes of content creation and book reviewing
• The Importance of Representation: How diverse books can broaden our understanding of different experiences
• Romance Reading: Breaking stigmas and recognizing the depth of relationship-focused literature

Whether you're a seasoned reader or just starting your literary journey, this episode will inspire you to read more diversely, challenge your reading habits, and discover new voices in the book world. Don't just consume books—let them transform your understanding of human connections.

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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:

Capri's Book Island -  https://www.youtube.com/@caprisbookisland/playlists 

Sharonda Isadaor -  https://www.youtube.com/@sharondaisadora

MoPages - https://www.youtube.com/@MoPages

My Share the Love video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6qUh0h9YGU

Passion by Monica Walters (Amazon)

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