WE'RE NOT GOING BACK

By Addie Scharff

May the progress women who came before us made, or the rights they went without, never be forgotten or taken for granted.

Inspired by the likes of Susan B. Anthony, Madam C.J. Walker, and most recent... more

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The podcast currently has 162 episodes available.

WE'RE NOT GOING BACK episodes:

October 15, 2024 EP 151: OUR ‘SECRET’ MANUALS
The following statement gave me cause for deep contemplation…
“We hurt our own feelings by thinking we mean more to people
than we really do.”

I agree up to the ‘thinking’
part, but not on the ‘mean more’ part… that part we actually do not know, and will never know.

Other related Podcast Episode(s):
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-90-self-imposed-misery/id1597656935?i=1000624439287

IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive
relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours:
24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text
START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM:
@women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠

PRIVATE FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠
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23min
October 08, 2024 EP 150: PROPHECIES
There are TWO kinds of prophesies…
Self-fulfilling, and SELF (no dash, meaning YOU) fulfilling prophesy.
Instead of being swept into a prophesy you want no part
of, create your own freakin’ prophesy!
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here
LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM:
@women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠

PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
18min
October 01, 2024 EP 149: EMOTIONS AUDIT
Where do emotions/feelings come from?
We often think it’s from what’s happening around us… circumstances (others/jerks, traffic, government, poverty, etc).
Enjoy this emotions audit, I think you will find it very useful!!
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below) ⁠
Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
24min
September 24, 2024 EP 148: WHEN IS "ENOUGH" ENOUGH?
When is “enough” enough?
For me it’s… ALWAYS, and NEVER!
Sometimes for me it is enough not to have to leave the comfort of my home to earn money to meet my basic needs.
Other times… let’s talk about why "enough" is not always enough.
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
18min
September 17, 2024 EP 147: CALMNESS IS POWER
When we lose control of our emotions, we give our power away to another person, or a circumstance!
Being able to manage our temper is a sign of a good leader, a kind person, a person that can be trusted.
Losing our cool is a sign of having low self-esteem, where we take things personally, to our own detriment, and make others miserable!
Being able to control our emotions, especially negative ones, is good for everyone!
Let’s practice and model calmness, and let’s not surrender our personal power to anyone or anything.

IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t
feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
28min
September 10, 2024 EP 146: CONTRAST AWARENESS
Being aware of the contrast difference between us, can help us see and appreciate not being something we don’t like to see in the world.
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠

PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below) ⁠
Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
34min
September 03, 2024 EP 145: GROWTH & EVOLUTION + REMIX OF #113
[Stay to the end for a funny Ep 113: The Fires We Burn
edit/remix by my husband!]
Growth and evolution are humanity’s nature, an innate desire… we can count on that forever.
How do I know if I want to grow & evolve?
If you feel stagnant, bored, sad, wish to do things you see others do but you think you can’t do.
How do I know what my purpose is?
We humans have MANY purposes at different phases of life. We have seasons… birth, teen, wife, mom, adult, a senior, etc. These are some clues.
We have different starting and ending points to our seasons as well.
Finding what our purpose(s) is for US…
You will feel it… unfulfillment, feeling there should be more to life, etc.
Follow your desires, search what your soul is calling you to do, to experience, to share, to leave behind!!

IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
Learn more here

Let’s connect on social media!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
Women Rising Together | Facebook

