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We're Not Fine episodes

  • Is Your Cell Phone Getting More FaceTime than Your Partner?

    Is your phone the silent intimacy killer in your relationship? If it is your phone addiction that is the problem, you would be the last to know. If it is your partner's mind numbing phone use on the other hand, it is probably all you notice. Doug and Dr Talia discuss how our screen use could be negatively impacting our intimate relationships, and offer baby steps we can take to be intentional with our attention again.

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    28 min
  • Surprising Signs You May Have Had an Emotionally Abusive Parent

    In this Episode Doug and Dr Talia discuss the signs you might not have recognized as a child that your parent was emotionally immature at best, and emotionally abusive at worst. Were they overly moody? Constantly negative and critical of you? Did they invalidate your emotions? Give you the silent treatment? You’re in the right place. Let us walk you through it, and you might decide it is time to talk to someone. You can finally be free of the negative impacts of the emotional abuse.

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    27 min
  • Hey, Couples Sleeping in Separate Rooms, How’s That Going?

    Did you know one in four couples sleep separately? You will be amazed by how these couples describe the experience of intimacy in their relationship. In this episode Dr Talia and Doug discuss the pros and cons of couples sleeping in separate rooms. Great for sleep, terrible for your sex life? Or does the great sleep translate into better intimacy? Tune in to hear what couples are saying!

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    25 min
  • Need a New Year’s resolution? Save your relationship by learning how to “Fight Fair”

    In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia ask some tough love questions about the way you fight. Are you fighting to win? Do you bring up the past? Do you get defensive and shut down? Take a listen and see if there are some ways you can level up the way you fight to strengthen your relationship instead of damage it.


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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    26 min
  • Are we more Honest when we are Drunk? A Holiday PSA!

    In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug agree partially but not totally on whether we are more honest when we are drunk. Are we feeling our deepest darkest repressed resentment but unfiltered enough to finally say something? Well, that never turns out well. Are we no longer able to hide our longing and lust for a coworker at a Holiday Party? The question is whether our frontal lobe turning to mush for the evening helps us unleash our truth, or if what we are unleashing is an immature and distorted exaggeration of the truth and that is why we feel regret in the morning.

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    17 min
  • How Fine Are We with our Partner Liking their Ex’s Stuff Online?

    In this Mailbag Episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on the many angles, caveats and exceptions to whether liking and commenting on your ex’s posts online is actually OK when you’re in a committed relationship. We’d love to hear your take!

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    23 min
  • Mama’s Boy; Hot or Not?

    In this mailbag episode, Dr. Talia and Doug are faced with one woman’s disgust with her boyfriend’s all too close and dependent relationship with his doting mother. On the one hand, how wonderful that he can connect so deeply, that could only be a great sign for your relationship… Right? On the other hand, if he is not capable of fully taking care of himself, are you even dating an adult? Will he be able to take care of you? Or will you be taking his mother’s place?

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    23 min
  • Doug & Dr Talia’s Top 5 Questions for Assessing Your Best Dating Fit vs. Best Marriage Fit

    In this episode, Doug & Dr Talia chose their top 5 favorite questions to ask a potential partner! Some of the answers will tell you if you would be a good fit for a strong and healthy dating relationship, and other questions might help you determine if your personalities, lifestyles and dreams of your future won’t be compatible long-term.

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Email: [email protected]

    IG: @drtaliajackson

    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    32 min
  • Just replace 2023 COVID with the 2024 Election and you will have the same Thanksgiving you had last year! Cheers!

    Happy Thanksgiving WNF Family! We got great feedback about this Turkey Day episode from last year, so we are airing it again. In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug respond to some very relatable Thanksgiving mail bags. Then we tackle the most common stressors of the season with humor and one or two harsh slaps of seasonal realism. We also offer some suggestions about creating your new holiday traditions. Whether the holidays are a time of great heart warming joy and anticipation for you, or dread, loneliness and obligation, we embrace you and want to share it with you. Gobble Gobble!

    We're Not Fine

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    Doug Jensen

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    Dr. Talia Jackson

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    Email: [email protected]

    IG: @drtaliajackson

    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    1 hr 6 min
  • How Chronic Pain Affects our Mental Health and Relationships; LIVE Episode featuring Rhianna Gawrys, CYT, Somatic Yoga Therapist and Pain Specialist, Part 2

    In the second half of this amazing LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia dive into how Rhianna’s history of chronic pain might still be affecting her, and she shares with us the professional knowledge she has gained from both her pain journey and her education. She teaches us about Somatic yoga therapy, and takes us through a powerful exercise in awareness. She gives us tips, tricks & strategies to live a more pain-free life.

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    We're Not Fine

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    Doug Jensen

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    Twitter: dougjensen4Cs



    Dr. Talia Jackson

    Profile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/

    Email: [email protected]

    IG: @drtaliajackson

    Twitter: @Talia.Jackson77

    56 min

About We're Not Fine

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Renowned relationship therapists, Doug Jensen and Dr. Talia Jackson explore the ins and outs of relationships in the new podcast, We’re Not Fine. Exploring relationship boundaries beyond dating, the podcast will also examine relationships with our community, friends, family, marriage and even within oneself. No topic is off limits and our audience is encouraged to submit their own questions to challenge the team and their guests.