In this chaotic catch-up episode of Weddings Unfiltered, we cover everything from destination wedding food poisoning anniversaries to sleeping in separate beds for survival and yes, it only gets more unhinged from there.

We dive into “this is not in my job description” wedding moments (hello, shoemaking and last-minute timeline rewrites), early red flags that signal a spicy wedding day, and the times we had to keep a straight face while internally spiralling. We also talk about boundaries, the ones we learned the hard way from overextending for needy clients to booking too many weddings in one week.

Plus, we unpack wedding planner myths, viral coordinator drama, guest entitlement, and what vendors really wish couples understood about the behind-the-scenes work that makes a wedding day run smoothly.

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In this episode, we kick things off with a very real, very unfiltered chat about living and working through chronic migraines the injections, the triggers, the exhaustion, and why it’s something that needs more awareness in the wedding industry. 

From there, things take a turn into chaos as we play Would You Rather: Wedding Edition, unpacking vendor hot takes on timelines, budgets, venues, weather plans, dream couples vs nightmare clients, and what actually matters on a wedding day. It’s honest, hilarious, slightly unhinged at times, and full of insight into how vendors think, plan, and survive wedding season migraines, geese, and all.

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In this episode, we rip into some of the biggest wedding myths that just won’t die and explain why they cause way more stress (and cost) than couples expect. From the belief that DIY weddings save money, to relying on friends instead of coordinators, skipping seating plans, thinking “we’ll just be chill,” and assuming more expensive automatically means better, we break down what actually happens behind the scenes. 

Drawing from real weddings, real mistakes, and years in the industry, we talk hidden costs, timelines, vendor responsibility, organisation vs chaos, and why a good team is what really makes a wedding feel effortless. Consider this your no-BS reality check before you plan (or panic).

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As we head into 2026, we’re sitting down for an honest, no-BS reflection on what 2025 really taught us as wedding vendors and what we’re consciously taking (and leaving behind) moving forward.

In this episode of Weddings Unfiltered, we talk burnout, being chronically busy, learning when to stop saying yes, and why more weddings doesn’t always mean a better business. We unpack raising prices, building teams, stepping back from being everywhere at once, and redefining success beyond packed calendars and constant hustle.

This is a raw, funny, and emotional conversation about sustainability, energy, family, and longevity in the wedding industry and a 2026 reset for vendors who are tired, ambitious, and ready to do things differently.

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In this episode, we sit down with two floral powerhouses Bec from Belle A Fleur and Deb from Ruby & Dulcie to break down the real differences between fresh and faux flowers. We dive into how each option works behind the scenes, the true costs involved, seasonal limitations, ordering timelines, and why fake flowers aren’t automatically the cheaper choice couples assume they are. 

From stem pricing and supply chains to weather stress, Valentine’s Day chaos, hiring vs buying, and what actually goes into creating wedding florals, this conversation pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood parts of wedding planning. Whether you’re deciding between fresh or fake flowers this episode lays it all out.

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In this episode, we sit down with Bec from Sprinkles 2 Crumbs and Belle A Fleur, who shares what it’s truly like to experience the wedding industry from both sides as a long-time vendor and a recent bride. We talk about secret elopements, planning a wedding in a short timeframe, choosing vendors when you know the industry, and the unexpected pressure that comes with being a wedding professional on your own day. 

From surprise price jumps and venue restrictions to nerves, timelines, communication, and the moment it all becomes real, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what couples are actually feeling. It’s an honest look at expectations versus reality, why communication matters more than perfection, and why having someone in your corner on the day can change everything.

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If you’re planning a wedding and already feel overwhelmed by venues, vendors and timelines this episode might change how you think about the entire experience.

We’re joined by John, owner of The Decoy, a restored heritage paddle steamer turned all-inclusive wedding venue cruising the Swan River. 

In this conversation, John shares the story behind The Decoy and why it was created for couples who want a wedding that feels calm, intentional and genuinely enjoyable without spending the day managing people, decisions, or schedules.

We explore what it’s really like to get married on the water, including:

• How an all-inclusive wedding allows you to be fully present on the day
• What a wedding aboard The Decoy feels like from ceremony through sunset
• Why water, movement, and scenery create noticeably more relaxed couples
• Partnering with Perth’s most trusted wedding vendors to remove stress and decision fatigue

This episode is for engaged couples who want a wedding experience that feels calm, seamless and all-inclusive, so they can focus on being present rather than coordinating the day.

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In this episode, we sit down for an unfiltered catch-up on what the wedding season has really looked like behind the scenes. From finishing a stacked run of weddings to navigating burnout, mistakes on timelines, late vendors, poor communication, and awkward on-the-day chaos, we talk honestly about what vendors deal with that couples never see. 

We unpack the importance of teamwork, owning mistakes early, respecting each other’s roles, and how one small misstep can have a massive ripple effect on a wedding day. This is a real, no-BS conversation about wedding logistics, professionalism, and surviving the busiest part of the season when life is well and truly lifing.

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In this brutally honest episode of Weddings Unfiltered, we dive into the messy, awkward, and often misunderstood world of wedding deposits. From last-minute cancellations to “change of mind” dramas and emotional pressure plays, we spill what really happens behind the scenes when couples cancel and vendors lose thousands.

We unpack why deposits are non-refundable, what vendors actually do before your wedding day, how contracts protect small businesses, and why guilt shouldn’t be part of running a sustainable wedding business. Plus we talk about payment plans, tightened T&C, and the real impact of social media backlash.

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A bridesmaid hijacks a wedding dress appointment with her own engagement… then asks the bride to be her MOH on the podium. 

A venue double-books a couple and offers a “solution” that belongs in jail: a split-day wedding or rescheduling to 2027. 

Plus: a photographer walks out mid-reception and delivers zero photos, a celebrant wasn’t legally registered, and a MIL books her engagement party the night before the wedding so we’re giving unfiltered advice on boundaries, refunds and what to do next.

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