...more
19min
August 27, 2024 EP 144: THE IDEA STORE
First, the “how” of unlocking the key to anything we want in life keeps being revealed to us over and over, but we keep missing the opportunity to grab it!
You/we all have ideas that pop up as we go about our everyday lives, all of us do… but what do most of us do with them? NOT a thing!
We also miss many ideas that are floating around everywhere… example: how to pay off your mortgage, improve our marriage, etc.
Also: You ever talk to someone and mention an idea?? that
you think they would benefit from and they say something, “Oh, yes” and it appears as though they already know it, but are not doing anything about it? WE ALL do that.
Earl Nightingale referred to it as “know-it-alls with
unpaid debts and empty bank accounts”!
So: Let’s put our thinking & listening caps on and be on the lookout, not for ideas/breakthroughs and being ready to receive them… the ideas WILL come!
BE ready for your brain to say NO/disregard the idea as a
good one… it will come up with a list of why an idea is not good.
Ideas are always coming (from outside & INSIDE of us), but willing to seize them/say yes! Listen to the part on my video on investing in Real Estate and paying off your mortgage.
Not all ideas will be good, but we won’t know unless we try them (52/year).
Always have FUN.
LOVING something is a win/win (fashion, shopping, home
organizing, home decor, garden design), and you can do it all or most of it ONLINE!
HUGE change may not come overnight, but it will come…
it’s like working out and progress is not visible right away.
Things will get EASIER.
Use your phone’s NOTEs app.
I’m doing it, I’m going… even if it’s a snail’s pace, but I’m going!
Are you coming?
Let’s go!!!

IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

Let’s connect on social media!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
31min
August 20, 2024 EP 143: THE BOSS OF YOU
We’ve all seen (and been) people who believe that our
life’s results are outside of our control.
My hope is that, if you are thinking that now, from now
on you never again believe that your destiny is in someone else’s hands and not your own.
No one is in charge of us and our lives…
Not our work boss
Not our government
Not our husband
Not our parents, after 18
We do not ever HAVE to do anything if don’t want to… not
even a job, or that job! There’s power in knowing this!
I decide what work to do, who I marry, or NOT marry.
If I don’t like the work I do I can acquire a new skill
and get a new job.
If I don’t like how little money I make, I can increase
the quality of the value I can provide and get paid more for that value.
Even at work I’m always my own boss, because I’m in
charge of where I work, and what work I do… I AM IN CHARGE OF ME ALWAYS!
My work boss is in charge of him/herself and his/her job,
not me, that’s my job.
So now knowing and remembering that you’re always in
charge of all aspects of your life, how will you move forward?
Will you stay WHERE you are and HOW you are, or are you going to choose a new direction, a new horizon?
The whole point of this episode is to not stay stuck, by
choice!
So, let’s plan and let’s go!

IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t
feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

Let’s connect on social media!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook

...more
18min
August 13, 2024 EP 142: THE "VICTIM" CARD
What’s the difference between real and self-imposed victimization?
Our thoughts!
In the movie Room, as little Jack reads the line
“For you see, out-of-the-way things had happened
lately, that Alice begun to think that very few things
indeed were really impossible.”
From the book Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, this
girl’s thoughts changed in one instant, although she had been, and most importantly had believed she was a victim.
Compare this to times in your life when you felt like a
victim, and how you acted… it was something someone said or did, or something happened.
What’s the difference between a victim and a victor?  The way we think.
We see this in movies all the time, but we know that art
imitates life.
How can we retell our story in a way that we are victors,
not victims? Even when (and especially when) we are also the villain.
Things to consider if you’ve felt like a victim, a prisoner, when in fact the door was wide open:
1.     Own your part in having co-created your current state (bad choices, over eating, wrong guy, over spending) … feeling powerless!
2.     Decide to own your future journey from here on out
3.     Own when you don’t take action… don’t blame external circumstances
4.     Adapt (start) an attitude of “I got myself into this, I’ll get myself out it”
5.     Use your influence, your VISION (The Power of Vision Ep 97), your VOICE… take action and SPEAK your future into being.
6.     It’s ok to experience pain, but don’t allow it to become part of you, don’t carry it!
Travel LIGHT!!
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and you don’t
feel safe, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
⁠Learn more⁠ here

Let’s connect on social media!
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
⁠https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/⁠
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
WomenRisingTogether2021 (link below)
⁠Women Rising Together | Facebook⁠

...more
25min

FAQs about WE'RE NOT GOING BACK:

How many episodes does WE'RE NOT GOING BACK have?

The podcast currently has 162 episodes available.