This week we’re asking the question every mum is secretly thinking… how the actual f*ck are mums doing it all?

Work, daycare bugs, finances, marriage, friendships, keeping the house alive, trying to exercise, trying to look semi-human, remembering library day and somehow still replying “all good!” when people ask how we are.

We’re talking about the mental load, the pressure modern mums are under, the guilt, the overstimulation, the unrealistic expectations and the absolute chaos of trying to keep every area of life afloat at once.

A very honest, funny and painfully relatable episode for every mum currently surviving on caffeine, anxiety and pure muscle memory.

Share this with a friend who is also barley coping!

**Trigger Warning**

This episode contains discussions surrounding miscarriage, stillbirth, pregnancy loss and grief. Please listen with caution and take care of yourself while listening.

This week’s episode is one of our most emotional and important conversations yet. We’re talking openly about miscarriage and pregnancy loss the grief, the heartbreak, the silence around it and the reality of trying to move forward afterwards.

We discuss Erins own loss and the emotional and physical impact of her experience. The things people said that helped and why these conversations need to happen more openly.

This episode is raw, honest and deeply personal.

In This Episode:

· Experiencing miscarriage and stillbirth

· Coping with grief and loss

· The mental load after pregnancy loss

· Anxiety around future pregnancies

· Things people should never say after loss

· Finding support and healing

If you or someone you love has experienced pregnancy loss, we hope this conversation reminds you that you are not alone.

In this heartfelt episode, Kiera opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of her firstborn, Lincoln, turning seven.

What started as a birthday celebration quickly became a moment of reflection—looking back at the tiny baby who made her a mum, the sleepless nights, the overwhelming love, and the journey that has brought them both to this chapter.

Kiera shares the unexpected grief that can come with watching your child grow up. Not because you're sad they're thriving, but because every milestone means saying goodbye to a version of them you'll never get back. The baby who needed you for everything. The toddler who held your hand everywhere you went. The little boy who once fit perfectly in your arms.

But alongside the grief is immense pride—watching Lincoln grow into his own person, seeing his confidence, kindness, and personality shine, and realizing that the goal was never to keep him little forever.

If you're in the thick of newborn life, this episode is also for you. Kiera reflects on what she wishes she could tell herself as a first-time mum and shares encouragement for those currently navigating sleepless nights, endless feeds, and wondering if they're doing enough.

In this episode, we chat about:

• The emotions of Lincoln turning 7
• Why motherhood is full of beautiful goodbyes
• Feeling grief for the stages that pass
• The pride that comes with watching your child grow
• What Kiera wishes she knew as a first-time mum
• Advice for mums in the newborn trenches
• Learning to soak up the little moments before they become memories

Whether you're holding a newborn, chasing toddlers, or watching your own babies grow up far too quickly, this episode is a reminder that every stage is fleeting, every season has its challenges, and the love only grows deeper with time.

Because sometimes the hardest part of motherhood isn't the sleepless nights—it's realizing your baby won't stay a baby forever. ❤️

This week, we're coming to you from beautiful Byron Bay with a a few very special guest for a chaotic game of Say It or Shot It!

While away for a kid free night, we decided to put ourselves to the test with the questions everyone wants answered. The rules are simple: answer honestly or take a sip. What could possibly go wrong?

From secrets we've kept and marriage to friendships, dating, embarrassing moments and unpopular opinions, no topic is off limits. With plenty of laughs, unexpected confessions and a few moments that had us questioning whether we should have hit record, this episode is guaranteed to keep you entertained.

Whether you're listening on your morning walk, school drop-off run or with a wine in hand, join us for a fun, unfiltered episode that feels like you're right there in Byron with us.

In this episode:

• A hilarious game of Say It or Shot It
• Honest confessions and hot takes

• Questions we weren't prepared for
• Plenty of laughs and Byron Bay chaos

Grab a drink and play along at home—if you're brave enough!

Friendship can be one of the most beautiful parts of life… but also one of the hardest to navigate.

This week we’re talking all things friendships — the seasons they go through, outgrowing people, ending long-term friendships, and why so many of us stay in relationships long after they stop serving us.

We chat about:

• Friendship breakups and the grief that comes with them
• Growing apart as we change through different stages of life
• Feeling guilty for setting boundaries
• The pressure to hold onto “history” even when the friendship feels heavy
• Knowing when a friendship is no longer healthy
• Why some friendships are only meant for a season
• Advice we’d give our younger selves about friendships, people pleasing, and protecting our peace

A vulnerable, honest and very relatable conversation about friendships, growth, and learning that not every relationship is meant to last forever.

Marriage isn’t always candlelit dinners and effortless connection — sometimes it’s miscommunication, mismatched libidos, and learning how to choose each other again and again. We dive into the tough conversations around low libido, emotional disconnect, and the pressure to “keep the spark alive” — especially when life gets busy, stressful, or overwhelming. Nothing is off-limits, and nothing is sugar-coated. If you’ve ever felt alone in the struggles of long-term love, this episode will remind you that you’re not — and that every relationship has its seasons.

What we cover:

· The reality of marriage vs expectations

· Communication breakdowns and how they show up

· Navigating low libido and intimacy struggles

· Emotional connection vs physical connection

· The small wins that keep a marriage strong

· Choosing your partner even on the hard days

Share With Someone Who:

Is married or in a long-term relationship, Feels disconnected or stuck in routine or Wants a more honest conversation about love and intimacy

Don’t forget to follow, rate, and share the podcast — it helps us reach more people who need these conversations

Before group chats, before streaming, before “just one more episode”… life hit different.

In this episode, we’re rewinding to the early 2000s — a time of dial-up internet, blockbuster movie nights, and using your imagination like it was your full-time job. We’re talking about growing up when “be home before the street lights come on” was the only rule that mattered, and your social life lived outside, not on a screen.

From playing with the neighbour hood kids until dark, to fighting over who got to use the family computer, this is your reminder of a slower, simpler kind of fun.

If you ever rented DVDs on a Friday night, made up games in the street, or heard the sound of the internet connecting… this one’s for you.

In this episode

• What school life was really like in the early 2000s
• Weekend rituals: movie nights and DVD rentals
• Life before Netflix, streaming, and “on demand” everything
• The chaos of dial-up internet and sharing one computer
• Using your imagination as entertainment
• Playing outside until the street lights came on
• How friendships felt different without phones and social media
• Why childhood felt slower (and maybe better?)

• “Do you remember the sound of dial-up internet?”
• “Friday night = what was your go-to routine?”
• “What games did you make up as kids?”
• “How did we survive without phones?”
• “Would you let your kids grow up the same way?”

• Someone picking up the house phone and cutting off the internet
• Rewinding DVDs (or getting charged for not doing it)
• Racing home before it got dark
• Knocking on your friend’s door instead of texting
• Being told to “go outside and find something to do”

“Childhood wasn’t scheduled… it just happened.”

If this episode unlocked a core memory for you, share it with someone you grew up with 🫶
And don’t forget to follow, rate, and review — it helps us keep the nostalgia coming.

Stay connected and keep the conversation going — because honestly… we were just talking.

This episode gets very real.

Erin sits down with a psychic and what unfolds is something none of us expected. From glimpses into the future — more babies? financial shifts? — to deeply emotional moments connecting with loved ones who have passed, this reading takes us on a full journey.

There are messages for her son from great grandfathers, a chance to finally say goodbye to her best friend, and moments that feel a little too specific to ignore…

And then there’s one question we can’t stop thinking about:
…who is Michael?

Whether you’re a believer or just curious, this episode will have you questioning everything.

In this episode

• What actually happens in a psychic reading
• Future predictions: family, babies & money energy
• Emotional connections with loved ones who’ve passed

• Closure, grief, and unexpected healing
• The unexplainable details that hit a little too close
• The mystery of “Michael”…

“Some things you can’t explain… but you feel them.”

If this episode gave you chills or reminded you of someone you love, share it with a friend and don’t forget to follow, rate, and review — it means everything to us.

Stay connected for more conversations that go a little deeper… because we were just talking.

In this episode, we don’t have an agenda. We took the opportunity to sit and catch up with one another.

Discussing Kiera’s child free wedding anniversary weekend, parenting faults, pre menstrual dysphoric disorder and more.

We both have always wanted to do those tik tok challenges where we try not to laugh so we thought we’d rally up some of our lamest jokes or sayings to see who cracks first.

It’s just a feel good episode, raw, real and unfiltered catching up with your hosts.

We’d love to hear from you — what’s your best dad joke? Any weak parenting moments? Do you too suffer from PMDD?If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to follow, rate, or reach out to us on socials.

Take a trip back to the golden era of Aussie house parties—when the drinks were questionable, the phones had no battery, and somehow everyone still made it home (eventually).We’re diving headfirst into 2009–2013 nostalgia: goon sacks on the Hills Hoist, cramming into cars on your Ps, waiting hours for taxis, and waking up tagged in 50 blurry photos on Facebook. If you remember backyard parties getting shut down, late-night runs to McDonald's, and dancing to absolute bangers from LMFAO - this one’s for you.

In this episode:

• Rapid-fire nostalgia questions to trigger your best (and worst) memories

• The chaos of Aussie house parties and how they actually worked

• Life before Uber: taxis, trains, and dodgy lifts

• The drinks we thought were a good idea at the time

• Music, moments, and the stories that still live rent-free in our headsLet us know what your favourite memories are on our socials @wewerejusttalking